11/27/2021

Salutations.

It is now 9:49 AM EST for me.

The 1st thing I want to do is introduce to you the music video and trailer. The music video that I watched earlier today for the 1st time that I recommend for this advice is called ‘SUPERFINE’ by India Shawn. I found it by searching and selecting publisher ‘Vevo’ from www.youtube.com, on Vevo’s homepage, scroll down and select ‘Specialty Playlists’, scroll down that to select ‘Souled Out’ and click ‘VIEW FULL PLAYLIST’. Here’s a description provided by Vevo of ‘Souled Out’: ‘Chill out with these soul jams from the old to the new.’ . Music video ‘SUPERFINE’ is #9 out of 425 music videos. Here’s a quote from soulbounce.com about the music video:

‘ In the video for “SUPERFINE,” India takes a solo drive to clear her thoughts and emphasize the point that at the end of the day, being solo is OK sometimes. ‘

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And here is a quote from the lyrics to song ‘SUPERFINE’:

i’m a different type, i just know when to get out
nothin’ here to find, i’ma grind from the lay down
i ain’t got tears or no time for no playground
i’ll be superfine, fine, fine

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To watch music video ‘SUPERFINE’ for free, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘india shawn superfine’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with over 31 thousand views. If you do that search, the selection should indicate that it was published 2 weeks ago.

As I was watching music video ‘SUPERFINE’ for the 1st time earlier today, I imagined an African American woman listening to soul music as she is driving extrapolated, and the imagination looks like the music video ‘SUPERFINE’. Of course, I don’t actually know what women are thinking as they listen to soul music while driving. I’m not trained to do that. I’m just imagining it, and like the music video ‘SUPERFINE’ seems to do, it’s a relaxing experience. And as usual, popular music played on the radio is about relationships, but when many people listen to such music, they want to listen to music conducive to their intent. For example, when listening to soul music, I’m assuming that many people, both men and women, listen to soul music so that they can relax. It’s just a belief. I can’t prove it. I recommend that you watch music video ‘SUPERFINE’ with the intent to relax, whether you are male or female.

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As for the tv show trailer, I found that from my ‘signed in’ youtube homepage. One selection led me to another. The selection from that homepage, not the trailer that I chose, is called ‘Secrets of Sulphur Springs Season 2 Teaser’ from publisher ‘Disney Channel’ in www.youtube.com. That was published Oct 14, 2021. Since it didn’t have much content, I searched www.youtube.com for phrase ‘secrets of sulfur springs season 1 trailer’, and instead used ‘Secrets of Sulphur Springs’ trailer for season 1. That has about a minute’s worth of content to watch. Here’s a quote from www.wikipedia.org about the show:

‘ After his dad gets a new job, 12-year-old Griffin Campbell moves into the closed down and dilapidated Tremont Hotel in Sulphur Springs, Louisiana which is supposedly haunted by Savannah Dillon, a camper at the Tremont Camp who disappeared thirty years ago. With his new best friend Harper from his new school, Griffin discovers a portal which takes the two back in time 30 years to 1990, which they use to meet and find out what happened to Savannah Dillon. They try to save Savannah from disappearing. ‘

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So, in my opinion, it’s a tv show with kids as the main characters that has supernatural elements in it, and it’s a Disney tv show. It’s already made for kids to watch with kids being the main characters, if they don’t mind feeling a little scared.

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Differentiate:

It is now 10:48 AM EST for me. I am going to introduce to you 2 stories that I made. The intent of these 2 stories is to help you differentiate and disassociate from certain aspects of experienced instigations and inadvertencies. I call this idea ‘Differentiate’. The definition of ‘differentiate’ that I am using for this idea from www.dictionary.com is ‘to make a distinction.’

Now, in this 1st story, even though I have used this story for myself for a certain amount of years, I wasn’t able to type it in. I think the reason is that, since it involves the main characters going to court, and I am not a lawyer, I didn’t think I could give such advice. Now I think I can explain it, as long as I clarify that it’s just a story that I imagined, that it’s not real.

Basically, while at work, for one short moment, one woman is shaking another woman’s body profusely(to a great or excessive extent) using her hands on her shoulders. As she is doing so, the other woman is laughing.

The problem/grievance involved with this situation is that the woman who was being shaken did not agree to be shaken. However, since she was laughing as she was being shaken by the other woman, it made it difficult for her to prove that at work. So, to differentiate it further, she took the situation to court. Both women pleaded the situation to a judge, and the judge ruled that the woman who was being shaken did not agree to be physically shaken, even though she was laughing when the other woman was shaking her. And like I said before, I just imagined this story. It’s not real.

