6/5/2021

Cold hands, sorry.

(said as a greeting, with the generalistic effect of a person(doesn’t have to be just the person from the tv show reference) shaking your hand, and apologizing that his/her hands are cold. For example, 2 girls greeting each other that involves shaking hands, and one girl has cold hands and says to the other girl, ‘Cold hands, sorry.’ The reference is from episode 2.4 from sci-fi tv series ‘A Discovery of Witches(2021)’. You can watch that scene using Amazon.com. Just get membership for one month. Just enroll, and soon after cancel, choosing the option to have your chosen channel cancelled for one month, if you’re only watching it for that scene. That way, you can keep using it as a reference for up to one month. If you choose to do that, according to Amazon Video, that scene starts 4 minutes and 51 seconds into the episode, Phoebe Taylor(Adelle Leonce) and Marcus Whitmore(Edward Bluemel) are greeting each other. Here is the quote:

Phoebe: ‘Uh, Phoebe Taylor'(extending her arm to shake Marcus’ hand)

Marcus: ‘Marcus Whitmore'(Phoebe reacting to Marcus’ cold hands)

Marcus: ‘Cold hands, sorry.’

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Expose:

Before I begin typing the idea, I recently imagined older kids/younger teenage girls expressing to each other a concern, about how to manage exposure to this advice. It makes sense, because, in my opinion, if you learned those 3 ideas, ‘Stop solving!’, ‘Sour face’, and ‘Jump-in point’, then you may still be experiencing what I call ‘Exposure momentum’. I just made that up today I think. I imagine sensing a lot of people, from kids to adults, being inspired to make ideas, like one of the ways a muse might help inspire people. So, as a courtesy, I’ll make one more list that tries to exist with that ‘exposure momentum’, and then I will type in a few stories, I’ll do something else.

When I was in college, I imagined quirky behavior from certain students from time to time, but in general, they never explained to me why they would present such behavior. And now, I imagined a certain answer coming from older girls/younger teenage girls, concerning exposure to this advice. Based on that, it is my belief that boys/teenage boys/men in general who don’t have it in their routine, I believe that they need to be taught about exposure. Although I’m just imagining it, and it’s not a professional opinion, I believe that many girls/women somehow teach each other about certain types of exposure, and boys/men in general would have to be taught about certain types of exposure.

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All right. The music video that I watched for the 1st time and chose earlier today for this list is called ‘Granted’ by Olivia Rodrigo. I found it from my youtube ‘signed in’ homepage. Since, according to youtube, it’s a Disney+ music video, I didn’t even bother checking wikipedia about it. Here’s a quote from youtube about it:

‘ Will Nini take it for granted? Watch Olivia Rodrigo (Nini) perform “Granted” in the official music video from High School Musical: The Musical: The Series! ‘

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Music video ‘Granted’ was published by ‘DisneyMusicVEVO’ on June 4, 2021, yesterday. And here is a quick quote from the lyrics to song ‘Granted’:

Am I takin’ it for granted?
Everything that I’ve been granted
I keep lyin’ awake with these dreams in the dead of the night
‘Cause somethin’ don’t feel right
I won’t take it all for granted
And be leavin’ empty-handed
Oh, I feel shaken, everything’s changin’ within me

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Since I didn’t look at wikipedia , or a review from google, and since I don’t watch the tv show ‘High School Musical’, I can only give you the impression of what I thought it was. 1st, I recommend that you start watching it 15 seconds from the beginning, when she starts singing. The 1st 15 seconds, to me, feels like it’s not part of a music video, that it’s like just ‘back story’. After that, the music video gives you a nice special effect involving what I call a ‘snowball globe’, those balls that, when you shake them, it looks like it’s snowing in the ball, a ball that uses clear fluid to create that effect. I’m assuming it’s another relationship music video. It’s OK to watch. I like it.

The movie trailer that I watched for the 1st time earlier today, I found indirectly, meaning that it was from the right hand side of my youtube screen, those option that may be on the right hand side of your screen when you use youtube. It was there probably because of one of the youtube publishers I recently looked that. I didn’t find it when I looked at that publisher, but when I glanced at that vertical selection of videos, that’s when I noticed it. I then went back to that publisher, and sure enough, it was there. I just didn’t notice it when I originally looked at it.

