2/5/2024

Salutations.

It is now 9:10PM EST for me.

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[2/12/2024: It is now 11:34AM EST for me. I deleted what I recommended here before I plan to start typing my next idea later today, probably around 8:00PM EST. The priority of this blog is to give advice about experienced instigation, to help you cope with it better, if you are experiencing it at all. In my opinion, recommending stuff for you that you may find useful is great for me to do, but it’s not the main priority. This item I recommended, based on my ability to recommend, requires too much work for me to recommend. Therefore, I chose to delete it. It is not something I thought would occur, not until days after I typed it in that I realized it needed explanation maintenance. If I knew that it required from me explanation maintenance before I typed it in, I probably would not have typed it in at all. Sorry for the inconvenience, if you experienced any. 2/12/2024]

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It is now 9:44PM EST for me.

I am going to look for that music video and trailer now. That should take about an hour and a half to prepare and start typing again. So, if you are there, I’ll see you then.

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It is now 11:21PM EST for me.

The music video that I watched for the 1st time earlier today and recommend for this advice is called ‘Selfish’ by Justin Timberlake. Here is a quote from link www.hollywoodreporter.com about the music video:

Timberlake starts off in casual clothing before upgrading to a black suit, where he fills a spotlight as he dances and sings alone on a dark stage. “Baby you got such a hold on me / So if I get jealous, I can’t help it / I want every bit of you / I guess I’m selfish,” Timberlake croons.

Midway through the video, Timberlake spots a brightly lit doorway that leads to a dollhouse-sized office he has difficulty navigating. At the end of the trailer, and after repeating the line “I guess I’m selfish,” the lights come up on the soundstage and Timberlake, now the Hollywood celebrity sporting a playful grin on his face, walks away.

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And here is a quote from the lyrics:

So if I get jealous, I can’t help it
I want every bit of you, I guess I’m selfish
It’s bad for my mental, but I can’t fight it, when
You’re out lookin’ like you do, but you can’t hide it, no

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I found it by selecting publisher ‘Current Chart!’ from www.youtube.com, select ‘Videos’, then select ‘Best New Songs – FEBRUARY 2024!’, published 3 days ago….

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It is now 11:34PM EST for me.

A few of the hairs from my arm would sting when it would get caught by my laptop, so less than a minute or so ago, I put some Scotch tape where the hairs would get caught. I don’t think I will feel that stinging pain anymore. The Scotch tape should prevent that from happening. If you have that problem with your laptop, you can just put many varieties of tape on it. I just happen to have some Scotch tape to use on it.

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Going back to ‘Best New Songs – FEBRUARY 2024!’, a video clip of music video ‘Selfish’ starts 1 minute and 54 seconds into that video clip collection, and is #12 out of 30.

To watch music video ‘Selfish’, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘justin timberlake selfish’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with 8.4M views! It was published 11 days ago by publisher ‘Justin Timberlake’.

If you choose to watch the music video, I recommend that you start watching it about 16 seconds into the video. Notice that, starting 1 minute and 24 seconds into the music video, when Mr. Timberlake walks into that smaller room, he doesn’t seem surprised as he navigates within it.

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The movie trailer that I watched for the 1st time earlier today and recommend for this advice is called ‘WEATHERING WITH YOU Trailer (2020) English Dub’. I could find a movie/tv show trailer from the usual sources, so I checked for an animated movie that I recommended in a previous list, to see if it had other related animated movies. I then searched for phrase ‘Makoto Shinkai’ by clicking his name, scrolled down, and the film before ‘Suzume’ was ‘Weathering with You’. I searched for phrase ‘weathering with you trailer’, and that’s how I found and selected it’s English Dubbed version to watch. As usual, since it’s animated, do not emulate anything reckless and/or dangerous when watching that trailer. As I watched it, I found it to be relaxing to watch.

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It is now 11:48PM EST for me.

I am giving myself about 2 and a half hours to type these ideas in. Since I tend to underestimate how much time I have available as I type these ideas in, I will explain the last part 1st called ‘Entitlement’, and after I explain that, I will try to explain it’s beginning. Idea ‘Entitlement’ should be useful to you, even if the originally planned beginning is not typed in. I’ll look for it’s illustration references 1st, and then I’ll start explain it. That should take me about 15 minutes, since I’m also going to take a short break. I’ll be right back.