I forgot to mention that both women still have their jobs after the verdict. It’s just a story, so the details involved from that court case is not relevant enough/required for me to explain.

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The 2nd story is in the form of a ‘water cooler conversation’. Here’s the definition I found in www.google.com:

‘ Water cooler is used in expressions that refer to the informal conversations that people have in their office or workplace. The movie makes for great conversation at the water cooler. ‘

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So, in this story literally, there’s a water cooler nearby as co-workers have casual conversations.

It is now 11:16 AM EST for me. Continuing with the story, the celebrity in the ‘water cooler’ story is Kumail Nanjiani. If memory serves, I only watched 2 performances from him, episode 1.1 ‘The Comedian’ from tv series ‘The Twilight Zone(2019)’, where he portrays a stand-up comic, and the movie ‘Stuber(2019)’, where he saves Nicole’s(Natalie Morales) life, and at the end of the movie, it’s revealed that they are in a relationship together. In both those performances, he is obviously involved with comedy, and his obvious comedy identity just based on those 2 performances is why I chose him to be the main celebrity character in this story.

All right, here’s the story: A Caucasian blonde single woman is having a conversation with 3 men by a water cooler at work. The 3 men are all married to women with at least one child for each of them. The woman who is talking to them knows that men find her very attractive, even more so when she is talking to them. So, because of that for this one conversation, she creates a test to see how attractive she is to them. For those 3 men, she imposes a conversation upon them that is discouraging for them to interact with. Eventually, since she will not change the subject, the 3 men all look at each other for a brief moment to verify that they are discontinuing the conversation with her at the same time. They learned to do this from their few years of experience being married with child. And so, after that look, they stop talking to her, and they re-direct their attentions elsewhere. It’s not that they will never talk to her again, that is done as a short term disassociation, just to stop talking to her for that moment. They are still open to casually talk to her later, and they believe their job associations with her are not adversely affected by such a conversation. It’s just a short term thing.

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Soon after those 3 men stopped talking to her, employee Kumail Nanjiani smiles to himself and tries to begin a conversation with that attractive blonde woman. Unlike those 3 married men, Mr. Nanjiani is single, and was unaffected by her choice of conversation. In other words, that woman was right, men are very attracted to her. And because of the circumstance, the blonde woman welcomed Mr. Nanjiani’s invitation to talk to her, and she chose to talk to him normally.

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Serious solve:

It is now 11:48 AM EST for me. Now, this is the NEW idea that I invented this past Thursday, 11/25/2021, 2 days ago. It is called ‘Serious solve’. So, let me try to explain it: Have you ever heard of someone saying ‘Are you serious?’ or ‘Seriously?’ An instigator may improperly impose a sense of serious resolving for you to interact and commit to. The reason why I offered you that ‘woman shaking woman’ story and ‘comedian talking to attractive woman’ story is to give you 2 examples that may help you differentiate/disassociate/discontinue from serious resolvings that instigators may want you to interact and commit to.

To help you process idea ‘Serious solve’, I recommend that you choose a song to contemplationally think about as you contemplationally repeat the phrase ‘Serious solve’ as if it’s part of the lyrics to that song. If you can’t think of one, maybe you’ll think about it later, or you would rather that I choose for you, you can always change the song later as you get used to idea ‘Serious solve’… Before I type that song in, here’s a quote from www.wikipedia.org about the song ‘Every Breath You Take’ by Sting:

‘ Sting later said he was disconcerted by how many people think the song is more positive than it is. He insists it is about the obsession with a lost lover, and the jealousy and surveillance that follow. “One couple told me ‘Oh we love that song; it was the main song played at our wedding!’ I thought, ‘Well, good luck.'” ‘

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The point of that quote was that popular songs can be refurbished by those that listen to them. Like the quote said, a married couple said to Sting that they played the song ‘Every Breath You Take’ at their wedding, even though Sting believed/believes? that the song means something else. When I offer you that song, I’m recommending that you refurbish that song to be used for idea ‘Serious solve’. And of course, you can choose to not use my recommendation and use another song, or in relation to advice said, do something else entirely. This is just advice to me.

[12/4/2021: To let you know that something was removed, I deleted the song that I originally selected because, the next day after I typed it in, I realized that I made a mistake in the selection. So, to avoid further complications, I chose to delete it. Sorry for the inconvenience. 12/4/2021]

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All right. It is now 12:28 PM EST. Let’s start with an example that’s not exactly ‘Serious resolve’, but there’s disassociation involved. Let’s say that an employee is talking to you in an argumentative manner, but you’re not reciprocating that dialogue by arguing with that employee. Instead, you choose to communicate with that employee in a reasonable manner that obviously does not sound like an argument. So, in other words, the employee is arguing with you, but you instead are just reasonably communicating with that employee without arguing. If you imagine that, what you did was differentiate conversation use.

