Salutations.

It is now 8:43 AM EST for me.

I wanted to let you know that I’m going to look for that music video and trailer now. I just want to explain ideas ‘Guilty’ and ‘Angry’ quickly, so that I can use this holiday created time to do other stuff. Soon after I prepare them, I’ll type again later today.

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It is now 9:47 AM EST for me.

1st, I want to say that this is just advice to me. It’s a little ironic in my opinion what I’m doing. I want the advice to be useful to you, so based on my experience use, my ‘how’, I imagine somewhat how that would be true, and at the same time I would, so to speak, say to myself ‘this is just advice to me.’ I do this so that I would avoid being unnecessarily distracted as to how you use the advice. I think the strategy is working. It just may seem a little ironic.

OK. The music video that I watched for the 1st time earlier today is called ‘Lost Boy’ by Ruth B. I found it by going to www.youtube.com and selecting publisher ‘Vevo’, scroll to the bottom and select category ‘Featured Channels’, select ‘Vevo UK’, select ‘POP Playlists’, select ‘VIEW FULL PLAYLIST’ from category ‘Hottest Viral Hits’, Music video ‘Lost Boy is #20 out of 118 music videos.

I did a search for phrase ‘ruth b lost boy’ on www.youtube.com, and discovered that music video ‘Lost Boy’ was published 6 years ago, with over 167 million views! Here is a quote from the lyrics to song ‘Lost Boy’:

I am a lost boy from Neverland
Usually hanging out with Peter Pan
And when we’re bored we play in the woods
Always on the run from Captain Hook
“Run, run, lost boy”, they say to me
“Away from all of reality”

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And here is a quote from rollingstone.com:

Inspired by her love of fantasy novels, she wrote her first song, “Lost Boy,” a spare, soulful piano ballad about loneliness, packed with Peter Pan references. She uploaded six seconds of the chorus to Vine, which she’d previously used to post clips of herself singing Drake and Lana Del Rey songs.

“Lost Boy” scored 84,000 likes in just a week, and a few months later, she had a deal with Columbia. This summer, the song became a Top 40 hit. “If someone told me a year ago that people would ask me for pictures at Starbucks,” she says, “I would’ve just laughed.”

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When I watched music video ‘Lost Boy’, in the beginning, the second hand of the clock was moving at the same time with the piano being played. Ruth B. is depicted playing the piano while singing. Special effects were used to allow some of the objects to hover in the air, as well as 2 ballerina women dancers that I noticed were also hovering. In my opinion, Ruth B. sang the song in the music video with positive optimism, even though the few comments that I glanced at used a lot of serious melancholy(saddening) to describe how they use it. Keep in mind that you can still decide how to watch and use a music video, even though the comments you may choose to glance at may sway you to another use.

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The movie trailer that I watched for the 1st time and recommend for this advice is called ‘BLACK ADAM Trailer 2 (2022)’. I watched the 1st trailer, but the 2nd trailer I watched for the 1st time earlier today. Here is a quote from wikipedia.org:

‘ Black Adam is an upcoming American superhero film based on the DC Comics character of the same name. Produced by New Line Cinema, DC Films, Seven Bucks Productions, and FlynnPictureCo., it is intended to be a spin-off from Shazam! (2019) and the 11th film in the DC Extended Universe (DCEU). Directed by Jaume Collet-Serra and written by Adam Sztykiel, Rory Haines, and Sohrab Noshirvani, the film stars Dwayne Johnson as the title character alongside Aldis Hodge, Noah Centineo, Sarah Shahi, Marwan Kenzari, Quintessa Swindell, Bodhi Sabongui, and Pierce Brosnan. ‘

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‘ After nearly five-thousand years of imprisonment, Black Adam (Dwayne Johnson), an antihero from the ancient city of Kahndaq, is unleashed into modern times. His brute tactics and way of justice attract the attention of the Justice Society of America (JSA), who try to stop his rampage, teach him how to be a hero more than a villain, and must team up to stop a force more powerful than Adam himself. ‘

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I found it from a publisher shown on my ‘signed in’ youtube homepage, publisher ‘FilmSpot Trailer’. I clicked that, selected ‘VIDEOS’, and then selected ‘TOP UPCOMING SCI-FI MOVIES 2022 (Trailers)’, which was published as of now 5 days ago. 8 minutes and 3 seconds into that trailer collection is where I found the trailer ‘Black Adam’. I then searched for the phrase ‘black adam trailer’, and from that selection, I chose ‘BLACK ADAM Trailer 2 (2022)’. It was published July 23, 2022.

Here is a quote from one of the comments:

‘ I never thought we’d ever see Dr. Fate in DC movie… and to have Pierce as Dr. Fate, make me so glad. I love DC and Marvel equally, but deep down… LOVE DC MORE. ‘

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What I found interesting in this ‘Black Adam’ trailer is the appearance of celebrity Pierce Brosnan as Dr. Fate. Also, since it’s the latest superhero movie, I believe that many older kids will watch it.

