6/18/2022

Salutations.

It is now 8:04 AM EST for me.

Before I begin with the advice, I want to recommend something that I bought recently, and offer you a story. I don’t think the story needs a music video and trailer, since there’s obvious emotional expression involved. After that, I’ll begin looking for a music video and trailer to offer you for the advice.

Here’s what I purchased and recommend for you to purchase, if you choose to. According to Amazon.com, I purchased this June 15, 2022, this past Wednesday:

‘ Germ-Away Large Antibacterial Hand Wipes Individually Wrapped Wipes, Travel Size Hand Sanitzer Wipes with Aloe in Dispenser Box, 100 ct Lemon Scent ‘

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It’s just small hand wipes individually wrapped in an aluminum? packet, and for 100 packets, it only costs about $22 dollars with Prime shipping. So, for example, an adult worker uses 3 a day, 5 days a week, that’s 60 packets a month, 90 packets for a month and a half. I used one packet earlier today before I started typing. When I used it, it smelled a little like lemon, but that smell fades away quickly. It becomes ‘mild lemon smell to neutral’, and the aloe with the rest of it’s ingredients allows your hands to not feel dry afterwards. Since I eat in a deli before I go to work, I plan to use it then. Before these hand tissue wipes, I used to just put a little water on my hands, use tissue, and then use the 2 oz Purell gel to clean my hands after I was done eating. Now, I plan to just use the ‘Germ Away’ hand sanitizing wipes to clean my hands after I am done eating.

If you choose to use them, for example, when you go out to eat during lunch, the only practical, available way for you to clean your hands after you are done eating could be using hand sanitizer wipes, like the ‘Germ-Away’ wipes offered in Amazon.com. Of course, hand wipes in general should to the trick, but I personally am using ‘Germ-Away’ wipes, and that’s what I’m recommending. Amazon.com offers a wide selection of other hand wipes for you to choose from, if you want to see what else they have to offer. If you go to the Amazon.com link for ‘Germ-Away’, the link offers the usual illustrations and comments for you to help you decide if ‘Germ-Away’ is right for you. Here is a quote from one of it’s comments:

‘ These individual wipes were a germ a way gem! We had a BBQ dinner and these were awesome for our guests. Perfect to clean hands after eating or cleaning germs from your hands in general. Keep them in my car, office and purse perfect for travel as well. It is so nice to have the wipe versus liquid hand sanitizer gets your hands extra clean. ‘

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And now, the story: Are you using some sort of reservation when you are learning about anything via the internet, or anything else for that manner? In my smartphone, I have available to use web browsers ‘Google Chrome’ and ‘Microsoft Edge’. According to Wikipedia.org, those are the 2 web browsers with the highest market shares. My point is that, in my opinion, people in general, including kids, are encouraged to be inquisitive, to know and understand about things. It is my belief that information that you may use does not necessarily have something that takes into consideration how you process that information. Here’s one of the stories that I made to illustrate that: If you don’t know who I am, just imagine a man, such as one of your male teachers, or a male adult celebrity, to represent me to think about, if you choose to need something like that. This story is based on the fantasy tv series ‘A Discovery of Witches(2018-2022) starring Matthew Goode as Matthew Clairmont, a vampire in the series. Here’s a quote from wikipedia.org, episode 3.1:

‘ Matthew and Miriam discuss the need for more DNA research. Diana takes them to meet her old friend Chris, revealing the existence of creatures to him and asking for his help. ‘

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So, in an imagined context, vampires from time to time do reveal their true identities to normal people. Let’s use that to help you use this story.

So, here’s the story: for some reason, it doesn’t matter why, the vampire Matthew Clairmont revealed himself to me, and we became friends. Because I was interested in knowing who he was, I tried to do some research about him. Of course, based on my abilities to do research, you can’t just ‘Google’ him, and find everything you need to know about him. And so, from time to time, I just kept looking, until I found something.

Soon after finding that information, when I approached Matthew Clairmont about what I had found about him, I couldn’t help but uncontrollably cry right in front of him. As he was embracing me, without me even telling him why I was crying, he told me that, if he had known that I was looking for information about him, he would have warned me about it.

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Of course, if you watched the tv series ‘A Discovery of Witches’, before he was a scientist, when he was younger, he was really messed up. My point is that, when you are looking for information from the internet or other sources, you should have some sort of reservation, some sort of caution, to help you define your limits to process information. With a little practice, you’ll have an idea what those limits are. In my opinion, at least trying to have an idea what your processing limits are is better than just processing anything that you find. For example, when women who are at parties and are dieting are offered food on a platter, they may say ‘I really shouldn’t’, indicating that they are watching what they eat. Processing certain forms of infomation, in my opinion, should also have some sort of reservation involved. Of course, if you have a job that trained you to do that, then there you are. But if you are a non-managerial employee that was never trained to have such an information processing reservation, then I recommend that you should develop having an information processing reservation. With a little practice, you should develop a sense when and when not to use it. In my opinion, it’s better than just processing anything without some sort of reservation involved, since information is more available than ever nowadays.

