11/6/2021

Salutations.

It is now 10:15 AM EST for me.

Emotional dependency:

Before I begin, I want to give you a prelude example for this idea, to see if you still would want to continue to learn it. I just imagined this a few minutes ago. I’m typing something in the computer, explaining to a woman I’m with that it’s just something, and as she expresses some sort of emotional response of dependency for what I just did, I hold her arm to indicate to her that I accept her expression of emotional dependency.

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Keep in mind that I have no kids. I never raised kids of my own before, so I have no such experiences of emotional dependency that parents learn raising their kids. However, that emotional dependency, to be able to accept certain emotional responses of others, that is part of the idea that represents what I am about to inform/teach? you about. So, in that story, the woman wants to express some sort of emotional dependency for something that I am just doing as part of normal routine. As she expresses it, I hold her arm to indicate to her that I accept her emotional dependency response. I think that’s a generalistic enough story. I also have a movie reference for that. It is from the movie ‘Elektra(2005)’ starring Jennifer Garner as Elektra. The movie is available streaming from Amazon.com. It is the scene when Elektra’s teacher, Stick(Terence Stamp) says to Elektra that she has to leave the school. It is the emotional response Elektra made as she was leaving the school. According to Amazon Video that scene with it’s back story starts 12 minutes and 57 seconds into the movie. Here is the quote:

Stick: ‘I want you to go.’

Elektra: ‘Is this a test, Sensei?’

Stick: ‘No, not a test. Just go.’

Elektra: ‘I don’t have anywhere to go.’

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After saying that, if you look at Elektra’s face, you should notice obvious emotional responses that Elektra cannot avoid showing her previous teacher Stick. So, for the girls/teenage girls/women, if you choose to, you may imagine a celebrity man typing something in the computer, you present some sort of emotional response that is unavoidable, like Elektra presented Stick, and the celebrity man holds your arm as an indicator that he accepts your emotional response, all done with respectful maturity, of course.

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It is now 10:47 AM EST for me.

Before revealing again the music video and tv series trailer, I want to present a discovery I made using www.google.com that may be useful to you. If you are using Google Chrome as your web browser, you may have allowed it to collect your passwords, allowing you to enter websites easier. Have you ever forgotten any of those passwords? Even though you may have written them down on a notepad, you may have forgotten a few of them. To retrieve your passords, go to the upper right corner of your Google Chrome web browser, and click the 3 ‘:’ vertical dots. Scroll down and select ‘Settings’, then on the upper left hand corner select ‘Autofill’. Then select ‘Passwords’. You will then be given a list of selected passwords. Select the eye(Show password) for the corresponding website that you would want to see the password for.

I recommend that you practice getting access to that list. It shouldn’t take that long. For example, click the 3 vertical dots(:), then click ‘Settings’, then click ‘Autofill’. Do that a few times, and you should remember how to do it for future reference.

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It is 10:59 AM EST for me. I’m going to order McDonald’s delivery today using Doordash. I’ll start again soon.

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It is now 12:35 PM EST for me. Wow. It took me over an hour and a half before I was able to get the McDonalds food, eat it, and then start typing. That can’t be helped, because the earliest I can order the food is 11:00 AM. I chose Doordash because you can follow the driver using it’s map. As far as I know, Grubhub doesn’t have a map, and I’m using Uber just for my Uber rides.

All right! The music video that I watched for the 1st time earlier today is called ‘My Universe’ by Coldplay X BTS. I found it by searching for phrase ‘new songs november 2021’ in www.youtube.com. And from the beginnings of that selection, I selected ‘Top 100 Hits Of November 2021’. That video selected was published Nov 6, 2021, 5 hours ago. A video clip of ‘My Universe’ is #12 out of 100. The main reason why I selected music video ‘My Universe’ was because of Coldplay’s lead singer, Chris Martin, his performance in the music video. Just from the video clip alone, his singing performance is fantastic!(in my opinion) To watch music video ‘My Universe’ for free, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘coldplay my universe’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with over 100 million views! It was published 1 month ago.

