Wishlist #1286

8/28/2021

Salutations.

It is now 10:43 AM EST for me.

Before I begin, here’s the change in plans. Originally, I was going to explain idea ‘Belong’. Once I would start explaining that idea, it may take 2 Saturdays to explain. The reason it may take that long is because it is like ‘the very beginning’ idea. To me, it feels like I’m starting right from the beginning, and I also plan to add a few other ideas to it to make it work. So, in a certain context, this may be considered the ‘shortcut’ idea. If you wanted a very concise/brief advice for instigation, in my opinion, idea ‘Belong’ would be a good place to start. The downside for me to do this is that I will probably make more ideas as I explain idea ‘Belong’, and I would have to wait for idea ‘Belong’ to finish, and that is not a fun experience for me. And that is the reason I keep putting it off/postponing it. Once I start it, it may take me 2 Saturdays or more to finish it. And so, before I begin explaining idea ‘Belong’, I will explain one more new idea. This idea I invented this past Thursday, 8/26/2021, and I call it ‘Convey solve’, and for certain expectations, I think this is the best idea that I have ever invented. So, I’ll explain idea ‘Convey solve’ today, and if I have time, I’ll type in 2 more ideas. Next Saturday, I will begin explaining idea ‘Belong’, unless I change my mind yet again.

So, the music video that I watched for the 1st time earlier today and have chosen for this advice/list is called ‘999’ by Selena Gomez and Camilo. I found the music video ‘999’ in www.youtube.com, publisher ‘KM TV’, category ‘New Songs Of 2021’, sub-category ‘Top New Songs Of September 2021’. The video for the preview of ‘999’ was listed as #1 of 30, and starts 3 minutes and 6 seconds into that video clip. To watch music video ‘999’ for free, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘selena gomez 999’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with over 3.9 million views. The music video ‘999’ premiered 8/27/2021, 1 day ago, and in just 1 day, as of now, there are 42,193 comments. Here is a quote from one of those comments:

‘ Was having a rough day…when I listened to this song…I didn’t understand the lyrics but just listening to it…gave me peace of mind ❤ i love the vibe it brings and the song. She’s so beautiful….a big fan of Selena Gomez…. ‘

Here is a quote about the song and music video ‘999’ from popsugar.com:

Selena Gomez is back with another fun music video, and this time she is teaming up with Colombian singer Camilo. On Thursday night, the 29-year-old singer dropped the visuals for her latest Spanish single, “999.” “Camilo is a fantastic songwriter and singer who proudly wears his heart on his sleeve which is something we connected on immediately,” Gomez said in a press release. “I couldn’t have been more excited to collaborate with him.” While the song’s lyrics about love are moving, it’s the music video that really has people’s attention as it bears a striking resemblance to one of Gomez’s previous and most well-known love songs, “Love You Like a Love Song.” From the flashy outfits and beauty looks to the dreamy setting, it definitely seems like Gomez took some inspiration from her previous hit. ‘

The song is in Spanish, but I think that fans of Selena Gomez will still like it. I looked at the lyrics translation in English, and there are no explicit words. It’s still a relationship song, as are most songs and music videos are these days. Here is a quote in English for song ‘999’:

I don’t have pictures with you

But I’ve got a space on the wall

We haven’t dated for a day

And I already want to celebrate anniversary…

Based on my opinion, I like the partial quote from popsugar.com:

‘ From the flashy outfits and beauty looks to the dreamy setting… ‘

I like the way Selena Gomez temporarily changes her hairstyle. Although I don’t plan to watch that music video again, I liked watching it. Compared to many of the action sequences new music videos tend to have, I like the relaxing pace that music video ‘999’ provides.

The movie trailer I watched for the 1st time earlier today and recommend for this idea/list is called ‘SPIDER-MAN: NO WAY HOME – Official Teaser Trailer (HD)’. To watch this trailer for free, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘spider man no way home’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with over 54 million views. It was published August 23, 2021, less than a week ago.

