4/12/2023

Hi.

It is now 1:49 PM EST for me.

I want to give an idea to help prepare you for idea ‘Strength’ tomorrow. I don’t want to type this idea tomorrow. I want it to exist in a separate list. So, that’s what I’ll do today. Since I only have a few hours available for today, since this tomorrow is the day I allocated time for this stuff, the priority is to give you that idea, and if I have time, I’ll try to say something else. I’ll look for a music video and trailer now for this list, and soon after that later today, I’ll introduce those things to you, and then give you that idea. So, if you are there later today, I’ll see you then.

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It is now 2:23 PM EST for me.

I am somewhat surprised that I found those 2 so quickly. There are weeks when I would use a lot of effort looking for those 2. Anyway, the music video that I watched for the 1st time earlier today and recommend for this advice/list is called ‘Big Big Love’ by Belinda Carlisle. I found it by selecting from www.youtube.com publisher ‘Hot Music Charts’, select ‘VIDEOS’, select ‘Top Songs of the Week | April 7, 2023’, which was published 5 days ago. A video clip of music video ‘Big Big Love’ starts about 9 minutes and 41 seconds into that video collection, and is #1 out of 100. I did a search in www.google.com using phrase ‘belinda carlisle big big love music video reviews’, and I selected link www.radiocremebrulee.com with headline ‘Belinda Carlisle blends optimism with innocence on “Big Big Love” to give you a quote about the music video ‘Big Big Love’:

‘ Age has not eroded Belinda’s ethereal beauty one bit – which probably has a lot to do with “Big Big Love” being given a proper music video – her first in over 20 years (I think the last one was for the criminally under-rated “I won’t say I’m in love” from the Hercules soundtrack). Many artists from yesteryear reduce their presence in new music videos to a momentary cameo and prefer showcasing a younger cast of characters. In the music video for “Big Big Love” Belinda is front and center looking radiant and beyond stunning. Her magnetic on-screen presence is a visual masterpiece of aging gracefully. ‘

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Here is a quote from the lyrics to song ‘Big Big Love’:

I’m looking for a big big love
That takes up all the space in my heart
I’m looking for a big big love
The kind that can tear me apart
And I’m gonna find it, I’m gonna find it
That big big love, big big love
Big big love

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To watch music video ‘Big Big Love’, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘belinda carlisle big big love’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with 254K views. It was published by publisher ‘Belinda Carlisle’ 3 weeks ago.

In my opinion, it was very easy to select music video ‘Big Big Love’. The music video was easy to watch, no inappropriate language in the lyrics. I just had to start over watching it a few times, to achieve a focus that was acceptable to me. For example, the 1st time I tried to watch music video ‘Big Big Love’ earlier today, I imagined a kid saying something to me, and then I started over. I recommend that music video ‘Big Big Love’ be watched for this list/advice.

Here is a quote from one of it’s comments:

‘ Legend is back! I became a Belinda fan during pandemic era when I was discovering 80s music (I am 25 years old so I unfortunately didn’t grew up during that era) and I feel in love when I heard Circle in the Sand and Summer Rain! I love Runaway Horses album and “I Feel Free” from Heaven on Earth album is my #1 favorite Belinda song! Looking forward to hearing new music, this song is great, modern yet true to her sound! Big big love from Croatia ‘

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The movie trailer that I watched for the 1st time earlier today and recommend for this advice is called ‘Marvel Studios’ The Marvels | Teaser Trailer’. I found it from my ‘signed in’ youtube homepage. Select publisher ‘Marvel Entertainment’ from www.youtube.com, select ‘VIDEOS’, and that’s where you’ll find selection ‘Marvel Studios’ The Marvels | Teaser Trailer’. It was published 1 day ago with 12M views!

In my opinion, what I like most about the trailer is to see Captain Marvel(Brie Larson) interact with people again.

Here’s a quick quote from www.wikipedia.org about when the movie ‘The Marvels’ will be released:

‘ The Marvels is scheduled to be released in the United States on November 10, 2023, as part of Phase Five of the MCU. ‘

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It is now 2:59 PM EST for me. I am going to prepare the illustrations for the idea now. I’ll be back.

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It is now 3:25 PM EST for me.

All right. Here’s the idea: I’m going to try to talk to the adults 1st, the one’s that have been working in the same job for a few years or more. Of course, kids may be reading this blog, since it’s public I suppose it’s possible, and they can extrapolate from what I said to the adults. This idea I’m trying to type in, it’s purpose is to differentiate/partition an obvious experience with instigation/inadvertency, how you evaluate grievances and complaints. If you haven’t used this idea before, that doesn’t necessarily mean that you were doing something wrong before. It’s an idea I think it’s useful, and it’s purpose is to help you use idea ‘Strength’. 1st, I’ll explain ideas ‘Leave’ and ‘Afflict’, ideas I invented within the past month or so. Those 2 ideas will be used to help you differentiate/partition certain experiences involved with how you evaluate job related grievances and complaints. Past ideas should also help, but I’d rather not quote past ideas. I want to explain it using new material. So, here they are:

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Leave:

Idea ‘Leave’ identifies experienced instigations that encourage you to contemplationally leave a situation. So, for example, let’s say a woman enters a room, and she is insulted by several co-workers within an hour. The insults are designed to encourage the woman to leave the room. Even though the woman is still in the room, from those experiences, she still contemplationally feels encouraged to leave that room.

