Wishlist #1435

2/26/2024

Greetings.

It is now 9:20PM EST for me.

Here’s another Amazon.com recommendation, but it’s based on a change from the ‘pandemic’ routines that people in America may still subscribe to. Based on my own routine, for several years I was using hand sanitizer. I still am. For example, if I go to a restaurant, I may use the hand sanitizer that they provide before I eat. But now, I’ve changed the frequency of it’s use. When I go to work, I think that they still provide hand sanitizer for employees in general, but this is what I bring to work to use on my hands after I use the bathroom:

Dial Complete Anti-Bacterial Advanced Hydration Foaming Hand Wash, Spring Water, 45 fl oz (3-15 fl oz bottles)

LONGWAY 3PCS Travel Size Foam Pump Bottle,Mini Empty Pump Bottle Dispenser(30ml,1 fl oz) (Black)

I found and purchased the travel size foam pump this month from Amazon.com, and I use it to administer the Dial Complete Anti-Bacterial hand wash. I pour it in. Just like the video shows, the small pump turns the hand wash into foam. I tried it myself. It works. The reason why I chose that hand wash, if I may be forward to say this, is because it has a pleasant clean smell, removing any? hand poop smell that may occur after you wash your hands with the liquid soap provided when you use the bathroom. Based on my experience, it’s really effective in cleaning your hands after you used the bathroom to poop. You can tell the difference, after you washed your hands with it, by smelling the hand that you used to wipe your butt after you used the toilet to poop. In my opinion, because it’s so effective, I’ve decided to bring that to work instead of bringing hand sanitizer to work. After all, it is my belief that American jobs in general already provide hand sanitizer.

3-15 fl oz bottles costs about $18 dollars with prime shipping available, and 3 travel size foam pumps from Amazon.com costs about $7, also with prime shipping available. If you only need 1, the other 2 can be saved as replacements for whatever reason, so to speak. I don’t think they sell only 1 of those pumps. They have 2 colors: Black and Clear. I chose to buy Black.

I am going to look for that music video and trailer now to recommend. That should take me about and hour and a half to do. After that, I’ll discuss the ideas that I will try to explain in this list. I plan to stop typing about 2:41AM tomorrow, but that’s just an estimate, and that time includes me closing the list. Therefore, I may stop typing around 2:00AM, and use some of the extra time to close the list. That’s still over 4 hours to type this list, but it may take me an hour and a half to find and prepare a music video and trailer to recommend to you. Therefore, actual typing time is like 2 and a half hours. If I choose to, I can extend that to about 3 hours. I think that’s a lot. So, if you are there after I start recommending the music video and trailer later today, I’ll see you then.

Going back to the soap and pump, I also use the job soap to wash my hands after I use the bathroom, and also use the hand pump foam soap I would bring to work. I use both. I recommend that you use both your job/school soap and the hand pump foam soap that you may choose to use.

It is now 11:13PM EST for me.

I couldn’t find a music video using the usual links, and so I thought up a performer, celebrity Harry Connick, Jr. . I went to www.youtube.com, selected publisher ‘Harry Connick, Jr.’, selected ‘Videos’, selected ‘Popular’, and then eventually selected ‘Harry Connick Jr. – (They Long to Be) Close to You (Digital Video)’. It was published 7 years ago with 3.4M views. Here’s a quote from the lyrics:

Why do stars fall down from the sky
Every time you walk by?
Just like me, they long to be
Close to you.

I wasn’t able to find a review, but if you choose to watch that music video, in my opinion, Harry Connick Jr. is singing the song, walking around, and playing the piano with an orchestra. In my opinion, it’s a relaxing song to listen to, and I highly recommend that you watch it and use it for this advice.

To watch the music video, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘harry they long to be’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered.

The movie trailer that I watched for the 1st time earlier today and recommend for this advice is called ‘Irish Wish | Official Trailer’. Here is a link from variety.com about the movie:

‘ Netflix’s description of the film reads: “When the love of her life gets engaged to her best friend, Maddie (Lohan) puts her feelings aside to be a bridesmaid at their wedding in Ireland. Days before the pair are set to marry, Maddie makes a spontaneous wish for true love, only to wake up as the bride-to-be. But as her dream gets closer to coming true, Maddie realizes that her real soulmate is someone else entirely.” ‘

I found the trailer by selecting from www.youtube.com publisher ‘ONE Media Coverage’, select ‘Playlists’, then select ‘The Best ROMANTIC Films’. ‘IRISH WISH Trailer (2024) Lindsay Lohan, Romantic Movie’ is #2 on that list. I then searched in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘irish wish lindsay lohan trailer’, and from that selection I selected ‘Irish Wish | Official Trailer | Netflix’. It was published 6 days ago by ‘Netflix’ with 690K views.

