4/13/2023

Hi.

It is now 6:44 AM EST for me.

I changed my mind again. Instead of explaining idea ‘Strength’ today, I have decided to give you the explanation from the idea that I introduced to you in Wishlist #1369.(Just go to ‘Search… ‘ at the end of homepage for www.ionicbreeze1.com and search for number ‘1369’ to select list.) Here is a quote:

‘ I forgot to mention that, even though there are various places that women will not reveal their identities of being attractive, it is still possible for people to create such places. It’s like a loophole. You can at least imagine of such places, and offer such places to women, and still respect their privacy, that they don’t want to bring to your attention certain identities of being attractive. ‘

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I invented the idea yesterday, and I think it may be useful to you. If I have enough spare time after I explain that upgrade, I’ll add another idea.

I’ll start looking for the music video and trailer around 8:30AM EST later today. As soon as I am ready with the music video and trailer, I’ll see you later today.

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It is now 10:01 AM EST for me.

I started around 8:41 AM, so it took me about an hour and 19 minutes to find the music video and trailer. Not terrible. The music video that I watched for the 1st time earlier today and recommend to be watched for this advice is called ‘ceilings’ by Lizzy McAlpine. Before I begin, I want to give you a quote from a music video review, to help you evaluate the music video before you watch it. In www.google.com, I used phrase ‘ceilings lizzy music video reviews’, and then selected link www.broadwayworld.com, headline ‘VIDEO: Lizzy McAlpine Unveils ‘ceilings’ Video’. Here is the quote:

‘ Of the video, Lizzy states, “the ‘ceilings’ music video represents the seconds after meeting someone you like, where you begin to picture a relationship with them. Ultimately, you realize that it doesn’t actually exist and it was just your imagination. I think we all do that, it’s human nature and that’s really what the song is about too.” ‘

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So, if you choose to watch the music video ‘ceilings’, all of that relationship interaction Lizzy McAlpine is doing with that man, that represents what Lizzy McAlpine imagined it would be like. In my opinion, based on my experience, it’s the 2nd music video to do something like that that I have watched. The 1st for me is music video ‘Something About You’ by level 42. Near the end of that music video, you see one of the main characters wearing a leather jacket, a lady, in a subway. That to me indicated that the whole thing was just imagined or something else. Anyway, I found music video ‘ceilings’ in www.youtube.com selecting publisher ‘InMusic Official’, select ‘VIDEOS’, select ‘Hit Songs Of The Week | The Best Songs Of This Week’ published 14 hours ago. Video clip from ‘ceilings’ starts about 44 seconds into the video selection.

Here is a quote from the lyrics to song ‘ceilings’:

Ceilings, plaster
Can’t you just make it move faster?
Lovely to be sitting here with you
You’re kinda cute but it’s raining harder
My shoes are now full of water
Lovely to be rained on with you
It’s kinda cute but it’s so short

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To watch music video ‘ceilings’, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘ceilings lizzy mcalpine’ and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with 6.1M views! It was published 1 month ago by publisher Lizzy McAlpine. According to wikipedia.org, Lizzy McAlpine was born September 21, 1999 (age 23). If you choose to watch music video ‘ceilings’, I recommend that you start watching it 22 seconds in the beginning. That’s when she starts singing. Near the end of the music video, 3 minutes and 6 seconds, one of her friends introduces her to the man she imagined being in that relationship, the one that the music video showed.

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It is now 10:40 AM EST for me.

I took a little break to get something to eat. The movie trailer that I watched for the 1st time earlier today is called ‘A Tourist’s Guide to Love’. Now, what I like about this movie is that it looks like it’s from the United States promoting tourism in Vietnam. Here’s a quote from one of the comments in www.youtube.com:

‘ Yessss! The world needs to know how wonderful Vietnam is. Period. ‘

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And here is a quote from youtube about the movie:

‘ After an unexpected breakup, a travel executive (Rachael Leigh Cook) accepts an assignment to go undercover and learn about the tourist industry in Vietnam. Along the way she finds adventure and romance with her Vietnamese expat tour guide when they decide to reroute the tour bus in order to explore life and love off the beaten path. ‘

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Personally, I haven’t considered Vietnam an active vacation spot, but after seeing this trailer, I now believe that Vietnam tourism can be a beautiful experience. Here is a quote from wikipedia when it will stream:

‘ Filming was done on location in Vietnam in April 2022, and it is scheduled to be released on April 21, 2023, on Netflix. ‘

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I found it by selecting from www.youtube.com publisher ‘Netflix’, select ‘PLAYLISTS’, select ‘New in April 2023 | Netflix’, and trailer ‘A Tourist’s Guide to Love’ is #16 on that list and was published Mar 28, 2023 with 361,139 views.