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It is now 10:48 AM EST for me. I’m going to order KFC from the UberEats app. After that, I’ll start typing again.

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Guilty:

It is now 12:14 PM EST for me.

Let’s start with the definition of the word ‘Guilty’ that I am using for this advice. According to www.dictionary.com, ‘guilty’ means:

having or showing a sense of guilt, whether real or imagined:
‘a guilty conscience.’

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And the definition of ‘guilt’ according to dictionary.com is:

a feeling of responsibility or remorse for some offense, crime, wrong, etc., whether real or imagined.

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The illustration reference that I am using for idea ‘Guilty’ is in episode 2.15 ‘Seizure’ from sci-fi tv series ‘Stargate Universe(2011)’. Last time I checked, the show is not available streaming in Amazon.com, Hulu, etc. It is available streaming on www.youtube.com. Just search for phrase ‘stargate universe’ on www.youtube.com, and it offers 2 seasons. I’m only recommending that you use that ‘Seizure’ episode. Click the link offered at the right hand side of the screen, click ‘SEASON 1’ to change and click to ‘Season 2’, and I think that Standard Definition is only about $2dollars, High Definition about $3 dollars. If you choose to purchase that streaming episode, the reference starts 29 minutes and 2 seconds into that episode. Here is the quote:

Worker(Jackie Blackmore): ‘How can you possibly control the power flow from so small a device?’

Dr. Rodney McKay(David Hewlett): ‘Because, technically speaking, as far as you’re concerned, I’m from the future.’

Colonel David Telford(Lou Diamond Phillips): ‘Dr. McKay appreciates your help.’

(Colonel Telford touches the Worker’s arm, and she walks away.)

Colonel Telford: ‘What is it with genius and social skills?’

Dr. McKay: ‘Hmm?’

Colonel Telford: ‘Never mind.’

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It’s a science fiction episode. They’re all actors. None of it is real. The people are real, but they’re all portraying something that is not actually happening. So, I’m going to make up/imagine what happened that’s relevant to know for idea ‘Guilty’: When Dr. McKay said the phrase:

‘Because, technically speaking, as far as you’re concerned, I’m from the future.’

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that worker worker would later realize that Dr. McKay is probably the smartest man that she has ever worked with, and because he criticized her, she will feel guilty for about 2 weeks, since she is respectful to her teachers and those with authority, and she may think to herself that she offended him in some way. She is going to experience some sort of ‘guilt trip’ because of you use of courtesy and respect. Colonel Telford saw this happening to her, and decided to help that worker, to avoid that unnecessary ‘guilt trip’ that Dr. McKay created for her to have. Colonel Telford did this:

‘Dr. McKay appreciates your help.’

(Colonel Telford touches the Worker’s arm, and she walks away.)

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And so, here is how I created idea ‘Guilty’: Even though I am not certain that instigation groups actually exist in America, I imagined that, when someone from their instigation group does something wrong that management chooses to inform them of, as someone from management explains to them in a meeting what one of them has done wrong, the rest of that instigation group attending that meeting, I would imagine, may choose to feel vicariously guilty. They did not make that mistake, but they may choose to feel guilty vicariously, since that person who made that mistake is someone from their group. I’m not going to look for that scene specifically, but I recommend, if you have time to, several scenes in episode 4.21 ‘The Drumhead’ from sci-fi tv series ‘Star Trek: The Next Generation(1991)’. The streaming episode should be available from Amazon.com. Here’s a quote from www.imdb.com about the episode:

‘ A retired admiral boards the Enterprise in an effort to determine the actions aboard the ship surrounding an act of sabotage and possible treason. ‘

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If memory serves, everyone attending those meetings, they all acted like they were experiencing some of that blame, except Picard and a few others in the investigation team. None of them were laughing or saying jokes. They all looked like they were feeling somewhat guilty for what was happening. If you want an illustration example of an instigation group vicariously feeling guilty, I recommend that ‘Star Trek’ episode.

And now, the actual advice: it is my belief via imagination that these members of such instigation groups eventually diversify how they feel guilty, that they use their experiences to feel guilty to make ideas that involve feeling guilty and are more objective, when they choose to, when someome tries to cause them to feel guilty. Notice that, in that ‘Stargate Universe’ reference, the worker was going to feel guilty for about 2 weeks, but Colonel Telford prevented that from happening. But how did Colonel Telford strongly suspect that such a thing would happen to that worker? You could use Colonel Telford’s actions as someone who can experience feeling guilty objectively, and who also makes ideas using a feeling of being guilty. To add more story to it, Telford when in school was an instigator, but soon after joining the military, he chose to use his experiences being an instigator to make acceptable situations, not to instigate, but to promote. That led him to get promoted in the military, and also to easily help that worker to avoid unnecessarily feeling guilty.