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Entitlement:

It is now 12:09AM EST for me.

Let’s start with the definition of the word ‘entitlement’, a definition that I will use for this advice. The definition is from www.dictionary.com:

‘ a provision, amount, etc., to which one is entitled; a right:
A good education is the moral entitlement of every child.
Temporary teachers receive most of the entitlements of permanent teachers, including annual salary, on a prorated basis. ‘

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All right. I imagined that women in general believe that they are entitled to certain things. Therefore, one of the reasons that I created idea ‘Entitlement'(and maybe I’ll have time to explain the other reasons later) is to help single men remember somewhat what those certain entitlements are, and to at least try to maintain the identity of those entitlements when interacting with certain women. I forgot to mention that I’m presenting the advice for the 1st 2 illustration examples in the context that it is advice given to single men who may need help to acquire and maintain relationships with women. You can just extrapolate from that, for kids, teenager, and adults in general. I don’t see that as a thing. The 3rd illustration example that I created grudgingly is for the sake of balance, to allow women who may have been discouraged somewhat by the 1st 2 illustration examples to maybe find the 3rd illustration example useful enough.

The 1st 2 examples is based mainly on a scene from the movie, refurbished for advice, ‘Laws of Attraction(2004)’ starring Pierce Brosnan as Daniel Rafferty, and Julianne Moore as Audrey Woods. It involves more scenes from the movie, so in relation to advice, if you want to watch more of the movie, you may choose to do so. I’m just going to quote the ‘gist’ of it. I’ll start with the quotes, and then the explanation afterwards. The movie is available streaming from Amazon.com. If you have Prime shipping, then the movie is available with Prime. No additional payment is required just to watch it streaming. The 1st quote starts about 48 minutes and 21 seconds into the movie:

Audrey Woods: ‘So, where did you get it?’

Daniel Rafferty: ‘Uh, Mr. O’Callaghan back in the village.’

Audrey: ‘He’s not open on a Tuesday.’

Daniel: ‘No, I borrowed this from Mr. O’Callaghan the butcher down the road. He’s Mr. O’Callaghan, the car hire man’s, uncle. And you see, every Tuesday…’

Audrey: ‘I don’t want to know.’

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The 2nd illustration, 54 minutes and 37 seconds into the movie:

Mrs. Flanagan(Elva Crowley): (talking to Audrey Woods): ‘And every year we have a festival in their honor.’

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The 3rd illustration example starts 57 minutes and 2 seconds into the movie:

Irish Woman(Nuala Kelly): ‘Are you dancing?’

Daniel Rafferty: [coughs] ‘No, I’m not. No, madam, I’m not. I’m slightly indisposed. My ankle and stuff like this. I’d love to, but…’

Irish Woman: ‘Oh, don’t be so soft.’

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57 minutes and 32 seconds into the movie, Daniel Rafferty and the Irish Woman are both kissing.

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Here’s the explanation: Daniel Rafferty is refurbished for advice used as an illustration example of a man identifying and maintaining a sense of entitlements with women. The 1st illustration example, his ability to communicate, to ask someone to borrow his car, demonstrates somewhat his ability to identify and maintain a certain entitlement in communication. The festival is refurbished to be partly sponsored by both lawyers. And when the Irish Woman kissed Daniel Rafferty, that was Daniel Rafferty being able to identify and maintain what he suspects the Irish Woman is entitled to have. He’s trying to allow the Irish Woman to continue to believe that, as she is kissing Daniel, that she is doing so while participating in the festival. Since Daniel in this story is partly sponsoring that festival, he wants that Irish Woman to continue to believe that her sense of festival entitlement still exists for her.

So, to refurbish that scene, during that festival, there was no dancing. The Irish Woman just walked up to Daniel Rafferty and kissed him.

So, those illustration examples refurbished for advice from the movie ‘Laws of Attraction’ are the examples that are the basis for idea ‘Entitlement’. You have something to look at from the movie when you consider to use idea ‘Entitlement’.

I invented within a few days ago 3 illustration examples for idea ‘Entitlement’. I guess I could clean it up more, but the ideas I created are OK.

It is now 1:00AM EST for me.