The movie trailer is called ‘The Mysterious Benedict Society’, and it’s also from ‘Disney+’. Even if the main characters are kids, I would like to type in a clarification before you watch it. 14 seconds into the trailer, the teacher wearing the yellow dress I think is portrayed by actress Kristen Schaal, she corrects what she said by saying ‘excused will be excused’. The students react scared, but she corrected herself. She meant ‘excused’. If you find that scene inappropriate, then don’t use it, and keep in mind that it is still is a ‘Disney+’ movie.

Personally, I plan to watch it. I want to see what the kids will do. I didn’t read those books, but, to me, it looks like an interesting tv series to watch.

That tv trailer is located at www.youtube.com, publisher ‘Movie Coverage’. After clicking that publisher, click ‘VIDEOS’, and you can find it there. It is published May 20, 2021, about 2 weeks ago.

Here’s a quote from one of it’s comments. And keep in mind that I’m just recommending that you watch the trailer for this advice, not the tv series:

‘ I read this book when I was in elementary school, Im so excited this book is getting an adaptation it really deserves it ‘

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All right! It is now 12:18 PM EST for me. My goal for today is to explain 3 ideas, 1)’Make contemplate’, 2)’Duress’, and 3)’Enforce authority’. Hopefully, I will be able to explain all 3 ideas today.

Make contemplate:

It is now 1:55 PM EST for me. I am using a scene in episode 1.8 ‘A God Walks into a Bar’ from sci-fi tv series ‘Watchmen(2019)’. The episode is available streaming from Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, that scene starts 34 minutes and 33 seconds into the movie, when Mr. Phillips(Tom Mison) and Ms. Crookshanks(Sara Vickers) are looking at Dr. Manhattan. I’m using Mr. Phillips and Ms. Crookshanks in a story, and here is the story:

Let’s say that, in a company, 4 people are discussed in this story: 1)Mr. Phillips, 2)Ms. Crookshanks, 3)Kevin James(comedian, ‘The Crew’ tv series), and 4)Tom Arnold(comedian movie ‘True Lies’). They all work for this company. There are other employees, but are just not discussed in this story. One day, Mr. Phillips and Ms. Crookshanks approach Kevin James, and they act as servants, like the tv series ‘The Watchmen’. They wish to serve. Kevin James thinks to himself very quickly that he knows who Mr. Phillips is. He talked to him in a few of the company parties, and he sees him now and then. He’s never seen Ms. Crookshanks before, but he believes she is from the accounting department. He believes that they have been acting as servants for weeks, and he imagines his friend Tom Arnold already using their services, such as picking up his dry cleaning. He also believes that management has nothing to do with those 2 employees acting as servants. However, they also surmise that, in a few years, the employees exposed to their act will not even make such a contemplation.(That’s how the name of the idea was created, ‘Make contemplate’.) And so, he tells them that what they are doing does not involve acceptable company policy, and he chooses to not participate in their offered services.

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And that is the story. Management is not stopping them from acting like servants from time to time, simply because no one is complaining about it. And Kevin James was right, Tom Arnold, for a few weeks, was getting them to do things, such as pick up his dry cleaning, and bring the car closer to the job entrance. However, the ‘focus’ of the story is to give you an example that, eventually, the employees to some degree will not even make such a contemplation concerning those 2 employees posing as servants. For example, they won’t even need to respectfully decline their services. Eventually, they won’t even think about it. Of course, if those 2 employees insist, they will, but many forms of contemplations do not just involve active, direct interactions.

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Duress:

Instead of giving you a dictionary meaning of ‘duress’, I’ll just give you what duress looks like when portrayed in a movie. The one example I’m using is in the movie ‘The Fifth Element(1997)’, starring Bruce Willis as Korben Dallas. The movie is available streaming from Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, that scene starts 1 hour, 2 minutes, and 4 seconds into the movie. The ‘duress’ is coming from Korben Dallas. Here is the quote:

General Munro(Brion James): ‘Who is it? Who is it?’

Korben: ‘Um, my wife.’