I recommend that, when an instigator and/or inadvertency causes you to feel guilty, that you think about this idea, that you think about instigators sitting in a meeting as an instigation group, listening to management informing them as to what someone did wrong again in the job. Imagine looking at those instigators looking and feeling vicariously guilty. That may help you give variety to your experienced feeling, to feel guilty.

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Angry:

It is now 1:18 PM EST for me.

Idea ‘Angry’ is based on a scene from the movie ‘The Descendants(2011)’ starring George Clooney as Matt King, and Judy Greer as Julie Speer. It’s intent is to use it as an excuse to explain why the character in the story is doing what he/she is doing. The movie is available streaming from Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, that scene starts 1 hour, 25 minutes, and 23 seconds into the movie. Here is the quote:

Julie Speer: ‘Well, hey, thanks for stopping by. It was really nice to meet you both. Maybe I’ll see you at the beach tomorrow.’

Alexandra King(Shailene Woodley): ‘Yeah, maybe.’

Julie Speer: ‘Nice to meet you.’

Matt King: ‘You, too.’

(Matt King presents a strange departing kiss to Julie Speer)

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The point I am trying to make with idea ‘Angry’ is that instigators, when they do, and I imagined this idea, that they may used an induced sense of feeling angry upon innocent people that they communicate with as a replacement for reasonable logical conclusions. For example, an instigator causes an innocent person that instigator is communicating with to feel angry, and that feeling of anger is used to convince that innocent person that that anger, along with whatever logical conclusion that innocent person has made, that feeling of anger is an indicator that that innocent person has made an acceptable logical conclusion.

Now, here is a story that I made with celebrity George Clooney, but based on that unusual kissing scene from his character portrayal from the movie ‘The Descendants’, not actually George Clooney. In the story, let’s call him Matt King instead of George Clooney, Matt King, during a conversation with someone he just met, caused that person to get angry. While that man was angry, Matt King made the statement that he feels that they are friends, even though they just met. Matt King, based on his experience causing others to get angry, he wants that innocent man to associate anger with an indication that his anger is an indicator that he is also making acceptable logical conclusions.

While I was making idea ‘Angry’, I thought of a scene in tv series ‘Star Trek: Deep Space Nine’, how The Intendant(Nana Visitor) was under pressure when Sisko(Avery Brooks) forced her to let them go. I studied how she reacted in that situation because, even when she was obviously angry as Sisko, she still was able to use acceptable logical conclusions, which led to her letting Sisko and the others go. It is my belief that management, and The Intendant is a ‘sci-fi’ example of someone from management, that management already has a lot to work with logically, even when angry, when compared to a non-managerial employee. This ‘Star Trek’ example, refurbished with inaproprieities removed for advice, goes a few? steps above that, which makes it entertaining to watch. The scene is in episode 3.19 ‘Through the Looking Glass’ from sci-fi tv series ‘Star Trek: Deep Space Nine(1995)’. The episode is available streaming from Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, that scene, refurbished, starts 40 minutes and 50 seconds into the episode. With inaproprieities removed, you may watch more of that episode for understanding. Here is the quote:

Sisko(Avery Brooks): ‘You have 8 minutes and 30 seconds to let us go.’

Garak(Andrew Robinson): ‘Don’t listen to him. He’s bluffing.’

The Intendant: ‘He’s not bluffing.’

Garak: ‘How do you know?’

The Intendant: ‘I know.’

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41 minutes and 27 seconds:

The Intendant: ‘This isn’t over, Benjamin. I’ll hunt you down. I swear it.’

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The idea behind using idea ‘Angry’ is that ‘knowing is half the battle’. If you are experiencing anger induced by an instigation and/or inadvertency, when you choose to, see if you can give the evaluation more depth, more acceptable logical conclusions. Take a step back and try to evaluate the experience knowing that such a sense of anger may be giving you a false sense of acceptable logical conclusions. If you choose to learn idea ‘Self’, the change in strategy by intent will also help.

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It is now 2:45 PM EST for me. Casually said, I can’t believe how time flies while typing this stuff! This coming Saturday, 9/10/2022, I will finally explain idea ‘Self’, unless I change my mind yet again. So, if you are there next Saturday, I’ll see you then.

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Sci-fi violence, viewer discretion for movie ‘Black Adam’.(Just recommending to watch trailer, not movie.) TV-PG sci-fi violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘Stargate Universe’ and ‘Star Trek: Deep Space Nine. Rated R mature themes, viewer discretion for movie ‘The Descendants’. [Use mental bookmarks ‘Guilty’ and ‘Angry’ for reference, allocation, and prevention when needed.