It is now 11:57PM EST for me.

I am going to explain 4 ideas today. All of the ideas are linked via the order of their creation. For example, I created ideas ‘Anticipate’, ‘Attention’, ‘Needs more’, and ‘Effort prove’ in order, within the past few weeks. Idea ‘Effort prove’ is an idea that I am currently actively using, and I will attempt to explain the impression of those ideas in this blog, for standard demographic advice to help cope with experienced instigations. Like what the end of the advice usually says, ‘For reference, allocation, and prevention when needed.’ I will begin with the 1st idea, ‘Anticipate’:

Anticipate:

Here is the definition of the word ‘anticipate’ that I am using for this blog from www.dictionary.com:

‘ to answer (a question), obey (a command), or satisfy (a request) before it is made:
He anticipated each of my orders. ‘

An instigation may improperly use his/her ability to anticipate to instigate you.

In my opinion, for the sake of positive conducive learning, teachers in school are always presenting and using a positive sense of anticipation to allow students to have a positive learning experience. The impressions of kids and non-managerial employees in general with anticipation comes from teachers from school and management from their jobs. What an instigator may choose to do is use their ability to anticipate to instigate an innocent person. For example, as you are learning at work something, an instigator who already knows what you have learned may use that associated anticipation to cause you to experience distress, to experience things your teachers and management in general would never do to you as you are obviously trying to learn something at work.

Attention:

Here’s the definition of the word ‘attention’ from www.dictionary.com:

‘ a capacity to maintain selective or sustained concentration. ‘

In my opinion, kids and non-managerial employees in general acquire their sense of attention from the attention that they would use in order to understand and learn from their teachers and many in management that they work with. Also, they acquire their sense of attention from the tv shows and movies that they would choose to watch. For example, a lot of people in my opinion like plot twists to be involved in the tv shows and movies that they would watch for the purposes of entertainment. And, of course, if they follow sports, that involves a lot of obvious attention use. I believe those are the obvious reasons why when an instigator imposes an adverse experience of attention, an innocent person would try to avoid and contemplationally dismiss such adverse attention experiences.

I believe that it can be very useful to a person to learn to be more objective with a sense of blame, both coming from others and coming from yourself. I also believe that it can be very useful to a person to learn to be more objective with a sense of attention. Blame is obvious enough as it is, to a point where people in general may try from time to time to manage better their use of blame. However, managing attention may not be so obvious. The reason why people in general may find it difficult, or may not even think of it at all, to manage more their sense of attention, is because of how they use their sense of attention to begin with. For those who experience attention in the form of instigation, the experience causes them to avoid such an adverse sense of attention, and that is what makes it more difficult to manage a sense of attention more objectively. They avoid an adverse sense of attention, an experience that also encourages them to avoid being more objective with sensing attention.

Needs more:

It is now 12:46AM EST for me.

I just took a short bathroom break and a snack break, because of the time that I am using. It’s like those marathon runners. Some people would offer them water while they are running. Obviously, they don’t have the time to use common routine to drink water, since they don’t want to stop running during a race.

I want to mention that, some time before typing in this blog, I experienced a leg cramp, my upper left leg. I took 2 Hyland’s leg cramps pills, waited for about 5 or so minutes, and the leg cramp would go away. I also used Hyland’s cream, and applied a little of it on the leg cramp area. A few hours later, I started to feel it again in a mild way. I took 1 Hyland’s leg cramps pill, and the mild leg cramp went away. If you experience leg cramps, I highly recommend that you use leg cramp medication, like ‘Hyland’s leg cramps pills’ and ‘Hyland’s lotion’. I forgot their exact names.

