9/7/2019

My boss, your partner… the game goes on.

(said as a greeting. I’m still using episode 7.13 ‘Their Last Bow’ from season ‘Elementary(2019)’, but I wanted to change the greeting. That is a quote from Ellory(Wrenn Schmidt) talking to Joan(Lucy Liu). According to Amazon Video, that scene starts 25 minutes and 47 seconds into the episode. In my opinion, when you say that phrase to another, it sounds like a language that is encouraged to be used.)

It is now 11:36 AM EST for me. The music video I have chosen for this advice is called ‘Slow Fade’ by Ruth B. I found it clicking publisher ‘TopMusicMafia’ in www.youtube.com, category ‘New Songs of the Week – February 2, 2019’. I started with the latest ‘New Songs of the Week’ that they had available, the ‘July 26’ one, and I could not find one, not until I reached ‘February 2’. The preview for February 2 for music video ‘Slow Fade’ starts 2 minutes and 11 seconds into the selection. To watch music video ‘Slow Fade’ for free, search in www.youtube.com phrase ‘ruth b slow fade’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with over 3 million views. It was published on Jan. 25, 2019. Ruth B. does have a wikipedia page, but it only verifies that she was involved in that single. In my opinion, the song is mellow, and it relaxes you. I watched it for the 1st time earlier today. When I think of it, I imagine non managerial women in general while they are working and in a relaxing state, even though their thoughts are private and not broadcasted to others, they still try to think in a considerate state. I imagine some? of them thinking of song ‘Slow Fade’ as they are working in a relaxed state. So, when I imagine looking at certain women, for example, the one’s that have desk jobs, and they’re in a relaxed mood, I imagine that they’re thinking of song ‘Slow Fade’ by Ruth B., and as I imagine that happen, it sometimes makes me feel relaxed, too, in the context that they are trying to be considerate and they are also relaxed.

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Here’s a quote from the lyrics ‘Slow Fade’:

So I been waiting for that slow fade
Kinda hoping that you won’t stay
There’s no color in us lately
And it’s too hard to say
I been praying that we’ll lose our love in slow fade

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Help:

In Wishlist #1165, I recommended to you idea ‘Public servant'(3/23/2019). I recommended that you imagine making a request to 2 fictional characters in the ‘Blade Runner’ movies, which would give you the ability to have more of an active sense of ‘help continuity’, when you chose to do so. This idea is directed towards the teenage boys and men who imagine helping women. It is my belief that certain instigations and inadvertencies may cause you to imagine helping women who have unusually challenging situations. Even in a standard demographic context, I can still address certain situations that teenage boys and men would be very eager to think about. Of course, such situations are privately imagined, but many such situations begin in a presentable context. Keep in mind that this idea called ‘Help’ is based on my own experiences imagining such situations, and since I am also a man, I believe I have some say in the matter, although I am not professionally giving advice.

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I forgot to say that I did say last week that I would explain idea ‘Resist’, but I thought of this idea ‘Help’ yesterday, and I did mean to type this idea in. I invented idea ‘Help’ I think several months ago, and I believe I should explain idea ‘Help’ before I explain idea ‘Resist’.

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The best illustration for idea ‘Help’ that I can think of is near beginning of movie ‘Mortdecai(2015)’, starring Gwyneth Paltrow as Johanna Mortdecai, and Ewan McGregor as Inspector Alistair Martland. The movie is available as a streaming purchase for about 8 dollars Standard Definition from Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, that scene starts 27 minutes and 39 seconds into the movie, Mrs. Johanna Mortdecai and Inspector Martland are talking. Here is the quote:

Johanna: ‘Oh God. How thoughtless of me. You’re on duty.’

Inspector Martland: ‘And in charge, thank you very much. To what do I owe the pleasure?’

Johanna: ‘I was just in the neighborhood and thought I’d pop ’round, and see how you secret agent men run the world.’

Inspector Martland: (chuckles) ‘Not nearly. Although it is terribly vital work. It’s not all Chardonnay and afternoon trysts.’

Johanna: ‘Is this a tryst?’

Inspector Martland: ‘No, no. No, no, no, no, no. (chuckles awkwardly) No, no, no, no. No, no, no, no. No, no, no. No, I was just, um…’

Johanna: ‘Of course, you were.’