General Munro: ‘You remarried?’

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Korben: ‘Yes. No. I just met this girl, but I’m gonna marry her…’

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Of course, remove/do not use the inappropriate scenes, just keep watching it, and Korben is clearly in a state of duress. You don’t have to use the scene where he tries to hide them.

If you used that ‘Notice’ idea(Wishlist #1275), and the 3 previous ideas, ‘Stop solving!’, ‘Sour face’, and ‘Jump-in point’, then you may already have a sense to maintain your entitled noticings as well as remove certain noticings that are instigation and inadvertency related.

If you choose to use idea ‘Duress’, you may forget from time to time the word ‘duress’ itself, so, to help you remember the word ‘duress’, you may contemplationally use association ‘door’ and the letter ‘s’, dur(door) ess(s). So, think of a ‘door’ to remember ‘dur’ and think of the letter ‘s’ to remember ‘ess’.

Idea ‘Duress’ helps you contemplationally identify the possibility that certain instigations may improperly encourage you to believe that associated contemplations of duress are necessary when experiencing certain false grievances and instigations. If you worked in your job for a few years or more, think of certain mild to moderate forms of instigations that you experienced in the past. Are they associated with duress? Idea ‘Duress’ helps you identify if certain instigations are ‘forcing’ you, so to speak, to require that you need to contemplationally sense duress if such duress is associated with the experienced instigation.

So, let me offer an imagined explanation, since I’ve never been in such a situation myself. If you had the same job for several years or more, let’s say a company, and let’s say they have instigation groups that, as a group, interact with management, and those that have instigated you are in such an instigation group. Now, imagined, they are able to work together as a group when interacting with management. Sure, they experience duress caused by management from time to time, but they experience it as a group, and that’s not all that happens. Those instigation groups have ongoing projects with management, they get guest speakers, and many of them even have lawyers to help them interact with management.

Now, when you get instigated, you don’t have any of those things in their context! Even though you’re the victim, what you get is an experience associated with duress that the instigator wants you to always associate with. However, with those 4 ideas, more specifically, that ‘Notice’ idea, you may choose to notice that, when instigators are with their instigation groups interacting with management, management is giving them a LOT of support and consideration when interacting with them. So, I recommend that you give yourself a little consideration yourself: take some of that unnecessary duress out of those experienced instigations, the ones you experienced at work. If instigators in instigation groups can use consideration and support, then why can’t you? Allow yourself the option to contemplationally recall certain mild to moderate forms of job related instigations without needing to interact with the obvious duress associated with such experiences.

Not from me, but from the instigator, to add insult to injury, did the instigator always made sure that you were in a state of duress when they would place you in a situation to complain to management about what that instigator has done to you? In other words, when you would be placed in a situation where you had to complain to your boss, did you look like Korben Dallas from the movie ‘The Fifth Element’ when you were explaining to General Munro about your soon to be spouse? The instigator wanted to make sure you were in a state of duress when you complained to management about anything, making sure that duress was associated as much as possible to the indiscretions that they created for you to experience. However, with that ‘Notice’ idea, you may now be able to not need to use those duress contemplations when recalling those experienced instigations. Go ahead. Give it a try.

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Enforce authority:

Enforce:

1st, I’ll explain where the words ‘Enforce’ and ‘Authority’ come from: ‘Enforce’ exclusively and in a very dependant, focused way, comes from episode 3.11 ‘Poughkeepsie, Tramps, and Thieves’ from crime mystery tv series ‘Veronica Mars(2007)’. The episode is available streaming from Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, that scene starts 21 minutes and 29 seconds into the episode, Claire Nordhouse(Krista Kalmus) and Keith Mars(Enrico Colantoni) are talking. Here is the quote:

Claire:(opens the door with a look of surprise)

Keith Mars: ‘Claire Nordhouse?’

Claire: ‘Uh… ‘

Keith Mars: ‘Mind if I ask a few questions?’

Fern Delgado(Cher Ferreyra): ‘I’m sorry. What is this about?’

Keith Mars: ‘Just a few questions, ma’am. You mind if I come in?’