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Finally! It is now 10:52 AM EST for me.

Perspectives for women that they do not want to present to men:(invented 11:23 AM)

Here is that quote again from Wishlist #1369:

‘ I forgot to mention that, even though there are various places that women will not reveal their identities of being attractive, it is still possible for people to create such places. It’s like a loophole. You can at least imagine of such places, and offer such places to women, and still respect their privacy, that they don’t want to bring to your attention certain identities of being attractive. ‘

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Since I have more than 2 hours available to explain this idea, I can start from the beginning, so to speak. Sometime after I finished typing in Wishlist #1369, after 3/23/2023, I used a video clip from www.youtube.com when Olivia Newton-John was singing the song ‘Hopelessly Devoted to You’ from the movie ‘Grease(1978)’. As I was watching her sing, I imagined that she was singing her adorations about me, but in a context that I was building for her perspectives that she does not want to show me. She doesn’t actually have that type of obvious understanding of it, a bit paradoxical(self-contradictory) actually. Let me try to explain again: in that imagined context, I am building perspectives for her to exist in, or at least helping, but those perspectives are not meant for me to know about. She does not want to present those perspectives to me. It’s the loophole that I mentioned from Wishlist #1369. But even though she does not want to present those perspective to me, she is expressing adoration for me in that song because I am providing for her those perspectives, but she does not have that specific understanding. And so, when I look at her sing, via imagination, I’m using her expressions of adoration for me as an indicator to validate that she appreciates those perspectives that I have provided for her.

If you want to copy what I did, you may use that scene from the streaming movie of ‘Grease’. I did it by watching the video clip provided by www.youtube.com. For that, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘olivia hopelessly devoted’, and the link ‘Olivia Newton-John – Hopelessly Devoted to You (HD)’ should be presented, published by Evenstar – OLDIES’ 8 years ago with 3.4M views. I recommend you start with a close-up of Olivia Newton-John’s face, about 43 seconds into that video clip, and then stop watching it about 2 minutes and 42 seconds into that video clip, because that’s when she sees Danny’s(John Travolta) reflection on the water. If you are imagining that the adoration is for you, I recommend that you don’t look at Danny’s image. Just keep watching your selections of close-ups of her face, using her expressions of adoration as validation that the perspectives that she is using from you are being accepted by her, even though you are not allowed to be there.

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After that, I imagined a professional use of the idea, that creating perspectives for women that they do not want to present to me. As of 11:23 AM EST, I invented a name for this idea. I call it ‘Perspectives for women that they do not want to present to men’. Here’s the story: I imagined Bernard Lowe(Jeffrey Wright) from the sci-fi tv series ‘Westworld(2016-2022)’ as my avatar/representative in the story talking to lawyer Diane Lockhart(Christine Baranski) from tv series ‘The Good Fight(2017-2022) about giving her company illustration access to perspectives that they do not want to present to men. As I(Bernard) walk away, Mrs. Lockhart asks me ‘Aren’t you coming with me?’ I(Bernard) then say ‘Aren’t those perspectives perspectives that women don’t want to show to men? Mrs. Lockhart then replies ‘I can handle it.’

After she said that, I(Bernard) was thinking to myself that, as she was ‘trying them out’, like women trying out clothes from a clothing store, that for certain perspectives, she was going to ask me ‘How do I look?’ Because Mrs. Lockhart is a lawyer, it doesn’t bother her much that such perspectives do tend to be used by women in a context that they do not want to present to men. I would assume that resistance/pushback is a normal part of a lawyer’s job.

