6/19/2023

Greetings.

It is now 6:34AM EST for me.

I chose not to work today because it’s a holiday. What I’ll do today is recommend a few more ideas I recently invented, and this coming Thursday as scheduled, I will finish that ‘Kryptonian’ idea, unless I change my mind. I recommend that you see these ideas in this list as a freebie, since it’s in addition to the normally scheduled Thursday ideas. I’ll start again around 8-8:30AM, less than 2 hours from now, and around 11:00AM I’m going to try and order Italian food from one of the food apps, probably from DoorDash or GrubHub. So, if you are going to be there in 2 hours, I’ll see you then.

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It is now 8:28AM EST for me.

I’m going to look for that music video and trailer now. I’ll start with the music video, then the trailer. I’ll start typing again later today after I prepare them.

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It is now 9:57AM EST for me.

The music video that I watched for the 1st time earlier today and recommend for this advice is called ‘Grow’ by Samm Henshaw. I found it in www.youtube.com, search for phrase ‘vevo’ and select publisher ‘Vevo’, scroll down to and select ‘Featured Channels’, select ‘Vevo UK’, scroll down to ‘HIP-HOP + R&B Playlists’, select ‘Latest R&B Tunes Playlist – New R&B & SOUL Music Videos 2023’, and music video ‘Samm Henshaw – Grow (Official Video)’ is #199 out of 214 music videos.

Here is a quote from the lyrics:

Together we’ll grow yeah
(So in love)
Together we’ll grow yeah
(More in love)
Grow baby
(So in love)
Oh it won’t be easy but
If we stay together we’ll be
(More in love)

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And here is a quote from a link that I found in www.google.com searching for phrase ‘samm henshaw grow music video reviews’, www.thepitldn.com:

‘ The visuals are directed by Jim Pilling, and star fellow artist Tiana Major9 as Samm’s love interest, as we witness an authentic and vibrant tale of love and romance through honest, resolute narration. ‘

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To watch music video ‘Grow’, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘samm henshaw grow’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with 908K views. It was published 1 year ago.

It is my belief that, if you work for the same job for a few years or more, you may see from time to time employees talking to their spouses, expressing some sort of complaint over their cell phones. In my opinion, when I watch the music video ‘Grow’, those imagined people complaining to their spouses/those they are in relationships with, watching the music video ‘Grow’ reminds me of those people. The scene I am quoting from the music video starts about 2 minutes and 27 seconds into the music video. You don’t hear them actually talk, well I don’t, but there’s subtitles in the music video itself:

Tiana Major9: ‘Question: Where’s the bonsai tree?’

Samm Henshaw: ‘I chucked it in the bin. It was looking ‘sick'(edited) so I got us a new tree.’

Tiana Major9: (taking it out of the bin and putting it back on the counter) ‘You can’t just give up like that, Sonny.’

Samm Henshaw: (after Tiana Major9 leaves the kitchen, talking to himself) ‘It’s just a tree, man.’

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The movie trailer that I watched for the 1st time earlier today and recommend for this advice is called ‘Heart of Stone’. I found it from www.youtube.com, select publisher ‘Movie Coverage’, select ‘VIDEOS’, scroll down, and a ‘HEART OF STONE’ trailer was there. Because Movie Coverage’s ‘HEART OF STONE’ trailer only had 48K views, I searched for phrase ‘heart of stone trailer’ in www.youtube.com, and selected ‘Heart of Stone | Gal Gadot | Official Trailer | Netflix’. That was published 1 day ago by publisher ‘Netflix’, and it has 8.3M views! That’s the one that I watched.

I chose ‘Heart of Stone’ because of Gal Gadot’s performance in the movie ‘Wonder Woman 1984(2020)’. I think movie ‘Heart of Stone’ is her next big action movie.

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It is now 10:43AM EST for me.

There are 2 ideas that I invented I think within the past week. One is called ‘In the loop’, and I just invented that name earlier today, and the other, and it’s not what it sounds like, it’s just in a form that, in my opinion, makes it easier to contemplationally repeat, the 2nd one is called ‘Take advantage’. I will explain both ideas today. Right now, I’m going to check the food app(s) to see what Italian food I will order. I’ll be back in 20 minutes.

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In the loop:

It is now 11:45AM EST for me.

