Wishlist #1063

9/5/2016

Before I begin ‘Jab stubborn’ in this list, I want to add a music video to start this advice off. The music video I have chosen is from the opening titles of the tv series ‘Stingray(1985-1987)’, starring celebrity Nick Mancuso as Stingray. The 1st reason why I recommend you watch the opening titles of ‘Stingray’ is because, if you have read and found useful Wishlist #1057, the ‘Time loop’ idea, then some of you, both kids and adults, have probably already watched the ‘Stingray’ theme song. In the video, there is a scene where Stingray using some sort of color filtering and effect is wearing sunglasses, and the words ‘IDENTITY: UNKNOWN’ is in the front of that image. Later in the video, a similar image is in the background with the words ‘OCCUPATION: UNKNOWN’ is in front of it. I’m guessing that many of you have imagined several of your friends, classmates, and co-workers in that similar situation, wearing the sunglasses, and the gist of those words were in front of their color filtered image.

The 2nd reason I recommend that you watch that ‘Stingray’ video is because, according to web site www.imdb.com, in 1986, the ‘show’ won a Primetime Emmy for Outstanding Graphic and Title Design. Betty Green was given the specific credit for Graphic Design. That means that the video may be entertaining for you to watch. It’s not just about celebrity Nick Mancuso.

The 3rd reason is that, it is my opinion that it is a healthy thing to interpret other people with a little mystery. It is my recommendation that you don’t quantify others too definitively. The ‘Stingray’ video, I believe, can help you add a little mystery to those you evaluate.

The 4th reason, even though I’m just guessing that some of you watched the ‘Stingray’ video because of the ‘Time loop’ idea, I wanted to make the recommendation of the video ‘official’, and not just rely on my guesswork.

[Since I already spent I think it was about 2 hours looking for a music video to recommend, I’m going to stop now and start explaining bookmark ‘Jab stubborn’ either tomorrow or Wednesday.

I forgot to mention where to watch the ‘Stingray’ music intro. Go to www.youtube.com, type or copy and paste ‘stingray nick mancuso opening titles’ in it’s search engine, and the music video should be the 1st selection, the one with over 90 thousand views.(9/14/2016: I am assuming that all of the ‘Stingray’ episodes on youtube have such an introduction. There was another ‘Stingray’ introduction that I watched that had a changed intro than the original one I recommended. I only recommended you one in case you didn’t know where to find one).

9/6/2016

OK. Because of Labor Day, the 1st Monday in September, is a public holiday, the post office wasn’t open on this past Monday. For the point I am trying to make, that means that the Blu-rays and DVDs I rent by mail to the PO box I also rent will probably be delivered one day late, probably this Wednesday, and that means I have to try and finish bookmark ‘Jab stubborn’ today, because I don’t know if I’ll have enough time tomorrow.

1st, I call it ‘Jab stubborn’ sort of as a courtesy, since when I discovered the ‘stubborn’ idea, it was also during the time I invented the ‘Jab’ bookmark. However, after a week or so of using the ‘Jab’ idea, I pretty much don’t use bookmark ‘Jab’ anymore. I don’t need to say ‘Jab’ contemplationally. I anticipate that you, also, no longer need to ‘say’ the word ‘Jab’ as much as you used to. I still believe that it is in your favor to know what ‘Jab’ means, and that it is even better that you no longer need to contemplationally ‘say’ it. So, what I’ll do is start explaining ‘Stubborn’ separately from bookmark ‘Jab’, and I also anticipate that you will only ‘say’ the word ‘Stubborn’ for a short period of time. However, what I will recommend for you to learn from bookmark ‘Stubborn’, in my opinion, could be very important for you. For example, even though I invented bookmark ‘Stubborn’ let’s say a month ago, I still use certain aspects of that idea even now.