Now, this is something I think at least older kids to adults in general may look forward to watch. If memory serves, according to something I read in www.screenrant.com, or maybe I read it somewhere else, Peter Parker goes to Dr. Strange to see if he can change reality so that no one knows his secret identity again, and Dr. Strange tried to do just that. After that, I don’t know what happens. According to the trailer, it looks like there is some trouble with the spell Dr. Strange used. In my opinion, the trailer looks interesting enough to watch.

Convey solve:

It is now 11:37 AM EST for me. Here’s a definition of ‘convey’ that I found using google.com:

make (an idea, impression, or feeling) known or understandable to someone.

And here’s it’s sentence example:

“The real virtues and diversity of America had never been conveyed in the movies.”

It is now 12:51 PM EST for me. I recently had to take a ‘Hyland’s Leg Cramps’ tablet. Amazon.com sells them, or I’m assuming all pharmacies sell them over the counter as well. My right leg had a leg cramp, and soon after I took the tablet, I recovered. In case you want to know, I had another leg cramp episode in the morning, I took one tablet, and the leg cramp went away. I think it’s because of this ‘Convey solve’ idea, preparing to explain it, that I’m getting these leg cramps.

As I was trying to type in before my leg cramp episode, the main illustration reference I am using is in episode 5.10 ‘Nemesis Games’ from sci-fi tv series ‘The Expanse(2021)’. The episode is available streaming from Amazon.com. The tv series is an Amazon Original series, and is included if you have Prime membership. Before I continue, I want to clarify that ‘The Expanse’ is science fiction, and that the word ‘skinny’ doesn’t have to be used in the context of the tv show. The show is not real. What I am recommending is that you refurbished the use of the word ‘skinny’ for idea ‘Convey solve’. I’ll explain. The 1st illustration reference starts 1 minute and 59 seconds into the episode:

Carlos “Bull” c de Baca(Jose Zuniga): ‘Looks like we got a skinny hunting party.’

Monica Stuart(Anna Hopkins): ‘Nice language.’

11 minutes and 12 seconds:

Carlos: ‘At least one of these skinnies is not an idiot.’

11 minutes and 18 seconds:

James Holden(Steven Strait): ‘And that’s the last time you use that word on this ship.’

Carlos: ‘Excuse me?’

James Holden(words edited): ‘I know you’re pissed about Fred and psyching yourself up for the fight, but leave that “skinnies” stuff out of it.’

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Carlos: ‘Duly noted.’

12 minutes and 12 seconds:

Carlos: ‘The smartest sk… the smartest Belters are probably on that frigate.’

So, the illustration used is when Carlos said quote:

Carlos: ‘The smartest sk… ‘

When Carlos chose to refrain from saying the word ‘skinny’, and instead he said ‘Belters’, Carlos made an obvious facial reaction of discomfort, and that is the illustration reference used for idea ‘Convey solve’, Carlos’ obvious facial reaction when refraining from saying the word ‘skinny’. When I 1st watched that episode, Monica Stuart also made an obvious facial reaction of discomfort when hearing Carlos saying the word ‘skinny’. Since I can’t find that scene, I’m assuming that it was edited out. Monica’s reaction would make more sense, since she is a civilian.

It is now 1:31 PM EST for me. Finally, here is the explanation for idea ‘Convey solve’. 1st, if you haven’t before, I recommend you read Wishlist #1272, the ‘Stop solving!’ idea. Just type in #1272 in the ‘Search…’ section of this blog, and you will be led to it. The idea is to choose to not resolve out of context/non relevant aspects of instigation associated conveying, coming from the instigator, and encouraged to be coming from you. The entire phrase for ‘Convey solve’ is ‘Convey solve not solve’. In other words, you’re experiencing an encouraged sense of conveying to re/solve that you are choosing not to re/solve. In other words, you sense/feel it, but you don’t become it.

Let me quote again the ‘Sticks and Stones’ rhyme from wikipedia.org:

Sticks and Stones” is an English-language children’s rhyme. The rhyme is used as a defense against name-calling and verbal bullying, intended to increase resiliency, avoid physical retaliation and to remain calm and good-living. The full rhyme is usually a variant of:

Sticks and stones may break my bones
But words shall never hurt me.

So, let’s focus on one part of that rhyme:

‘But words shall never hurt me.’