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This is the part of the advice where I help you practice more with the paradoxical use of this idea, that you are going to imagine allowing women to use perspectives that they do not want to present to men. If it didn’t ‘sink in’ already, then it should ‘sink in’ with this part of the advice, using this idea. Using my tv with the installed Apple TV + device and wearing headphones, I watched from www.youtube.com the link ‘Olivia Newton-John -‘A Little More Love’ published by publisher ‘Olivia Newton-John’. It was published 10 years ago with IM views. It’s the music of the song ‘A Little More Love’ with the image of Olivia Newton-John wearing what looks like a black leather jacket, black leather pants, black shoes?, and black eyeliner. If you choose to use this part of the idea, while wearing headphones connected to your tv listening to the song ‘A Little More Love’, for the men, imagine a woman that you are attracted to from your job, and you can use the ‘Quantum Leap’ rule, from your birthday to the now, you may select women from your job that you are attracted to for this idea. Let’s say the imagined percentage right now is 5%, and because of the Quantum Leap rule, some of those women could be when you were a kid and you were not even working in that job at that time! You can select an appropriate age for you to use this idea, and even if a few of those women were married at that time, you can just imagine that none of them are married yet. You’re just imagining it in order to improve more your ability to create perspectives for women that they do not want to present to men. In my opinion, imagining such women to be single helps you ‘get your foot in the door’, so to speak, to help you use this idea. So, just imagine one of those women for now as being single wearing clothes similar to what Olivia Newton-John was wearing on that cover. Here are the lyrics to the song ‘A Little More Love’ I got from www.google.com, azlyrics:

Night is draggin’ her feet
I wait alone in the heat
I know, know that you’ll have your way
Till you have to go home
No’s a word I can’t say

Cause it gets me nowhere to tell you no
And it gets me nowhere to make you go
Will a little more love make you start depending
Will a little more love bring a happy ending
Will a little more love make it right?
Will a little more love make it right?

Where, where did my innocence go?
How, how was a young girl to know?
I’m trapped, trapped in the spell of your eyes
In the warmth of your arms
In the web of your lies

But it gets me nowhere to tell you no
And it gets me nowhere to make you go
Will a little more love make you start depending
Will a little more love bring a happy ending
Will a little more love make it right?
Will a little more love make it right?

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If you want to, you can change the lyrics as you use them. You don’t have to use them literally.

Keep in mind that you are just imagining this. If you want to, in the beginning, you may remind yourself that they are just perspectives that you are building/accomodating for certain women, not every possible perspective that fits the description. Just the one’s that you can handle. And to help you create such perspectives, you want to imagine such women moving around in them. So, with the woman that you find attractive from your job, you may imagine her wearing clothing similar to what Olivia Newton-John was wearing from that provided image, and you may imagine that attractive woman singing the song ‘A Little More Love’ as she is walking on the sidewalk, and you are also imagining walking alongside her. She does not see you, since it is a perspective that she does not want to present to men, but to help you build such a perspective for her, you may imagine yourself looking at her singing that song and walking on a sidewalk. You may even look at her face ‘close-up’ if you choose to.

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For this next example using this idea, I’m going to use a story using tv series ‘Star Trek: The Next Generation’ leading to a story that uses the main characters from the comedy movie ‘The Haunted Mansion(2003)’ starring Eddie Murphy as Jim Evers, and Marsha Thomason as Sara Evers. Here’s the ‘Star Trek: The Next Generation’ story: 2 Starfleet employees? met during the ‘Star Trek: The Next Generation’ storyline, one is a Klingon woman, the other is a human man. Both chose to get married while they are still in that Enterprise because the main characters in that show, more specifically Lieutenant Worf(Michael Dorn) and Counselor Deanna Troi(Marina Sirtis) helped them resolve certain issues regarding the relationship they want to have with each other. Since the woman is a Klingon, they both get to talk to Worf regarding Klingon/human relations, and Counselor Troi helps them with other issues. Since they’re not going to spend their entire Starfleet careers in the Enterprise, they decided to take advantage of their situation and marry while they are there.

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The next story involves the main character Jim Evers from the movie ‘The Haunted Mansion(2003)’, but instead of the year 2003, let’s say the events all happened this year, 2023. Just add some paradox in the story. And here’s the story of how Jim Evers met his wife Sara. Jim Evers created a virtual schematic of his participations/interests/projects/investments. And in it, he invented an actual place for people acclimate themselves when associated with certain projects. One day, an incident occurred, and the people involved in that incident all shared a similar experience, that they all would regularly visit that place. He went there, and as he was there, that was when he met Sara for the 1st time, the woman that he would eventually marry.