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All right. If you haven’t watched the show ‘Veronica Mars’ before, in that scene, Keith Mars is impersonating a police officer. He doesn’t get his authority reinstated, not until the end of episode 3.14 ‘Mars, Bars’. 41 minutes and 31 seconds into the episode:

Sheriff Mars: ‘Sheriff Mars’

Sheriff Mars declares his reinstated identity to a suspect.

But in that scene, the highlight is how Claire reacted when Keith Mars presented himself. Claire acted surprised, perplexed, and a little confounded when Keith Mars presented himself to be a police officer. Imagine what may happen when Claire finds out that Keith Mars was falsely presenting himself as a police officer. That means that Keith enforced a false authority upon Claire, and she can now dismiss the credibility that she gave Keith that day. She thought that Keith was an actual police officer at the time. That was the only reason why she gave Keith Mars any information to begin with. I’ll go back to that scene later.

Authority:

‘Authority’ comes from episode 11.4 ‘Arachnids in the UK’ from sci-fi tv series ‘Doctor Who(2018)’. The episode is available streaming from Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, that scene starts 31 minutes and 47 seconds into the episode. Here is the quote:

Robertson(Chris Noth): ‘Ha! See? Look at this! Keep out, danger of ‘injury’.(word altered for advice) You are not authorised to go in here!’

32 minutes and 12 seconds into the episode:

Najia Khan(Shobna Gulati): (talking to Anderson) ‘You’re not the boss of me any more.’

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In that scene, everyone follows The Doctor, in spite of what Anderson said.

Going back to that ‘Veronica Mars’ scene, we’re going to try to use that scene where Keith Mars was impersonating a police officer, and I’m recommending that you imagine confronting him about it, not at your place, but in another place, like a college campus, like that scene. Keith confronts you with his false impersonation, and you tell him that you know that he does not have the authority of a police officer. He smiles at you, and says ‘How did you know?’ Just imagine some sort of mildly comforting interaction with him, like one of those hand butts, something minor, that gives you the solace that, even though you are exposed to an enforced authority, you know that such a feeling is ‘not true’. You can use that ‘Veronica Mars’ scene to represent an enforced sense of authority that you don’t have to give credence to, that you may not have to accept is as a sense of realization itself. Here’s an example of what that’s like: suppose you’ve been working for the same job for several years or more, and you are in a situation that certain instigations that you have experienced in the past, that those instigators confessed that those grievances associated with those instigations are false grievances, in the form of various confessions to management. If that is the case, then you may treat those past indiscretions as a false enforcement of authority, since it is moot. It doesn’t have to be a part of your contemplations like it used to. Just contemplationally say ‘Enforce authority’, allow yourself to feel Keith Mars within reason representing that false enforced sense of authority, and choose to no longer give it the active contemplation relating that you used to. Just like that ‘Veronica Mars’ scene, you already know that Keith Mars was impersonating a police officer, that his enforcement of authority was a lie. You can sense that, and be more objective to it. Instead of ‘Authority’, you can use ‘Authorise’, ‘Authorize’, or ‘Authorized’, like the episode. As you shuffle these words, you’ll probably use all of them anyway.

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It is now 4:42 PM EST for me. I am going to close this list now. I’ve already spent more time that I feel comfortable with on it already. Next Saturday, I have at least 2 stories I’d like to type in, but I’ll also probably make a few more new ideas by the time next Saturday shows up. I’ll decide then. So, if you are there, I’ll see you then.

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TV-MA mature themes, violence and viewer discretion for fantasy tv series ‘A Discovery of Witches’. Rated R mature themes, violence, and viewer discretion for sci-fi tv series ‘Watchmen’. Rated PG-13 violence and viewer discretion for sci-fi movie ‘The Fifth Element’. TV-14 violence and viewer discretion for crime mystery tv series ‘Veronica Mars’. TV-PG sci-fi violence and viewer discretion for tv series ‘Doctor Who(2005+)’. Use only refurbished for advice references recommended. Throw away rest of episode, series, and movie. [Use mental bookmarks ‘Expose’, ‘Make contemplate’, ‘Duress’, ‘Enforce authorized’, and ‘Enforce authority’ for reference, allocation, and prevention when needed.