So, for idea ‘Convey resolve’ or Convey solve’, you are allowing yourself to sense somewhat a sense of instigation associated conveying, but you are choosing to not resolve that sense of conveying, to not use that sense of conveying. If it is out of context and not relevant to address/acknowledge, then choosing to not resolve it could be something that you may choose to do. The problem, at least the problem that I imagine that may occur, is that the instigator may know that you may choose to ‘brush it off’, so that instigator may cause that sense of conveying to have some sort of associated discomfort, discomfort that you may predictably try to resolve. So, the ‘trick’, to allow idea ‘Convey solve’ to work, is to allow yourself to more tenably, more acceptably allow yourself to experience minor, more tolerable forms of discomfort as you choose to ‘not solve’ such a sense of instigation induced conveying. Even though I just imagined idea ‘Convey solve’ this past Thursday, you may think that it’s a unique idea, and it is for me. However, I believe that there are a lot of people with years of experience involving communication that use idea ‘Convey solve’ intuitively, even though they may not give it a cool? name to more conveniently use it contemplationally. I have an illustration reference for that. It is the only episode that actor David Hewlett is in as Dr. Rodney McKay in tv series Stargate Universe. The illustration is in episode 2.15 ‘Seizure’ from sci-fi tv series ‘Stargate Universe(2011)’. Even though that episode seems to no longer be available from Amazon.com, I purchased it from Amazon.com when it was available, and so I can still reference it. The scene starts, according to Amazon Video, 29 minutes and 1 second into the episode. Here is the quote:

Worker(Jackie Blackmore): ‘How can you possibly control the power flow from so small a device?’

Dr. Rodney McKay: ‘Because, technically speaking, as far as you’re concerned, I’m from the future.’

Colonel David Telford(‘celebrity’ Lou Diamond Phillips): ‘Dr. McKay appreciates your help.’

Colonel David Telford: ‘What is it with genius and social skills?’

You see? Colonel David Telford portrayed by ‘celebrity’ Lou Diamond Phillips instinctively sensed that, if he didn’t intervene, that worker would be bothered by Rodney’s response for let’s say about 2 weeks. It hasn’t quite sunk in that Rodney is probably the smartest scientist she has ever talked to, which means that soon after that conversation, the respect and reverence that she was supposed to give Rodney, based on her occupation, would be mixed in with Rodney’s condescending attitude, causing her to feel discomfort for about 2 weeks. Colonel David Telford instinctively prevented that from happening by allowing that worker to receive a conveyed response that will avoid that bothered effect created by Rodney.

Here’s another illustration example where 2 people are ‘stringing a man along’, making the man believe that the woman is single(which is also true), when in fact she is also the other man’s daughter! Both the man and his daughter were giving that other man a false impression, as well as using that man’s money as emphasis, so when that man was finally revealed the truth, it would cause that man to somewhat leave the scene with some shock. It’s clearly an abuse of the use of conveying, but I believe it can be useful to you, to show you an example of conveying created by 2 instigators. That illustration is in movie ‘The Misfits(2021)’, and it’s available streaming from Amazon.com. I’ll just give you the gist of the quote. According to Amazon Video, that scene starts 29 minutes and 47 seconds into the movie. Here is the quote:

German businessman(Stefan Fuchs): ‘She’s my new friend.’

Richard Pace: ‘Really? That’s very interesting because actually… she’s my daughter. And I don’t know you, friend.’

If you noticed the German businessman’s face, he looked somewhat surprised and shocked as he soon after left that scene.

So, the ‘trick’ to use idea ‘Convey solve’ is to allow yourself to experience some sort of minor discomfort, discomfort that you can easily treat, discomfort that may escalate a little, and also not resolve that discomfort and it’s obviously instigation associated conveying, when that discomfort conveying is coming from the instigator, AND when that discomfort conveying is coming from you. Once you start doing that, you should have more control as to how such a bothersome sense of conveying affects you, and with a little practice, you should be able to recall already experienced instigations with some associated discomfort conveying with more control. For example, let’s say a man who has been working for the same company for a few years or more experienced a few such instigations over the years, and when he recalls such experiences, it bothers him a little. That is about to change, because if that man chose to use idea ‘Convey solve’, not only would he be able to recall such instigations with a lot more control, but he can also experience such instigations ‘real time’ with discomfort, but with a strategy that allows him to manage such discomfort a lot better than what he did without idea ‘Convey solve’!