Here’s the definition of ‘in the loop’ that I amusing from www.google.com. I am using the definition of ‘be in the loop’ from www.collinsdictionary.com:

‘ If someone is in the loop, they are part of a group of people who make decisions about important things, or they know about these decisions. If they are out of the loop, they do not make or know about important decisions. ‘

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The 1st part of idea ‘In the loop’ was from a story I think I typed in a while ago in this blog. In that story, a grammar school classroom was given a project, and for illustration clarity, that project, which was entertaining for the students to participate in, was given in another room. All of the details are not in this story. It’s just the gist of it. The students, without supervision to do so, were told that, after a certain amount of time, they were to stop participating and go back to their classroom.(I didn’t say that in the original story.) Only one student went back, a girl, and she said something about coming back, but I forgot what she said. The point is that the story can be refurbished to be interpreted that the girl wanted to remain ‘in the loop’ based on the original agreement she made with the teacher/moderator. The difficulty to remain ‘in the loop’ is illustrated by the other students remaining with that project participation, since it was designed to be very entertaining to participate with.

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In the 2nd story, I invented this story with the men that I encouraged to wear jeans from a previous list. Here’s the story: A man purchased 7 jeans and hung them in his closet, with an assortment of other clothes. Most of the hangers were white plastic hangers, but he also had 1 silver metal hanger. He originally agreed to himself that the silver hanger was to have a priority use with the other hangers. However, as he prioritized the use of how his clothes were to be hung, he found it problematic to continue using the silver metal hanger. As he gave that silver hanger other uses in that closet, he realized that such uses would violate the original agreement he made to himself, that that hanger should have a priority use. Therefore, he eventually chose to use the silver hanger as one of the hangers for his jeans, a use that has an obviously high priority. It didn’t look right initially, but he believed it to be the right thing to do, since he wants that hanger to be ‘in the loop’.

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The 3rd story I think you may find entertaining to use, since it’s from a scene from episode 1.17 ‘Carry Out the Griffin Plan/Fullmetal Lady/Omelet Rice’ from animated tv series ‘Spy x Family(2022)’. According to www.imdb.com, season 2 will start October of this year. Here’s a short quote from spy-x-family.fandom.com about that scene:

‘ The students continue working on their art projects, and Anya decides to convert her Bond model into a small female griffin to pair with Damian’s. The students’ art projects are displayed in the hallway, which a group from the board of trustees walks through. While they see some well-put-together art projects, they arrive at Damian and Anya’s work, which looks tattered and falling apart. Henry informs Damian that his art piece won first prize due to the board of trustees interpreting it as a powerful vision of the nation’s rebound from war. ‘

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Episode 1.17 is available streaming on Crunchyroll, and to type what they say, I used Japanese language with English subtitles. The scene starts 12 minutes and 33 seconds into the episode. Here is the quote:

Anya Forger: ‘Second Son… I’m sorry I was so useless. You can have this instead of the feathers.’

Damian Desmond(Second Son): ‘Huh? What is this? It’s just the garbage you made.’

Anya: ‘I turned it into a girl griffin! Make it a pair with yours!’

Damian: ‘Huh? Why do I need to add that to it?’

Anya: ‘A… Apparently, if you have love, you can fly.’

Damian: ‘Huh?’

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So, this is how the illustration is refurbished for this advice. More of the episode is used. There are 4 vectors/fronts/stages, 4 examples of being ‘in the loop’ to that illustration:

1: Anya presenting her baby griffin to Damain

2: Damain allowing Anya’s project to join with his project

3: The judges giving Damian and Anya’s project presentation 1st prize

4: Henry Henderson later evaluating the project himself, also illustrating an acceptance of it.

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In this 4th part of the explanation, and this is the last one for this idea because I want to explain another idea today, uses character Stu Preissler(Steve Martin) from the movie ‘The Big Year(2011)’. Here’s the story: A group of people are putting together a project idea with the CEO Stu Preissler present, and they’re doing it standing in the same room. While they’re eagerly putting it together, their boss, Stu Preissler stops them, saying that all of them, while putting the idea together, just physically relegated him to manage the garbage can that is in the room! He wants his employees to at least try to keep him ‘in the loop’ with certain details of the project as it’s being created by them.

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It’s 12:25PM EST for me.

I finished explaining idea ‘In the loop’, but I still didn’t get my Italian food delivered by Grubhub. I’ll wait for that food, and then I’ll continue typing.

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It is now 1:55PM EST for me.