And here is a quote from the song ‘My Universe’:

You (you), you are (you are) my universe
And I (I), just want (just want) to put you first (to put you first)
And you (you), you are (you are) my universe
And you make my world light up inside
And I (I), just want (just want) to put you first (to put you first)
And you (you), you are (you are) my universe
And you make my world light up inside

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I didn’t watch the entire music video. I started watching it 42 seconds into it, just before Chris Martin, the lead singer of Coldplay, started to sing. I was entertained when Chris Martin was singing in the music video, but I wasn’t entertained when BTS did their prominent performance. I still watched BTS perform. When Chris Martin did his lead singing and BTS supported him, that effect is what made Chris Martin’s lead singing fantastic, in my opinion. So, in other words, if you don’t know who Chris Martin and BTS are, and you choose to watch the music video ‘My Universe’, I believe that, you too, will love Chris Martin’s singing performance in that music video. I don’t know Chris Martin either. I’m just assuming that’s him according to wikipedia.org, saying that Chris Martin is the lead singer of Coldplay, and he looks like he’s the one singing in that music video.

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The tv series trailer that I recommend for this advice is called ‘The Book of Boba Fett’. I found it from my youtube.com signed in homepage. It was supposed to be on Disney Plus, but I couldn’t find it there. Therefore, I did a phrase search ‘the book of boba fett trailer’ in www.youtube.com, and I considered it from 3 publishers: IGN(2.3 million views), Star Wars(7.7 million views), and One Media(666 thousand views). I chose One Media because it had more of a trailer variety selection than the others did. The one from One Media was published Nov 1, 2021.

If you watched ‘The Mandalorian’, also from Disney Plus, then you’ll probably like watching the new tv series ‘The Book of Boba Fett’. The main characters of that tv series were introduced from the tv series ‘The Mandalorian’. The series is set to premiere on Disney+ on December 29, 2021.

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It is now 1:17 PM EST for me.

Since I’ve been making ideas like these for a certain amount of years now, I am speculating that, when people make advice about experienced instigation and they’re non-managerial employees who don’t professionally give advice, over time their strategy to give advice will probably improve. For example, their available objectivity should become more effective. And that particular reason, and it’s not the only reason available, is the reason I’m giving you the next idea, to help you have a more effective sense of available objectivity as it relates to experienced instigation.

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Just trying to work with:

I call this idea ‘Just trying to work with’. For example, ‘I was just trying to work with him.’ when explaining to someone else about an incident, and I did nothing wrong, or the imagined situation ‘I was just trying to work with you.’ when explaining the situation to the instigator that instigated you. When you use idea ‘Just trying to work with’, in the beginning, you contemplationally say ‘Just trying to work with’.

All right! It is now 1:42 PM EST for me. I’m going to use 2 illustrations for idea ‘Just trying to work with’: a scene from fantasy adventure movie ‘Circle of Iron(1978)’, Morthond’s(Anthony de Longis) reaction to Cord’s(Jeff Cooper) abuse, and episode 7.23 ‘Extreme Measures’ from sci-fi tv series ‘Star Trek: Deep Space Nine(1999)’, Bashir(Alexander Siddig) and O’Brien(Colm Meaney) being sidelined/distracted by Sloan(William Sadler), both illustrations are available streaming from Amazon.com. 1st, I’ll explain the idea, and then I’ll use the illustrations as emphasis.

(I don’t think I typed this in before, but if instigators are reading this, how do they feel as they are reading these ideas? For example, the instigators that read it the same day I type it in, how do they feel/react to this stuff? Just curious.)

As of 1:55 PM EST, I just had another leg cramp, my right leg. I went to the bedroom where I keep the Hyland’s leg cramps PM tablets. I took 1 tablet, and my right leg feels normal again.

