10/19/2019

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[10/21/2019: I chose to delete the original greeting, for the sake of the future kids. The original greeting was only out for 3 days:

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My boss, your partner… the game goes on.

(said as a greeting. I’m still using episode 7.13 ‘Their Last Bow’ from season ‘Elementary(2019)’. That is a quote from Ellory(Wrenn Schmidt) talking to Joan(Lucy Liu). According to Amazon Video, that scene starts 25 minutes and 47 seconds into the episode.) 10/21/2019]

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It is now 1:03 PM EST for me. The music video that I recommend for this advice and have watched for the 1st time less than a half an hour ago is called ‘Nice to Meet Ya’ by Niall Horan. Here’s a quote from the song’s wikipedia page:

“Nice to Meet Ya” is a song by Irish singer Niall Horan, released through Capitol Records ss the lead single from his upcoming second studio album on 4 October 2019. Horan co-wrote the track with Ruth-Anne Cunningham in one day.

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And here is a quote from a review from web site rte.ie about song ‘Nice to Meet Ya’. I found the review in google:

‘ Accompanied by a simple 90’s piano riff, Horan adopts a husky voice and sings fondly of a fickle lover who aimless drops in and out of his life. As he compliments and sweet talks this mysterious woman in the second verse, his lively band join in and bring a heavier tone to the mix. ‘

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And here is a quote from the lyrics:

Nice to meet ya, what’s your name?
Let me treat you to a drink
Nice to meet ya, where ya been?
(I got love for you, I got love for you)
Let me treat you to a drink
(I got love for you, I got love for you)

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I found the music video from a commercial in the beginning of one of those music videos I was considering earlier today. In www.youtube.com, I was looking in publisher ‘Vevo’, category ‘Pop-Teen!’. Currently, ‘Pop-Teen!’ has 239 videos, and I was about to look at #18, by Kylie Cantrall, ‘I Do My Thing’, but before that happened, a 14 second ad appeared about Niall Horan’s music video, ‘Nice To Meet Ya’. Since I liked it, I opened up another window for youtube, and searched for phrase ‘niall horan’. According to the selection, music video ‘Nice To Meet Ya’ premiered Oct 4, 2019, about 2 weeks ago. It already has over 13 million views in about 2 weeks!

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I made a new idea this past Thursday, 10/17/2019, and I believe I can try to explain it, but in a context that gives you a prospect. According to dictionary.com, ‘prospect’ means ‘an apparent probability of advancement, success, profit, etc.’ It is better for me to explain certain other ideas before explaining this new idea, but to do so may take maybe 4-6 Saturdays to explain them all. So, instead of doing that, I’m presenting this new idea to you as a ‘prospect’. The other ideas that I will explain after this one should compliment this new idea.

Before I explain the new idea, I want to explain idea ‘Disappointment’:

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Disappointments:

To be clear, I don’t want to remove your definitions of what ‘disappointment’ means. Keep all of it. What I do believe is happening to many Americans is that their use of disappointment, adversely affected by instigations of course, has been stereotyped. For example, you only use one thing for that thing only, and not anything else, but in a context that is not in your best interest. For example, I believe many people use disappointment as an indicator to avoid certain experiences. I also use disappointment as an indicator to avoid certain experiences. What I am recommending is that you create more fortified uses of disappointment that have different expectations.

Here’s one example that I imagined: Even though it’s been years since I played any mainstream popular video games, I think that there’s a certain characteristic that is the same for many of those video games, that the game stops when you experience a certain amount of disappointment. So, if you play video games, you are already using video game disappointments as some sort of memory bookmark, so that you can remember when the video game ends.

Another example is what I imagined earlier today, when I watched the music video ‘Nice To Meet Ya’. 1 minute and 38 seconds into the music video, I noticed that Niall Horan entered a clothing store called ‘Henry Poole & Co’ to get a new suit. I imagined that I was in a relationship with that woman Niall Horan was with. Based on the comments in youtube, I’m assuming that woman is one of the Victoria Secret models. So, for the story, I’m in a relationship with Victoria, I’ll call her Victoria, and I said to Victoria that I want her to be in that store with me when I’m getting measured. She told me that she absolutely hates doing things like that, but I said to her that it would mean a lot to me if she was there. So, even with her disappointments to be in that tailoring store, she agreed with me, and she stayed there while I was getting my new suit. Victoria talked to one of her women friends about the experience, and her friend said to her ‘Why didn’t you hit him or punch him for making you experience that?’, and Victoria said to her friend ‘You can do that?’ (The example is meant to show you that, in spite of Victoria’s disappointments, she was still able to participate, even with such disappointments.)