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It is now 9:05 AM EST for me. I am going to look for that music video and trailer now. I’ll see you soon.

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It is now 11:32 AM EST for me.

The music video that I watched for the 1st time earlier today and recommend for this advice is called ‘Hot Thing’ by GIOIA. I found it by searching for phrase ‘vevo’ in www.youtube.com. Click that publisher, scroll to the bottom of the page and click ‘Featured Channels’. Then click ‘Vevo UK’. Scroll to the bottom again and click ‘Emerging Artists Playlist 2022 – Discover the Best NEW & EMERGING Music UK – Vevo Playlists’. Here’s th

‘ Discover New Music and Artists Playlist!

Find the best new artists to watch in 2021. Watch the new wave of talent across all genres including Dylan, HAZEY, Wet Leg, Enny, Mae Muller, Masterpeace and more. ‘

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Music video ‘Hot Thing’ is #27 out of 202. To watch music video ‘Hot Thing’ for free, search for phrase ‘gioia hot thing’ in www.youtube.com. It was published June 3, 2022, about 2 weeks ago, with over 6,000 views. Here is a quote from the song ‘Hot Thing’:

I don’t need flowers, puppets, money
Expensive clothes and dinnеr, chocolate, honey
Sweet words, a ride back homе
Just deep conversations

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In my opinion, when I watched the music video earlier today for the 1st time, if a woman watched the music video and chose to sing-along and move/dance a little to it, such a body movement would be easy for a woman to do. Even though I’m a man, I believe that it would be easy for a woman to dance to the song ‘Hot Thing’. The lyrics and song I believe easily inspires. I recommend that you watch music video ‘Hot Thing’, and be prepared to be inspired.

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The tv show trailer that I recommend for this list and watched for the 1st time earlier today is called ‘Westworld Season 4 Trailer (HD)’. I found it from my ‘signed-in’ youtube homepage, but not directly. I selected one of the publishers from that youtube page called ‘TV Promos’, selected ‘VIDEOS’, and that’s where I found the Westworld season 4 trailer. It was published June 16, 2022, 1 day ago. To watch the trailer for free, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘westworld season 4 trailer’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered.

I’m just recommending that you watch the trailer, not the new series. Personally, I’m going to watch it, though. In my opinion, refurbished at least, the trailer shows how the androids are learning, and the difficulties humans and androids are having learning to co-exist together.

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It is now 12:01 PM EST for me. I want to get something to eat, so I am going to order something, probably from UberEats. I’ll continue typing later today.

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Not agree to address or discuss anything:

It is now 1:10 PM EST for me.

Ideally, explaining idea ‘Not agree to address or discuss anything’ should have been explained before I started to explain idea ‘Self’. Well, better late than never. Idea ‘Not agree to address or discuss anything’ is what I call a ‘delimiter’. Contemplationally, it gives you a reason to not address or discuss certain things that is introduced to you, like verbal insults, anything, so to speak, that you did not agree to address or discuss. It helps you to choose to not pursue such contemplations.

There is an illustration reference in the DVD Rom that I purchased from Amazon.com called ‘Star Trek: The Complete Collection’. There is one comic book storyline where Data is talking to a Romulan officer from the past. The Romulan officer asked Data a question about the future, and Data said that he could not give him that answer because it may change the timeline. The Romulan officer said quote:

Romulan officer: ‘Can’t blame a Romulan for trying.’

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I still have the DVD Rom, but I don’t want to go through it to find that specific comic book right now. The point of that reference is that Data chose not to address or discuss such information for the sake of a ‘sci-fi’ created safety. It qualifies in my opinion to be an obvious illustration example for idea ‘Not agree to address or discuss anything.’