Now, with idea ‘Serious solve’, you are also differentiating a certain conversation use. If an instigator and/or inadvertency is insisting upon you to interact and commit to a sense of resolving using seriousness, for example, if you believe it to be inappropriate to interact with, you may choose to contemplationally not interact and commit to such a use of serious resolving.

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It is now 12:38 PM EST for me. I am going to re-introduce idea ‘See myself’, 1 more illustration example for ‘Serious solve’, and then close this list.

See myself:

Idea ‘See myself’, when I introduced it in a past list, was created using the movie ‘The Nutcracker and the Four Realms(2018)’, starring Mackenzie Foy as Clara Stahlbaum. The movie is available streaming in Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, that scene starts about 1 hour, 5 minutes, and 11 seconds into the movie, when Clara discovered that her music box has a mirror. Here is a quote from wikipedia.org:

‘ She imprisons Clara, Captain Philip, and the male regents, causing Clara to blame herself.

Clara opens her egg-shaped music box again and discovers a mirror, illustrating that all she needed was herself. She and the other prisoners escape. ‘

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So, to try to explain that scene, they imprisoned her to cause Clara to blame herself, but as she was looking into that mirror, a contingency that her mother created in case the others were discouraging her, as she was looking at that mirror, she changed how she perceived herself for the better, which allowed her to escape that prison and reinstate her rightful authority.

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One more illustration example for idea ‘Serious solve’. It’s based on 2 scenes in the episode. The episode is 6.23 ‘Rightful Heir’ from sci-fi tv series ‘Star Trek: The Next Generation(1993)’. The 1st scene is when Lt. Worf(Michael Dorn) chose to discontinue/stop fighting the Klingon that calls himself Kahless(Kevin Conway). The episode is available streaming from Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, that scene starts 8 minutes and 22 seconds into the episode.

For the purposes of this advice, the reason Worf chose to stop fighting Kahless is because of what he learned from his associations and friendships of the main characters of the Enterprise crew. In the 2nd scene, you get to see Worf talk to those other main characters. That scene starts 19 minutes and 51 seconds into the episode. I’ll just quote what Picard said in that meeting, 20 minutes and 40 seconds into that episode:

Captain Picard(Patrick Stewart): ‘Look, we have no reason to rule out anything. We are not ordered to investigate the origins of our guest nor to tell anyone what they should believe. We are simply to transport Kahless to the homeworld and while he’s here with us he will be treated as an honored guest.’

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It is now 1:05 PM EST for me. I realize that idea ‘Serious solve’ needs a lot of work. I also believe that for many of my expectations, it is the best idea that I have created as of now. The more you practice using it, the more you should get better at it’s use. Also, I still plan to make more ideas, so in that context, it’s ‘win-win’ for you. I am closing this list now. Next week, I’ll probably do the same thing, introduce to you a new idea or ideas. So, if you are there next Saturday, I’ll see you then.

[11/27/2021: It is now 1:41 PM EST for me. Soon after I closed this list, I experienced a leg cramp, the area behind my right knee. Normally, I would just take 1 Hylands Leg Cramps PM pill, but after waiting for a while, I took a 2nd pill. And soon after that, I chose to use Hylands Leg Cramps Ointment on the area. After I applied a little of the ointment, I made a full recovery, and my right leg also feels a lot better! I recommend that, if you suffer from leg cramps, that you get Hylands Leg Cramps PM pills and ointment. It’s over the counter. You don’t need a prescription for it. 11/27/2021]

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TV-PG viewer discretion for Disney tv series ‘Secrets of Sulphur Springs’.(I only recommended watching the trailer, not the tv series.) TV-MA mature themes, violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘The Twilight Zone(2019)’. Rated R mature themes, violence, viewer discretion for comedy thriller movie ‘Stuber(2019)’. PG-13 viewer discretion for movie ‘Ghosts of Girlfriends Past(2009)’. Rated PG for some mild peril viewer discretion for movie ‘The Nutcracker and the Four Realms(2018)’. TV-PG sci-fi violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘Star Trek: The Next Generation(1993)’. Use only refurbished for advice references recommended. Throw away rest of episode, series, and movie. [Use mental bookmarks ‘Differentiate’, ‘Serious solve’, and ‘See myself’ for reference, allocation, and prevention when needed.