I’m not a marriage expert, but I used the idea that one of the main reasons that Americans get a divorce is because of certain associated identities that women have that they want their husbands to get involved with. Unfortunately, when certain divorces would occur, it is because their husbands weren’t able to more tenably interact with those associated perspectives. When Sara met Jim in that place that he created, that place allowed Sara to satiate certain associated perspectives, that they didn’t have to be presented to Jim if they were to get into a relationship, and even if they get married, not at 1st. If they get married, Sara believed that she could train Jim to build perspectives that she would eventually use to present to Jim when she believes Jim is ready to perceive them, or in case such perspectives would unavoidably be presented, and that ‘unavoidable’ presentation, refurbishing the movie, is what happened in the movie ‘The Haunted Mansion’. If you watched the movie, given the way that Sara arranged those perspectives to be presented to her husband Jim, it worked out! Jim still loves her husband, and at the end of the movie, Jim even chooses to take a few of those singing statues with them, believing that they are useful somehow.

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So, in the ‘Star Trek: The Next Generation’ story, the 2 that got married took advantage of a situation involving convenient perspective availability and chose to get married while they were both still working in the Enterprise, and in ‘The Haunted Mansion’ story, based on how Sara met Jim refurbished, Sara saw potential in Jim, allowing her to present certain perspectives to Jim incrementally. Jim, with Sara’s help, even helped build those perspectives that she was not going to present to him. For certain one’s, those perspectives that Jim helped build for Sara will only be used when they have to be presented to Jim, and that, refurbished, is what happened when they were in that haunted house. Notice that, in spite of all of that ‘crazy’ that happened in that haunted house, Jim still loves his wife, they’re still married, an obvious indicator that such perspectives were presented to Jim in a context that didn’t cause them to get a divorce.

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It is now 12:55 PM EST for me.

Because it’s getting late for me, I’m going to type in the closing story with some parts missing. I’m just going to give you a story that I can close with. And here it is: As I was making this idea, I kind of focused on women that were attractive. I would try to make the number 100% with an asterisk(*), but I wasn’t able to maintain that perspective. I wanted to create an idea that I can offer building perspectives that they don’t want to present to men, to women in general, not just women that are attractive. Unfortunately for me, the music videos and music that are in my ‘Watch later’ youtube.com list are all relationship based. As I was looking at my ‘Watch later’ list, I found a music video that I believe I can refurbish to allow me to use it on women in general, to offer such perspectives to women in general, not just to women that are attractive, and of course that definition of ‘perspective’ is based on the personal perspectives of men that use this idea, not a more developed, more considerate definition of what ‘attractive’ actually is. And here is the music video that I used to allow men in general to allow them to offer such perspectives to women in general, to make that number 100%*. When pursuing 100%*, I recommend watching and using music video ‘New Moon On Monday’ by Duran Duran. To watch that music video, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘duran new moon’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with 11M views! It was published 14 years ago by publisher ‘Duran Duran’.

‘If you choose to watch and use music video ‘New Moon On Monday’, I recommend that you start 42 seconds into that music video, because that’s when the music starts. If you find that the idea is working for you when using music video ‘New Moon On Monday’, then you should experience some sort of epiphany the 1st time you’re using it. After that, in my opinion, that obvious sense of epiphany may not occur the 2nd time you watch and use music video ‘New Moon On Monday’, so I recommend that you prepare yourself before you watch and use the music video ‘New Moon On Monday’ the 1st time. Of course, you probably learned something using the idea regardless, but if you are also into that feeling of epiphany, then I recommend that you prepare yourself before watching and using music video ‘New Moon On Monday’ the 1st time.

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It is now 1:12 PM EST for me.

I am going to close this list now. Next Thursday, I will finally explain idea ‘Strength’, unless I change my mind again. So, if you are there next Thursday, I’ll see you then. I don’t plan on typing anything anything in this coming Wednesday. I just want to type in ideas once a week. I forgot to say that it’s 100%* for women. It’s something, and I believe that, in spite of it’s beginning effectiveness, it could still be useful to you. You can still change it’s use if you choose to, upgrade it if you can. I’d like to believe that ‘as is’ is still useful to you regardless.

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Rated TV-PG for movie ‘A Tourist’s Guide to Love’. Rated PG mature themes, viewer discretion for movie ‘Grease’. Rated TV-MA mature themes, severe sci-fi violence, language, viewer discretion for tv series ‘Westworld’. Rated TV-MA mature themes, viewer discretion for tv series ‘The Good Fight’. Rated TV-PG mature themes, sci-fi violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘Star Trek: The Next Generation’. Rated PG for frightening images, thematic elements and language for movie ‘The Haunted Mansion’. Use only refurbished for advice references recommended. Throw away rest of episode, series, and movie. [Use mental bookmark ‘Perspectives for women that they do not want to present to men’ for reference, allocation, and prevention when needed.