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Self:

Awkward: Embarrassing:

I recently offered you idea ‘Intent of action’, so if you chose to use it, you already have a sense of ‘self’ that you may use as a reference when experiencing certain forms of instigation and it’s related inadvertencies. The more ideas you may choose to add to idea ‘Self’, the better you should get to be able to reinstate that chosen sense of self when experiencing certain mild to moderate forms of instigation. I will now continue with a variation of idea ‘Self’ called ‘Awkward’ or ‘Embarrassing’:

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It is my belief that, when adults choose to create a strategy to help them manage better certain exposures to instigations, a strategy self created, not a strategy professionally taught to them, to avoid interacting with notions and contemplations they deem inappropriate, they contemplationally identify such contemplations/notions as ‘awkward’ and/or ’embarrassing’. I think that’s a very common strategy, but it’s effectiveness is also based on the user’s available objectivity. What may happen over time is that exposure to instigations that use certain forms of embarrassment and awkwardness may place a certain toll on a strategy that tries to avoid unacceptable interjections as being ‘awkward’ and/or ’embarrassing’. Therefore, the goal for idea ‘Awkward’/’Embarrassing’ is to help alleviate that toll, by giving the people who use such a strategy a positive illustration that involves awkwardness and embarrassment.

All right. I’m going to type in today 2 stories/illustrations. The 1st story is meant to prepare you for the 2nd story/illustration. The purpose of both stories is to give you a positive illustration involving awkwardness and embarrassment. Here’s the 1st one: A certain amount of years ago, I was in a Lt. B’Elanna Torres(Roxann Dawson) Star Trek: Voyager storytelling phase. For a short time, I was making stories involving the character Lt. B’Elanna Torres as the main character in those stories. One of those stories involves Lt. B’Elanna Torres watching actor Bill Irwin from behind the bushes, some sort of something that concealed her identity. He was making a public performance in an area that many people who wear suits to go to work frequently walk through. She was showing someone what Bill Irwin was doing, identifying him as doing something that was a learning experience to behold.

To give you an idea what Bill Irwin was doing, there is a scene from episode 3.2 ‘Chapter 21’ from sci-fi tv series ‘Legion(2019)’, when Cary Loudermilk portrayed by Bill Irwin is intentionally avoiding being detected by a woman serving him food by being somewhat closely behind that woman! In my opinion, it’s a very quick illustration example of what actor Bill Irwin is capable of as it relates to positive embarrassment and awkwardness. If you have the streaming service Hulu, the episode is available there without additional payment. Otherwise, Amazon.com has that episode available, and according to Amazon Video, that scene starts 30 minutes and 49 seconds into that episode. The scene lasts until 31 minutes and 39 seconds into the episode. He did that ‘standing near you from behind’ thing with that woman until he was able to leave the room without her noticing him leaving that room. So, the scene lasts less than a minute.

Here is a short quote about Bill Irwin from wikipedia.org:

‘ William Mills Irwin (born April 11, 1950)[1] is an American actor, clown,[2][3] and comedian. He began as a vaudeville-style stage performer and has been noted for his contribution to the renaissance of American circus during the 1970s.

He graduated from Oberlin College in 1974 and attended Ringling Brothers and Barnum & Bailey Clown College the following year. In 1975, he helped found the Pickle Family Circus in San Francisco, California.[7] He credits his experience with the Circus, performing in schools under the Comprehensive Employment and Training Act (CETA), as having made him a working artist. ‘

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Keep in mind that I am just imagining him doing this. I may have seen something about him in the past, but I’m not sure about it right now, so what I am doing is allowing you to consider imagining it.

In the story, B’Elanna was witnessing Bill Irwin present forms of embarrassment and awkwardness professionally upon himself, and many of those people wearing suits watching him perform publicly were ‘Very’ entertained about it. His performance allowed them to feel good about themselves, as he was presenting movements that, quite frankly, humiliated himself, but in a professional, respectful way, of course.

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It is now 3:00 PM EST for me. So, here’s the next story: Have you ever looked at one of those devices that raise people? For example, using elevators raise people. These devices have picture illustrations on them, warning you that using such a device has associated risks and cautions. For example, the illustration shows the device being raised, and the image of a person falling from using such a device. That illustration is meant to show the possible user the danger involved if you do not know how to use such a device, or what could still happen even if you are familiar with using it. The image of a person falling when the device is trying to raise that person is clearly shown on the device.

Did you know that an accident may still occur for even using stairs? When I was in school, I remember students such as myself when using stairs as a group, we would use it in formation going up the stairs and going down the stairs. I don’t remember someone actually teaching me to use the stairs, and yet I try to be reasonably cautious whenever I walk up and down a flight of stairs I am not familiar with. My point is that people in general should be reasonably cautious when walking up and down flights of stairs. Just because you have been walking up and down stairs for many years, that doesn’t automatically mean that an accident will not occur.