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And here’s a quote from wikipedia about Inspector Martland and Johanna:

‘ Martland, who has been in love with Johanna since college… ‘

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It is my belief that many men in America who have been instigated by women have been experiencing unusually encouraging contemplations involving helping women in unusual circumstances. In the ‘Mortdecai’ situation, Inspector Martland, who has been in love with Johanna since college, is being given a request from Johanna to help her, and I think this is the best example I can think of of a man who is experiencing an unusual encouragement to eagerly help a woman. The difference is that that man is also an Inspector, meaning that I am assuming he has training to help the general public individually. For example, doctors and lawyers are able to individually help people in the context of their jobs. So, the men that I’m talking about are people that don’t have such professional training and resourcefulness to help individuals. That doesn’t necessarily mean that they are not capable of helping women. That just means, in the context of my explanation, that if they experience certain instigations from women, that that they may act like the way Inspector Martland acts towards Johanna contemplationally.

Here’s a question for the advice: If possibly millions of men have such unusually eager contemplations to help women in a certain context, then what is the problem? The problem is that such contemplations, even though many men eagerly pursue such contemplations, such contemplations may also be unusually distracting to such men. I guess it could be seen as like having a certain app in your smart phone that is slowing down the performance of your cell phone too much, and so you choose to delete it, since you also don’t need it.

Since I offered you that ‘Public servant’ idea in Wishlist #1165, that idea may allow such people to pursue such contemplations to help women in such entertaining circumstances. However, those circumstances were influenced by certain instigations from certain women. And it is my concern that you may lose some of your needed focus to think of such situations. Here is another quote from the movie ‘Mortdecai’, Johanna and Inspector Martland are again talking: The scene starts near the end of the movie, 1 hour, 33 minutes, and 10 seconds into the movie:

Johanna: ‘Any blame here should fall on me. Dear Alastair, if I led you to believe there was anything between us, it was merely to find out about the case and protect my husband. Can you forgive me?’

Inspector Martland: ‘Of course, Johanna.’

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So, in that scene, Johanna admits to causing Inspector Martland into having such eager concerns to help her. Those concerns were influenced by Johanna. Even though you may eagerly pursue such contemplations with helping women, those contemplations may have been influenced by certain instigations from certain women, and not in a good way. And that is what I am trying to help you with. For those teenage boys and men who do not have the benefit of some sort of professional experience to help individuals, I recommend that you add to your concerns for such women something that also offers them help, but in more of an objective context. For example, you may add to your contemplations objective help in the form of services available to the public, that people in general may use if they choose to. I got the idea from watching channel ‘NHKHD’. It’s a collection of tv shows presented in English, but talk about Japanese culture and Japanese related innovations. Many of the tv shows that I choose to watch talk about Japanese innovations and certain technologies in general that are offered to the general public. For example, recently, one show in channel ‘NHKHD’ talked about a certain are in Japan being very hot and humid. It showed people using some sort of hand held electric fan, instead of the traditional fan that you would move with your hand. I think the show said the fan was about $20 dollars, and they were regularly sold out in Japan. It makes sense. If you experiencing the occasional humidity in your area, a portable electric fan may give you some comfort.

So, since you are just imagining helping such women, just also add to your contemplations additional help for them that you can give generalistically. You may imagine that the public available help is acceptable enough for her to use. To help you get a feel of what publicly available help is like, and if you have cable tv, here’s a list of shows that I have in the cable box for channel NHKHD that may be useful to you:

Rising, Great Gear, Document 72 Hours, Her Story, Direct Talk, Spirit of Japan, Catch Japan

Tv show ‘Easy Japanese For Work’ I have programmed to copy. It’ not in there yet.

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You don’t have to actually watch the entire episodes. You can just ‘fast forward’ through them and watch what interests you.

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[It’s now 2:27 PM EST for me. That’s all I’ll type in for idea ‘Help’ in this list. I’m going to add a disclaimer now. Since it’s still early, if I find another music video quickly, I can begin explaining another idea called ‘Pertain’ later today. I just invented idea ‘Pertain’ this past Wednesday, just a few days ago. So, in my mind, the epiphany is still new. So, if you are there, I’ll see you later today.

[9/7/2019: I’ve changed my mind. Instead, I’ll use my free time to watch some www.funimation.com Japanese anime. I looked at it’s website yesterday, and I found a tv show called something like ‘Cyborg 009’, and it looks like tv shows ‘Ghost in the Shell’ and ‘Psycho Pass’. I watched it’s preview, and it talks about 9 people who were converted into cyborgs. Based on the preview, I’m going to see that. I’m not recommending that you watch it as part of the advice for this blog. I just thought maybe you would want to know. So, new plan: I will explain idea ‘Pertain’ next Saturday, unless there’s an idea I’ll invent that’s better. So, if you are there next Saturday, I’ll see you then.

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Rated R violence and viewer discretion for movie ‘Mortdecai’. Use only refurbished for advice references recommended. Throw away rest of movie. [Use mental bookmark ‘Help’ for reference, allocation, and prevention when needed.