You see where I’m getting at? It’s possible to create other varieties of disappointments, other fortified uses of disappointments that have other expectations, other intensities.

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Here’s another example of ‘Disappointments’ that I thought of recently: suppose that you are working for a big company that has divisions of it’s company in other countries. You have a general sense of what the employees in America for your company are like, and you are used to the routine associated with working in America. However, if you chose to visit those other divisions that your company has for other countries, you may be easily offended, because the routine that you are used to in America for the most part is not followed in those other countries. If you knew in advance that many aspects of your routine would not be accommodated, perhaps you would not be so offended.

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And, of course, if you choose to make more fortified uses for disappointments, use your common sense. I heard some years ago about man and a woman who were married attended a big party, and the man said something offensive about his wife in the party, and that caused them to get a divorce. I extrapolated from that story, and I imagined a man who was Klingon, and he said something to other Klingons in such a big party, but in a Klingon context. When just the appearance of his words spread out throughout the party, that man, well, that was it. I think I just created that story as a supplement for the 1st story. Let’s say for this story that the Klingon man got divorced, and he was married to a human woman, because of what he said in that party. The ‘Disappointments’ idea is great logically, but when you start articulating it’s use, just use your common sense. For example, don’t assume that people have your unique understandings available to them.

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Refute replace:

According to www.dictionary.com, ‘refute’ means ‘to prove to be false or erroneous, as an opinion or charge’. I invented idea ‘Refute replace’ yesterday, 10/19/2019, when I was coming back home from picking up the DVD’s/Blu-rays from the post office. 1st, let me give you 3 illustration examples that I am using for idea ‘Refute replace’, and that should make it easier for me to explain the idea further.

The 1st illustration is in episode 4.14 ‘Journey’s End’ from sci-fi tv series ‘Doctor Who(2008)’. In that scene, Dalek Caan and Davros(Julian Beach) are talking. The episode is available streaming from Amazon.com, and if you have Amazon Prime, the episode is available without additional payment. According to Amazon Video, that scene starts 41 minutes and 19 seconds. Here is the quote:

Davros: ‘But you promised me, Dalek Caan! Why did you not foresee this?’

Dalek Caan: (LAUGHING)

The Doctor(David Tennant): ‘Oh, I think he did. Something’s been manipulating the time lines for ages… ‘

Dalek Caan: ‘This would always have happened. I only helped, Doctor.’

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Davros: ‘You betrayed the Daleks!’

Dalek Caan: ‘I saw the Daleks, what we have done throughout time and space. I saw the truth of us, Creator. And I decreed no more!’

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The 2nd illustration is in episode 7.13 ‘Judged’ from crime tv show ‘The Good Wife(2016)’. In that scene, Alicia(Julianna Margulies) and Bernie Bukovitz(Rob Bartlett) are talking. Amazon.com has the episode available streaming, and if you have Amazon Prime, that scene is available without additional payment. According to Amazon Video, that scene starts 21 minutes and 31 seconds into the episode. Here is the quote:

Alicia: ‘Bernie? What’s up?’

Bernie: ‘Clayton Riggs(Daniel J. Watts) still wants to sue for his imprisonment.’

Alicia: ‘I know. We’re revising our strategy with Schakowsky(Christopher McDonald).’

Bernie: ‘We already did.’

Alicia: ‘We already did? What does that mean?’

Bernie: ‘Clayton and me. I met with him after you left court. I signed him as a client.’

Alicia: ‘You snaked him.’

Bernie: ‘Yes. We’re also suing you for malpractice.’

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The 3rd illustration is in sci-fi movie ‘Men in Black II(2002)’, starring Tommy Lee Jones as Agent Kay, and Will Smith as Agent Jay. The movie is available as a streaming rental and purchase from Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, that scene starts 53 minutes and 9 seconds into the movie, Agent Kay is talking to the locker aliens. Here is the quote:

Agent Kay: ‘O good and gentle townfolk of locker C-18, did I leave anything here?’

Locker alien: ‘Yes. The timekeeper. You left it to illuminate our streets and our hearts.’

Agent Kay: ‘I’ve been looking everywhere for that watch.’

Locker aliens: ‘O merciful one! The clock tower!’

Agent Jay: ‘No, I-I-I got y’all. It’s cool. Here, check this out. Titanium case, waterproof to over 300 meters. That’s bangin’, right?’

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So, here’s the idea: Let’s start with the phrase:

‘Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me.’

Here’s a quote from wikipedia.org as to the meaning of that phrase:

“Sticks and Stones” is an English-language children’s rhyme. The rhyme persuades the child victim of name-calling to ignore the taunt, to refrain from physical retaliation, and to remain calm and good-living.