And it is my strong belief that it is also dangerous to be on the rooftops of houses, including your own houses. The tops of houses in general do not have the safety of walking on other surfaces, such as sidewalks. Sure, if a professional installer needs to do something on top of your house, they are, by definition, professionally trained to be on the rooftop of your house. For example, maybe something on the roof of your house needs to be repaired, or you want a satellite dish to be installed, or maybe some sort of cable needs to be wired involving the top of your hourse, that installer may need access to something that allows that installer to be on top of your house. Walking on top of houses may require professional experience. It’s dangerous up there. If you visit someone’s house and that person invites you to go on top of their roof, I strongly advise that you don’t if you don’t have professional experience to be on top of rooftops. You don’t want to get into an accident.

I offered you caution examples involving using the stairs and not being on top of rooftops because the illustration example I am about to present to you involves the use of stairs and the dangers of being on rooftops, but it’s presented by intent to be in a positive, humorous context. The illustration examples, refurbished for advice, is in a video clip from www.youtube.com called ‘(1989) Mel Gibson’s Unauthorized Video Diary’. It was published 3 years ago, and the publisher in www.youtube.com is ‘Andrew Patrick Ralston’. It has over 24 thousand views.

I am recommending that you use only 4 scenes in that video clip, and to not use/throw away the rest of that video clip, in relation to advice. I didn’t even watch the entire video clip myself. To watch ‘Mel Gibson’s Unauthorized Video Diary’ from www.youtube.com for free, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘mel gibson video diary’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered. Here’s a description of that video clip from the youtube link:

‘ Amazing behind the scenes on Lethal Weapon 2 by Mel Gibson. Found this on one of my old VHS tapes from HBO. Lots of footage at Warner Brothers Studio in Burbank. 26 minutes ‘

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The 1st illustration that encourages you to be caution while going up and down a flight of stairs starts 8 minutes and 33 seconds into the video clip. Celebrity actor Mel Gibson will be narrating as he is going up a flight of stairs, and as he is going down those same flight of stairs, a portrayal that is not real showing Mel Gibson getting into an accident as he was trying to go down those flight of stairs occurs. Afterwards, seemingly unharmed by the accident, Mel Gibson says quote:

Mel Gibson: ‘Jeez, I hope nobody saw that.’

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When he said that, that is presented in the context of this advice refurbished to be the positive form of embarrassment and awkwardness.

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The 2nd illustration, the accident portrayed of course, like the 1st illustration, is not real, and involves being on the rooftop of a building, starts 16 minutes and 52 seconds into the video clip. The accident portrayed and is not real will involve celebrity actor Joe Pesci. In that scene, the highlight starts 17 minutes and 30 seconds into that video clip, Mel Gibson causes Joe Pesci to get angry by slapping him and telling him to ‘hit me’, and that causes Joe Pesci to get emotionally compromised when he tries to punch Mel Gibson, resulting in that accident, which of course is not real. Joe Pesci falling from the rooftop did not actually happen. At the end of that scene, starting 17 minutes and 49 seconds into that video clip, Mel Gibson says quote:

Mel Gibson: ‘God, I hope nobody s… I hope nobody saw that.’

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Again, like the 1st illustration, it’s a form of embarrassment and awkwardness humorously illustrated, and it’s not real of course.

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The 3rd illustration shows Danny Glover dancing. It’s obviously not actually him, but the video clip says that’s it’s him. That scene starts 19 minutes and 54 seconds into the video clip. He is introduced:

Introducer: ‘Ladies and gentlemen… at last… Danny Glover!’

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Watching that person who is not Danny Glover dance as Danny Glover, at least used for this advice, is meant to emphasize that the 2 previous examples, the staircase and the rooftop accident, were presented humorously and were not real.

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The 4th illustration example, starting 20 minutes and 56 seconds into the video clip, shows many people applauding, but refurbished for advice, they are applauding you! They are trying to give you confidence, a positive experience with awkwardness and embarrassment, something that by intent is meant to help with your experienced instigation woes.

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It is now 4:16 PM EST for me. I am going to close this list now. Next Saturday, I plan to continue explaining idea ‘Self’, which includes an explanation for idea ‘Comment’, as well as more specific explanations for idea ‘Self’, unless I change my mind. So, if you are there next Saturday, I’ll see you then.

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Rated TV-MA mature themes, sci-fi violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘A Discovery of Witches’. Comic book viewer/reading discretion for comic book DVD Rom collection ‘Star Trek: The Complete Collection’. TV-MA mature themes, sci-fi violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘Westworld(2016+)’. TV-MA mature themes, sci-fi violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘Legion’. Viewer discretion for video clip ‘Mel Gibson’s Unauthorized Video Diary’. Use only refurbished for advice references recommended. Throw away rest of episode, series, comic book, and video clip. [Use mental bookmarks ‘Not agree to address or discuss anything’, ‘Awkward’, and ‘Embarrassing’ for reference, allocation, and prevention when needed.