Take advantage:

Since it’s kind of late for me, I’m just going to give the explanation without illustration. That way, I can just close this idea. Here’s the idea using a story: Let’s say that I create a place that accommodates people, allows them to feel good just by being there. Normally, I don’t visit the place, but I occasionally do. Now, I’m just imagining this whole idea, and I am just imagining that I am visiting such a place. I meet a woman there, a woman that I find attractive, and she is acting, based on 1st impressions, unusually giddy/eager to me. I don’t want to take advantage of her chosen sense of demeanor. She reminds me of an idea that I made in this blog called ‘Heat of the moment’, when business proposals are given to prospective clients, and since those clients are acting sort of eager, those that give such proposals acknowledge that those prospective clients are in ‘the heat of that moment’, and so the proposal givers give them some time to acclimate and think about what was presented to them. I don’t want to take advantage of that woman, and so I imagine saying that to her, and then I talk her down a little, explaining to her a more reasonable use of interacting, allowing her to choose to calm down and react more reasonably.

That was the 1st imagined scenario. The 2nd one I created, soon after thinking about the 1st scenario, is what happens when I am not in that place. I think what happens is that people who visit that place that I created really try to absorb it’s recuperation effects.

When you are a victim of mild to moderate forms of instigation, I believe that it affects your sense of chosen demeanor, the demeanor you present to others, and the demeanor you would want to commit to. But even so, people where you would work would still evaluate you, evaluations that don’t take into consideration well enough how instigation affects your use of demeanor. In an episode of ‘Babylon 5’, Sheridan(Bruce Boxleitner) said quote ‘It’s an imperfect world.’ I don’t know if that quote is still in the series.

And this is one of the evaluations that I imagined: instigators would talk about presenting to you something that would cause you to think ‘I don’t want to take advantage of you’, so you would give them advice/instruction that may cause you to dismiss such a reaction. The concern is that such a reaction may be something for certain expectations that is useful to them, and that they are thankful that they are able to talk about it, allowing them to continue to keep that usefulness.

Now, keep in mind that nobody knows everything. This is just advice that I believe may be useful to you. I am not saying that you did anything wrong. I a person in general sees someone acting in a hysterical manner, a normal reaction in my opinion would be to help that person calm down. The solution that I created for the situation where the group would evaluate you is to ‘not take advantage of them’ by allowing them, in a reasonable context, to keep their eagerness in a way that allows them to keep what they believe belongs to them. I think you may understand better if I give an example of how to do that:

Suppose you experience an instigation where an instigator would present a certain sense of eagerness, let’s say a woman is expressing a certain sense of giddiness to you, also as part of an instigation. You can contemplationally say ‘Take advantage’, meaning that you are allowing that person to express herself without taking advantage of her. Before, if you experienced that, you would not want to take advantage of her expression of giddiness/eagerness, and you may think of giving her some sort of advice to help her not use that expression. Now, with idea ‘Take advantage’, you are allowing that woman to express herself as it relates to what she believe belongs to her, and you don’t want to take advantage of that openly presented expression of reaction. Now, that doesn’t mean that anyone can present himself/herself to you hysterically, and you’ll just allow them to present themselves to you repeatedly in such an erratic state. In my opinion, the use of the idea gives you more to work with contemplationally, and allows you to be more tolerant of other people’s beliefs. Also, it is my belief that an instigator can cause you to have such a concern with the intent to cause you to commit to a sense of partial justification for their instigation related actions.

I’m recommending that you just try idea ‘Take advantage’ out. Just contemplationally say ‘Take advantage’ to see if an instigator/instigation is encouraging you to dismiss another person’s reactions to the point that you also dismiss certain things that they would believe belongs to them. To help this make more sense to you, yesterday I invented an idea called ‘Compensate penalty’, where you have the option to not commit to certain penalties imposed upon you to think about, as well as it’s associated compensations. To explain that idea, I would also have to explain a few other ideas, so I would probably have to wait a few weeks until I explain it. If you were to improve your ability to not commit to certain imposed upon penalties and it’s associated compensations, then maybe idea ‘Take advantage’ would make more sense to you.

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It is now 2:28PM EST for me.

I’m going to close this list now. This coming Thursday, I will finish explaining that ‘Kryptonian’ idea, unless I change my mind again. So, if you are there, I’ll see you then.

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Rated PG-13 for sequences of violence and action, and some language for movie ‘Heart of Stone’. Rated TV-14 animated violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘Spy x Family’. Rated PG for language and some sensuality for movie ‘The Big Year’. Use only refurbished for advice references recommended. Throw away rest of episode, series, and movie. [Use mental bookmarks ‘In the loop’ and ‘Take advantage’ for reference, allocation, and prevention when needed.