It is now 2:02 PM EST for me, and here is the idea: It is my belief that people who have been working in the same job for several years or more and have been experiencing instigation from time to time and are non-managerial employees and of course are not in an instigation group(how?) working with management, such people probably think about instigators making confessions to management. If you are one of those people and an instigation incident occurred that caused you to think about a confession that that instigator made to management (that you thought about), based on my idea, there are aspects of that instigation that you were not aware of as you worked with that instigator. It’s possible that certain confessions that instigators cause you to think about, one of it’s primary purposes is to cause you to forget your intent of action as you worked with that instigator at the time of the experienced instigation. That is why this idea is called ‘Just trying to work with’, to help remind you what your intent of action was at the time of the experienced instigation that the instigator’s confession is based upon.

Here’s an illustration of a man who did the right thing, but the man who instigated him caused him to forget his original intent of action as he was interacting with that instigator. That illustration is in movie ‘Circle of Iron’, how Morthond felt even after he won the competition, even after the judge White Robe(Roddy McDowall) blamed Cord for everything. Even then, Morthond looked and felt miserable because Cord’s indiscretions are causing him to forget his original resolve. Here’s part of the conversation Cord was having with White Robe. The scene starts, according to Amazon Video, 8 minutes and 15 seconds into the movie. In relation to advice said, you may watch more of it for more understanding:

White Robe: ‘You hit him after he was down. There are rules, and you have broken them. You have chosen to break almost every rule in the contest.’

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And here is an illustration of a man who is trying to distract 2 men from contemplationally achieving their goal, by contemplationally offering them something else to think about, knowing that they have a very limited amount of time to achieve that goal. That is a scene from episode 7.23 ‘Extreme Measures’ from sci-fi tv series ‘Star Trek: Deep Space Nine’. Here’s a quote from that episode. According to Amazon Video, that scene starts 39 minutes and 28 seconds into the episode. You may watch more of that scene, in relation to advice and inaproprieities removed:

Sloan: ‘It’s not that simple, Chief. There is no building, no room like this in the real world. Section 31 has no headquarters. These files… they exist only in the minds of a very select group of people and I happen to be one of them. If you really want to destroy Section 31 it’s now or never.’

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O’Brien helps Bashir ‘snap out of it’, and then they leave.

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So, when you use idea ‘Just trying to work with’, let’s say you are contemplationally thinking about certain confessions that certain instigators have made to management that you were thinking about. If thinking about those confessions are a bit distracting to you, you may want to check to see if that distraction is causing you to forget your intent of action at the time that the confession identifies. Just contemplationally say ‘Just trying to work with’ to remind yourself of your sense of intent of action, that, for example, you were just trying to work with that person, in spite of what their confession entails. That should make you feel less distracted about thinking of such confessions. In that ‘Star Trek: Deep Space Nine’ episode, O’Brien helped remind Bashir of what his priorities are, and they were able to leave Sloan with a cure for Odo. Logically speaking, you were not thinking about that confession, not until after working with them ‘in good faith’, not until after experiencing such an instigation when you were working with that person ‘in good faith’. You want to maintain that intent of action of yours, that you were just working with that co-worker, and that you did not agree to be instigated by that person, that you were not knowingly involved with such an instigation. The confession was made after that incident, and you were not aware of the true intentions of that instigator as you were working with that person ‘in good faith’. In other words, ‘I was just trying to work with… ‘.

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It is now 2:38 PM EST for me. I’m going to close this list now. I did make more ideas, but I’ll just either type those ideas in next week, type the new ideas I will invent sometime on or before next Saturday shows up, or some sort of mix. So, if you are there next Saturday, I’ll see you then.

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Rated PG-13 violence and viewer discretion for movie ‘Elektra’. Rated R mature themes, violence, viewer discretion for movie ‘Circle of Iron’. TV-PG violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘Star Trek: Deep Space Nine’. Use only refurbished for advice references recommended. Throw away rest of episode, series, and movie. [Use mental bookmarks ‘Emotional dependency’ and ‘Just trying to work with.’ for reference, allocation, and prevention when needed.