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When an instigator causes you to experience a false accusation, one possible effect is that you may contemplationally and composure feel like you should refute that statement. For example, a contemplation effort to resolve may cause you to feel like you should contemplationally refute that false accusation. Part of the solution from idea ‘Refute replace’ is that you choose to not act upon the obvious inclination of that feeling. For example, a false accusation causes you to feel a contemplation effort to resolve to refute that false accusation. You choose to not refute it, since you already know that such a statement or experience is false. Just like part of that rhyme says:

‘…but names will never hurt me.’

In my opinion, for a child to use it, that means that child knows that such a false accusation is false, because that child’s parents regularly give that child positive self esteem affirmations. That’s why such ‘names’ will never hurt that child.

The idea is called ‘Refute replace’ because the instigator may use a misleading sense of refuting to cause you to give some sort of credence/importance to a contemplation replacement that is associated with such a feeling of refuting. One example of replacement is betrayal. According to www.dictionary.com, ‘betrayal’ means ‘to disappoint the hopes and expectations of; be disloyal to’. The 1st example of betrayal is in episode 4.14 ‘Journey’s End’ from sci-fi tv series ‘Doctor Who(2008)’:

Davros: ‘You betrayed the Daleks!’

Since the betrayal was done to the villains, and it contributed to ‘good winning against evil’, since I am assuming that some kids probably watched that episode, then it’s an example of betrayal that kids probably absorb easily.

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The 2nd example of ‘replace’ is in episode 7.13 ‘Judged’ from crime tv show ‘The Good Wife(2016)’, when Clayton Riggs changed lawyers. If you interpret the episode at ‘face value’, it’s understandable why Clayton Riggs changed lawyers. He was given a better deal by another lawyer. However, if you refurbish those related scenes in that episode, and you remove some of that circumstantial justification Clayton Riggs was in, you may see how Alicia, refurbished of course, could represent a person who did a lot for Clayton Riggs, and even though Alicia did a lot for him, he chose to end his obligation with Alicia, in order to pursue a better obligation from another person. Of course, that is not the case with Clayton Riggs. But if you change those scenes around, in other situations, let’s say business situations, for example, it may not seem fair that Clayton Riggs would discontinue the deal he made with Alicia in favor of a better deal made with another businessperson. The point is that Alicia experienced a ‘replace’ example when she talked to Riggs, and you may put that ‘replace’ example to use for this advice.

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Now, the 3rd example is in sci-fi movie ‘Men in Black II(2002)’, starring Tommy Lee Jones as Agent Kay, and Will Smith as Agent Jay. This is when I think I invented idea ‘Refute replace’. While I was walking from the post office yesterday, 10/18/2019, I started using idea ‘Refute replace’. I imagined some of the people in my line of sight, some of the people that I was able to see, based on that scene in the movie ‘Men in Black II’, when Agent Jay gave the locker aliens another watch to look at, I imagined that that I gave some of those people another watch, and they seemed to appreciate the extra watch that I gave them. I even patted them on the shoulder afterwards after I gave them that watch. You see, when I imagined doing that, it was me giving myself a positive in my favor example of replacing one perspective, one rationalization, etc. for another. It allows me to practice using idea ‘Refute replace’, before I actually experience an instigation or related inadvertency. You can also use idea ‘Refute replace’ for other non-instigation things, such as perspective balance, but I don’t want to talk about that in detail right now.

So, when you experience an instigation associated with idea ‘Refute replace’, one example is that you may feel like refuting a false accusation, and that false accusation is also associated with a contemplation replacing that you did not agree to address or commit to in such a context. For now, I recommend that you practice in a reasonable context, imagining giving other people watches that they seem to like, and patting them on the shoulder, if you choose to. That may give you a positive sense of replacing.

[It is now 5:11 PM EST for me. I am going to close this idea now. I will explain ideas ‘Already see’ and ‘Pertain’ next week, unless I think of a better idea to give you. So, if you are there, I’ll see you then.

TV-14 violence and viewer discretion for crime fantasy tv show ‘Lucifer’. TV-PG sci-fi violence and viewer discretion for tv series ‘Doctor Who(2005+)’. TV-14 violence and viewer discretion for crime tv series ‘The Good Wife’. PG-13 sci-fi violence and viewer discretion for movie ‘Men in Black II’. Use only refurbished for advice references recommended. Throw away rest of episode, series, and movie. [Use mental bookmarks ‘Disappointments’ and ‘Refute replace’ for reference, allocation, and prevention when needed.