Here is the primary idea that ‘Stubborn’ comes from. ‘Stubborn’ comes from this primary idea, and after I explain ‘Stubborn’, I plan to explain a few more ideas that come from this primary idea. Basically, according to this primary idea, an instigator may improperly impose upon you to experience a feeling that the instigator wants you to become, and the ‘idea’ is to simply, at least at first, to allow yourself to more objectively sense this feeling that the instigator wants you to sense WITHOUT becoming that feeling. Now, I believe many people in America, when they experience such a feeling, since the feeling comes from them, they will very likely become that feeling. Let’s start with a simple, universal example. A brother, 2 years old, sees his sister, 9 months old, cry, and because the brother sees his sister cry, he also cries. In the 2nd example, a man, who doesn’t have a practiced technique to cope with instigation(I’m assuming not everyone does) experiences something caused by another person, a certain feeling during some sort of discussion, and because that feeling comes from him, he automatically becomes that feeling. Nothing inappropriate, of course. It’s just a feeling that is associated with a certain contemplation.

Now, the 3rd example may not be suitable for everyone, because there is some bad language involved. Sadly, since I want to type this idea now, this is the best example I can think of for the 3rd example. Of course, I plan to type the usual disclaimer at the end of this advice, but the bad language use is quite pronounced, so if you can’t use that reference, then don’t. The example is from movie ‘Burnt(2015)’. According to Amazon Video(unfortunately, if you plan to use Amazon to see that movie, it only has a ‘buy’ option. You can’t rent it. Of course, if you already have the movie, you can use that. You can also rent that movie, but that takes time. If you want to see the example now, the movie ‘Burnt’ is available from Amazon Video to buy. I’m not obligating you to buy that movie. I’m just letting you know). Anyway, according to Amazon Video, the example starts 34 minutes and 50 seconds into the movie, when Adam Jones(Bradley Cooper) is talking to Helene(Sienna Miller). I used ‘Captions On’ to type the quote. Here is the quote:

Adam Jones:-‘Apologize to the turbot ’cause it died in vain.’

After exhaling, Helene begins to apologize to the turbot.

Helene:-‘Turbot, I sincerely apologize…(chuckles).’

Anyway, here is my refurbished for advice interpretation of what happened during that conversation with Mr. Jones and Helene. Helene actually verbally apologized to the turbot. That means that Helene is sincerely trying to do what Mr. Jones is telling her what to do. So, in spite of what she ‘feels’, she still apologized to the fish, she still is trying to do what the boss is telling her to her. However, Helene also uses her stubbornness to correct things that are not as efficient, even though the boss did not approve of such corrections. Helene has certain ideas in her mind that she manifests without the approval of the boss, Mr. Jones. And so, what happens after she apologized to the turbot is that she starts to lose control of her ability to do what the boss says, and she starts relying on her sense of stubbornness to talk to her boss. In spite of the bad language used in the movie, that fact that Helene is talking back at her boss as her boss is trying to talk to her is an obvious indicator that she is using her stubbornness to talk to her boss. And finally, Mr. Jones does something that gives more to Helene’s sense of justification and stubbornness: He grabs her by the shirt, pushes her away, berates her, and fires her. That caused Helene to not only feel something, but to become whatever it is that she is feeling. Helene tells her boss ‘Don’t ever touch me again.'(original phrase refurbished for advice), and then she leaves.

That’s not the end of the reference. The next scene starts 38 minutes and 12 seconds into the movie, when Tony(Daniel Bruhl), Adam’s boss, is apologizing to Helene. It’s an apology I have never heard before in my life. Not only is Tony explaining how much of a messed up life Adam had, Tony is also offering to double Helene’s salary. Here’s a quote. The scene starts 38 minutes and 48 seconds into the movie:

Tony:-‘And I’ll double your salary.’

Helene:-‘He already tripled it.’

Tony:-‘Well… then it’s times three and then times two.’

Now, after you see that scene, when Helene agrees to go back, you can go back and see that example again where Adam and Helene are arguing, and you should be able to see more how Helene tried to not become what she was feeling, but Adam was very persistent to cause her to become a certain sense of feeling.

[It’s 7:09 PM EST where I’m at, and since I copied stuff on the Tivo? player, not a recommendation for this advice, but I copied that Comedy Central Roast of Rob Lowe that they aired during Labor Day, and I want to see that, and I want to go through the other stuff in the Tivo?. So, hopefully, I will try to finish this idea tomorrow. See you then!