All right. It is now 2:45 PM EST for me. Enough ‘Convey solve’ explanation for now. Because I believe you’ll probably enjoy ‘The Misfits’ illustration, let’s let it cool down. I’ll continue with another idea.

Miserable:

I’m using a scene in episode 2.8 ‘Day 457’ from crime drama tv series ‘The Good Fight(2018)’ as an illustration reference for idea ‘Miserable’. It’s basically the scene when one attorney invites the opposing attorney to share a ride with them, and you also see them inside the car amicably? talking. The point is that there seems to be no animosity as they both share a ride, it is well within their job routine to do so. If you plan to see more episodes of ‘The Good Fight’, Amazon.com also offers ‘Paramount +’, and ‘Paramount +’ as far as I know offers all of the episodes of ‘The Good Fight’ streaming for one low monthly fee. You will be watching ‘Paramount +’ using Amazon.com’s watching format. If you plan on watching more episodes of ‘The Good Fight’, I think that’s the way to go, instead of purchasing those episodes from Amazon.com separately, or even by season. Since I am now using the streaming service ‘Hulu’, I learned that Hulu also offers all of the recent episodes of ‘The Simpsons’, at no additional charge. So, as of now, all of the episodes of season 32 of ‘The Simpsons’ is offered by Hulu, and you can watch the rest of the seasons of ‘The Simpsons’ at ‘Disney +’ I think at no additional charge to ‘Disney +’s monthly service. I just thought you may want to know that. Anyway, according to Amazon Video, that scene starts 6 minutes and 34 seconds into that episode. Here is the quote:

Diane Lockhart(Christine Baranski): ‘Mr. Waltzer. Why don’t you ride with us?’

Solomon Waltzer(Alan Alda): ‘Oh, I’d like that.’

So, the idea ‘Miserable’ is this: If you are feeling miserable because of what some co-worker has conveyed upon you to experience, have you considered the possibility that the misery you may be experiencing is based on an interpretation of some sort of aspect or several aspects of job related resource use, and that everyone else that are related to your job situation at work, well, many of them, they are showing you some sort of common courtesy that does not present such aspects of job related resource use as being ‘miserable’ for you to experience? For example, look at that scene from ‘The Good Fight’. One opposing lawyer offering to share a ride with another, and while they’re in the car, there is no misery, no animosity. In fact, the 1st thing that the episode shows you is a joke that all the lawyers in that car enjoyed.

If you were to help someone, and you knew that such help may involve a lot of effort, would you consider not needing for that someone to know of such things, knowing that if they did know, that they would also feel miserable, like you may also be feeling from that person or persons at work? You see, I believe it’s a normal, a very common thing, as a courtesy, to not allow others to experience unnecessary worry, and extrapolated, unnecessary misery. One person, maybe your boss, maybe a co-worker, causes you to feel miserable, and yet if you have other bosses, your other bosses, and othe co-workers, choose to not allow you to experience as a common courtesy, unnecessary forms of worry and misery.

It’s now 3:25 PM EST for me. For today, I don’t want to type anymore. Next Saturday, and I don’t look forward to it, I will finally explain idea ‘Belong’, and it may take 2 Saturdays for me to explain it, unless I change my mind again. So, if you are there next Saturday, I’ll see you then.

Sci-fi violence and viewer discretion for movie ‘Spider-Man: No Way Home’. TV-14 sci-fi violence and viewer discretion for tv series ‘The Expanse’. Sci-fi violence and viewer discretion for tv series ‘Stargate Universe’. Rated R violence and viewer discretion for movie ‘The Misfits’. TV-MA mature themes, viewer discretion for tv series ‘The Good Fight’. Use only refurbished for advice references recommended. Throw away rest of episode, series, and movie. [Use mental bookmarks ‘Convey solve’ and ‘Miserable’ for reference, allocation, and prevention when needed.