The illustration reference I chose for idea ‘Leave’ is in the movie ‘New in Town(2009)’ starring Lucy Hill as Renée Zellweger. Here is a quote from www.google.com found using the phrase ‘new in town movie review’. I selected link ‘www.pluggedin.com’. Here is a quote from that review:

‘ When she arrives, the townsfolk prove not to be too fond of Lucy, either. The plant foreman tricks her into closing the plant for “Gopher Day” (a holiday he just made up). Employees turn her talk of “synergy” and “mechanization” into a drinking game. And when Lucy gets fed up with the shenanigans and fires the foreman, all the machines in the plant (workers say) mysteriously break down. ‘

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So, based on that quote, there are several scenes in that movie that encourages Lucy Hill to leave. In fact, she does try to leave town. She was going to take a plane out, but the snowstorm prevented that. If you want to see those scenes, the movie is available streaming from Amazon.com.

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Afflict:

Here’s the definition of ‘afflict’, refurbished for advice, that I am using for this idea. The definition is from www.dictionary.com:

‘ to distress with mental or bodily pain; ‘

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And here are the 2 illustration references that I am using to help you sense idea ‘Afflict’. Before I continue, these 2 illustration references are from 2 action movies, one of which has in my opinion extreme violence. I am only recommending the references from the 2 movies, not to actually watch the movie for this advice.

The 1st reference is from the James Bond movie ‘Die Another Day(2002)’ starring Pierce Brosnan as James Bond, and Rosamund Pike as Miranda Frost. The movie is available streaming from Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, that scene starts 59 minutes and 48 seconds into the movie. Here is the quote:

James Bond: ‘Can I expect the pleasure of you in Iceland?’

Miranda Frost: ‘ I’m afraid you’ll never have that pleasure, Mr. Bond. ‘

James Bond: (Mr. Bond made some sort of uncomfortable facial gesture while saying something to represent discomfort.)

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When I recalled that ‘Die Another Day’ scene for this idea recently, I thought Mr. Bond said ‘Ouch.’ , an obvious to me phrase to represent discomfort. I’m refurbishing that scene. I recommend that you use in in the context that Mr. Bond said ‘Ouch’ instead of ‘ooh.’ When Mr. Bond said the phrase:

James Bond: ‘Can I expect the pleasure of you in Iceland?’

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Well, it is an action movie, it’s not real, so I’m assuming that he was referring to attendance, asking if Miranda Frost would also be in Iceland.

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The scene from the 2nd reference is in the movie ‘Luther: The Fallen Sun(2023)’ starring Idris Elba as John Luther, and Cynthia Erivo as Odette Raine. The movie is streaming from the Netflix streaming service, and the scene starts about 1 hour, 31 minutes, and 32 seconds into the movie, when Luther was talking to Cynthia Erivo in the car. Here is the quote:

Cynthia: ‘Do you have kids?’

Luther: ‘Um, no.’

Cynthia: ‘No, clearly not, otherwise you wouldn’t have asked the question.’

Luther: ‘Ouch.’

Cynthia: ‘Sorry.’

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That’s the scene when Luther says ‘Ouch.’ to Cynthia, the 2nd ‘Ouch.’ reference.

All right, the idea: when you think about job related grievances and complaints, it’s like how vacuum cleaners were made years ago. Many of them don’t have detachable parts. It is my belief that at least most of the vacuum cleaners made recently have detachable parts involved in it’s use. So, when you think about job related grievances and complaints, it’s all in one piece, one klump. I recommend that you create a perspective where those job related grievances and complaints have no relevance in what you are doing. For example, you are participating in some sort of job related assignment, and even though certain job related complaints and grievances are related somewhat, technically, whatever it is that you are doing, those complaints and grievances have no place in what you are currently doing. So, using ideas ‘Leave’ and ‘Afflict’, allow yourself to sense a job participation that doesn’t have contemplationally those job related grievances and complaints. And once you have that, you can now sense those job related grievances and complaints, but they are sensed with the awareness of a participation that does not involve those grievances and complaints. In other words, you should be able to differentiate job related grievances and complaints from job related participations that have no place for such things. You should be able to sense them, but not become them.

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Well, anyway, I tried to explain it. I don’t think I explained idea ‘Afflict’ very well. However, I do believe that those 2 ‘Ouch.’ references were very effective, and if I gave a better explanation for idea ‘Afflict’, it would have worked a lot better. Anyway, I still believe that this list may be useful to you.

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It is now 4:27 PM EST for me. I am going to close this list now. Tomorrow, a day that has actual allotted time for this stuff, I will finally explain idea ‘Strength’, unless I change my mind again. So, if you are there tomorrow, I’ll see you then.

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Rated PG for language and some suggestive material for movie ‘New in Town’. Rated PG for action, violence, mature themes for movie ‘Die Another Day’. Rated R for disturbing/violent content, language, mature themes for movie ‘Luther: The Fallen Sun’. Use only refurbished for advice references recommended. Throw away rest of movie. [Use mental bookmarks ‘Leave’ and ‘Afflict’ for reference, allocation, and prevention when needed.