9/7/2016

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For example 4, the final example for this idea, part of this example is to explain to you the gist of what bookmark ‘Stubborn’ means, as it relates to the primary idea, which is to have the ability to not just become what you feel, or at least have more objectivity with how you feel, as it relates to experienced instigations and it’s inadvertencies, and when you choose to, of course. Let’s say you are having a discussion with an instigator, and during that discussion, the instigator causes you to experience an amped up sense of justification and stubbornness(fixed or set in purpose or opinion; resolute). And let’s say, just as an example, that the instigator wanted you to feel a sense of justification and stubbornness because, not only will you feel that sense of stubbornness, but you will also become that sense of stubbornness. The purpose of this example is to allow you to have the ability to be more objective when you feel a circumstantially induced sense of stubbornness caused by the instigator, to be more objective about it, to decide involvement and purpose for it, not to just become the stubbornness you are feeling, which, by the way, if you noticed, the instigator has influenced somewhat how you experienced that sense of stubbornness.

Now, when I started practicing to be more objective with how I feel a sense of stubbornness, I discovered that instigations can also project upon you notions that are emphasized by stubbornness. It is my belief that these projections don’t have the obvious familiarity of the stubbornness that you experience from yourself when you get into an argument or disagreement with an instigator. I believe such projections of stubbornness are presented in a context that contradicts or exploits how you interpret your own sense of stubborness, that, not coincidentally, was imposed by an instigation to begin with. If you are an adult, and you have experienced mild to moderate instigations already from strangers, just think of a few of those mild to moderate instigations that contradict how you sense your own imposed stubbornness, and there’s your possible proof, or at least something that may allow a speculation to exist, that instigators may be projecting a sense of stubbornness upon you that is trying to exploit how you interpret your own sense of adversely influenced stubbornness.

I just thought about it 20 seconds or so ago, and the best example for example 4, and it’s not my favorite example because I planned to give you another example, is yet again the movie ‘Burnt’, when Adam caused Helene to apologize to the turbet. In my opinion, and refurbished for advice, I believe that Adam used a sense of stubbornness to cause Helene to apologize to the turbet. However, when you see that scene in the movie, it didn’t matter at that moment, since Helene laughed soon after she said the apology. Although, at the time she experienced that, the result of Helene getting fired was partly due to the fact that Adam was able to get Helene to apologize to that fish. I don’t think Helene would ever see it that way. Anyway, earlier in the movie, when Adam hired Helene to work for him, he knew that Helene has a stubborn temper.

Now, the example I wanted to give for example 4 regarding stubbornness is from movie ‘Star Trek: First Contact’, refurbished with inapproprieities removed for advice, of course.

[I’m going to stop now, but I plan to finish this idea this coming Tuesday or Wednesday of next week. Well, I tried to finish the idea, and I did give you more information. See you then!

9/14/2016

Attitude commit:

Stop the presses!(I imagine that’s what an editor-in-chief of a newspaper would say if he/she wanted to change what was in the newspaper). I invented a bookmark yesterday that I believe has some attention span, and could be useful to you. However, it’s presentation of understanding is not as developed. Still, having the words first and more understanding later is, in my opinion, the best course of action available to me to offer you. Therefore, this idea I am going to explain to you called ‘Attitude commit’ may not be as conveniently understanding as other ideas, but I think having the words first can help you prepare for the meaning better.

So, here is the definition of ‘Attitude commit’: An instigator may improperly impose some sort of odd behavior whose purpose is to cause you to use your associated attitude to that odd behavior to be the solution to that odd behavior. For example, if an instigator presents to you an instigation that is odd/unusual to you, the attitude you experience at that moment is encouraged by the instigation to be solution/answer to that odd behavior presented to you.