Refurbished for reasonable imagination and conceptualization, I am going to recommend using the ‘Guardian of Forever’ interface shown in episode 3.10 ‘Terra Firma, Part 2’ from sci-fi tv series ‘Star Trek: Discovery(2020)’ and episode 1.28 ‘The City on the Edge of Forever(1967) from sci-fi tv series ‘Star Trek: Original Series. Both episodes are available streaming from Amazon.com. The ‘Guardian of Forever’ imagined/conceptualized interface will be used to present to yourself certain chosen women’s entitlements. You can just rent or buy those 2 streaming episodes from Amazon.com if you are not using the Paramount+ Video Channel from Amazon.com. Here’s a quote from 3.10 ‘Terra Firma, Part 2’, 33 minutes and 30 seconds into the episode:

Michael Burnham(Sonequa Martin-Green): ‘Who are you? Really?’

Carl(Paul Guilfoyle): ‘Really? [voice echoing] I am the Guardian of Forever.’

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And here is a quote from episode 1.28 ‘The City on the Edge of Forever(1967)’, 9 minutes and 37 seconds into the episode:

Spock(Leonard Nimoy): ‘Look at the speed with which the centuries are passing, Captain. To step through on precisely the day we wish… ‘

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Just change the use of ‘The Guardian of Forever’s’ interface. You may imagine/conceptualize still images, and you don’t have to look at it’s original stone interface. You can choose to just imagine/conceptualize a standard screen image.

I imagined 3 entitlement illustrations using ‘The Guardian of Forever”s interface. The 1st one is based on that kissing scene between Daniel Rafferty and the Irish Woman from the movie ‘Laws of Attraction’, except I am there instead, and a woman that looks like celebrity Gwyneth Paltrow, and I’m guessing she’s also Irish, like I am in that scene from that movie, she just walks up to me and kisses me. I imagine identifying and maintaining that entitlement, that she is participating in that festival, and she continues to participate in the festival’s activities. So, you see, the idea is to identify and somewhat maintain a certain context of entitlement(s) that women believe they have. It could even be entitlements that women should have for certain participations, even though they are not aware of what those entitlements are. I don’t have time to explain that today.

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It is now 1:31AM EST for me.

I don’t have time to explain the 2nd illustration example, so I’ll go right to the 3rd illustration example. I’m just going to use www.imdb.com for references. I’m using the refubished character Miles Bron(Edward Norton) from the movie ‘Glass Onion(2022)’ and 2 characters from the movie ‘Quicksilver(1986)’, Terri(Jami Gertz) and Gypsy(Rudy Ramos).

In this story, Miles Bron(Edward Norton) is not like his original character from the movie ‘Glass Onion’. He’s a businessman who is ‘just friends’ with Terri(Jami Gertz). She doesn’t look like Terri from the movie ‘Quicksilver’, but she fits the profile. Miles Bron watched the movie ‘Quicksilver’, and based on what Terri said about her job, she is like the woman in the movie ‘Quicksilver’. Even her boss, according to Miles Bron’s beliefs, is also like Gypsy. He talked to her several times, that he can get a job working with him, but she chooses to remain with her boss that is supposedly like Gypsy. Miles Bron chooses to remain single, but without being in a relationship with her, he does seemingly everything else with Terri, which is why he thinks about her a lot, tolerating her chosen lifestyle, but he is still experiencing some distress about her lifestyle choice.

I imagined imagining/conceptualizing using ‘The Guardian of Forever”s interface, seeing himself being in distress because of Terri’s interaction with her chosen lifestyle, and that use of imagining/conceptualization helped Miles Bron more objectively accept Terri’s lifestyle choice, her lifestyle choice of ‘entitlement’. He extrapolates this conclusion from his own distressed image.

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It is now 1:44AM EST for me.

I am going to close this list now. Next Monday night/Tuesday morning, I plan to type in another idea, unless I change my mind. So, if you are there, I’ll see you then.

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Rated PG-13 mature themes, language for movie ‘Laws of Attraction’. Rated TV-14 mature themes, sci-fi violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘Star Trek: Discovery’. Rated TV-PG mature themes, sci-fi violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘Star Trek(1966-1969)’. Rated PG-13 mature themes, strong violence, language for movie ‘Glass Onion’. Rated PG mature themes, violence, viewer discretion for movie ‘Quicksilver’. Use only refurbished for advice references recommended. Throw away rest of episode, series, and movie. [Use mental bookmark ‘Entitlement’ for reference, allocation, and prevention when needed.