One obvious trick that I have imagined an instigator may use to cause you to use your own sense of attitude as if it were the solution to the instigation, and clearly, the purpose of using your own sense of attitude is that the attitude used as a solution to that particular instigation would not work in a preferred context, one obvious trick is that the instigator would try to use your own logic against you. The solution is to keep in mind that, when you try to more tenably experience such instigations, and for some reason you choose to resolve some of them, keep in mind what your available knowhow is. Since this is standard demographic advice, I believe that, most of the time, the only available knowhow you have is your own. After all, we’re talking about mild to moderate instigations. For the kids, of course you may have some sort of group to talk about your instigation problems. However, you may also try to resolve other, let’s say minor forms of instigation on your own. When the available knowhow is only your own knowhow, when you would recall such an instigation, the instigator may cause you to rely on knowhow that is not of your own, such as an impression of knowhow that comes from the instigator him/herself. Here’s an illustrated example, refurbished for advice. In episode 1.5 ‘Where No One Has Gone Before’ from sci-fi series ‘Star Trek: The Next Generation(1987)’, according to Amazon Video, the scene is located 12 minutes and 28 minutes into the episode. Here is a quote:

Picard(Patrick Stewart):-‘Data, what distance have we traveled?’

Data(Brent Spiner):-‘2 million, 7 hundred thousand light years, sir.’

Picard:-‘I can’t accept that.’

Data:-‘You must, sir. Our comparisons show it to be completely accurate.’

Geordi:-‘and I calculate that at maximum warp, sir, it would take over 300 years to get home.’

Let me try to put it another way, in the form of someone able to not choose the attitude that is introduced to that person. I probably have seen such an example several times on tv, but I don’t remember where those examples are. Let’s say that a man is confronted with something that is odd, but is not meant to be an instigation. Let’s say another man presented to that man something that is unusual to believe. And so, the man who is being presented such an odd proposal says to the other man quote-‘Did the company(so and so) put you up to this?’, or citing a few people specifically, meaning that maybe the odd proposal was a joke, not meant to be taken seriously. OK, in that unusual context, I do have an illustration. It is from episode 5.26 ‘Time’s Arrow: Part 1’ from sci-fi series ‘Star Trek: The Next Generation(1992)’. Refurbished for advice, the scene according to Amazon Video begins 38 minutes and 58 seconds into the episode, when Guinan(Whoopi Goldberg) said to Data(Brent Spiner) quote:

Guinan:-‘Did my father send you here? Because if he did, you must go back and tell him I’m not done listening to…’

Data:-‘I was not sent by your father.’

So, the Picard example, the man thinking it was a joke example, and the Guinan example, all show people who are able to choose not to use the attitude presented to them as part of the solution to their predicament. Those are just 3 basic examples of people not specifically using the attitude introduced to them. It is not the solution for the addressed instigation. I’m just trying to show you what it may be like. Now, when you experience the instigation identified by bookmark ‘Attitude commit’, even though you do not want to accept the use of attitude as a solution to the experienced instigation, you still use that sense of attitude as a solution to that instigation. One indicator that you are is the fact that you are bothered by that instigation, when it happens, and some time afterwards.

The solution to instigation identified by bookmark ‘Attitude commit’ is to simply practice using bookmark ‘Attitude commit’ when you suspect that an instigation wants you to use the associated attitude as a solution. So, for example, you experience an odd/unusual instigation, and it bothers you somewhat, you can contemplationally use bookmark ‘Attitude commit’, so that the associated attitude is not used as the solution to that instigation. The more you practice, the more experience you will gain to help you build the effectiveness of this idea. Also, I plan to give you more information to help you use this idea.

[I want to finish this idea now, because quite frankly, I want to begin a new idea. So, instead of adding more words to bookmark ‘Stubborn’, I’m going to close this idea now and start bookmark ‘Unattended’ in the next list.

Violence and viewer discretion for tv show ‘Stingray’. Viewer discretion for movie ‘Burnt’. Violence and viewer discretion for sci-fi movie ‘Star Trek: First Contact’ and sci-fi tv series ‘Star Trek: The Next Generation’. Use refurbished for advice references only. Throw away rest of episode, series, and movie. [Use mental bookmarks ‘Stubborn’ and ‘Attitude commit’ for reference, allocation, and prevention when needed.