All right. This is the 1st story that I imagined a few weeks ago, a story that I extrapolated upon to create idea ‘Needs more’. As a result, it became a part of explanation ‘Needs more’. Here’s the story: A group of people were presenting themselves to me, and one of them, a man, has Dwarfism, like celebrity Warwick Davis.(You can look him up using wikipedia.org:) He looked more like celebrity Peter Dinklage, with the beard and moustache, but not exactly like Peter Dinklage, similar, but not exactly like him. They were doing some sort of recreational activity today, and the man who looked like Peter Dinklage asked me to criticize on their activity.

I thought about his request, and I didn’t want to discourage him and the others from continuing to do what they were doing. To give you an idea of what I was avoiding, the illustration example I will use for that story is in episode 7.20 ‘Journey’s End’ from sci-fi tv series ‘Star Trek: The Next Generation(1994)’. It’s from a conversation between Geordi La Forge(LeVar Burton) and Wesley Crusher(Wil Wheaton). In that short conversation, Geordi was eager to show something to Wesley that he invented. Wesley said something that made Geordi feel upset. Wesley’s intent was to try to help Geordi, but the results of the conversation caused Geordi to feel disappointed in Wesley. The episode is available streaming from Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, that conversation starts 8 minutes and 50 seconds into that episode. I’m just going to quote that part of the conversation where Geordi expresses an obvious disappointment to Wesley. That starts about 9 minutes and 50 seconds into the episode:

Geordi: [sighing] ‘I don’t know what’s gotten into you, Wes.’

Wesley: ‘Look, do you want my help or not?’

Geordi: ‘With this kind of an attitude absolutely not. You’re dismissed.’

In my opinion, people in general with their unique schools of thought use what’s available with different expectations. So, when you think people are using certain things, certain concepts, and you believe that you are using it better, for example, that may also involve their unique schools of thought using it in such a manner. That reminds me of situations where kids would make gifts to give to adults, and the adults would wholeheartedly accept those gifts. But such situations are established, the ‘kids giving gifts to adults’ category.

Effort expenditure:

Ideas ‘Needs more’ and ‘Effort prove’ are what I call ‘effort expenditure’ ideas. For idea ‘Needs more’, I’m going to use 2 illustration examples from sci-fi tv series ‘Earth: Final Conflict(1999+)’. Both illustrations involve a conversation between Liam Kincaid(Robert Leeshock) and Renee Palmer(Jayne Heitmeyer). The 1st illustration example is in episode 3.3 ‘Emancipation’ from sci-fi tv series ‘Earth: Final Conflict(1999)’. The episode is available streaming from Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, that scene starts 4 minutes and 51 seconds into the episode. Here is the quote:

Liam: ‘What are you getting at?’

Renee: ‘Well, you being so cozy with the Taelons and all, I thought maybe you could get your hands on one of these user-friendly Skrills.’

Liam: ‘Right now the most important thing is getting these thugs off the street.’

Liam: ‘This meeting… is a waste of my time.’

This example shows that Liam is able to differentiate somewhat what effort expenditures he should subscribe to. In my opinion, when that episode was made, Renee Palmer looks like one of the most attractive blonde women on tv, and yet Liam was still able to say quote:

Liam: ‘This meeting… is a waste of my time.’

And he was able to leave that meeting! Later, when they have been involved in a number of ‘Earth: Final Conflict’ projects together, they become friends, and you can imagine noticing that Liam is using his ‘effort expenditure’ ability in a more considerate, more learnable context, in my opinion. That is shown in the 2nd illustration, episode 5.22 ‘Final Conflict’ from sci-fi tv series ‘Earth: Final Conflict(2002)’. The scene as I remember it is no longer there, so I’ll have to improvise. The scene starts, according to Amazon Video, 5 minutes and 23 seconds into the episode. Here is the quote:

Renee: ‘With the Atavus?’

Renee: (acting a little confused, disconcerted)

Liam: ‘Just let it go, Renee.’

Renee: ‘That must be the Taelon in you talking right now.’

Since the scene I was looking for is no longer there, I’m just going to give you the original explanation that I created for that scene that is no longer available. In that explanation, I was going to say something like ‘Renee gave Liam a response that wasn’t testing him, but it was still a response that only Liam can respond to.’

If memory serves, Renee gave Liam a more obvious sense of being distraught, and Liam said something to her that represented an example of ‘effort expenditure’. Certain aspects of his use of effort expenditure were low and constant. He didn’t elevate his use of effort expenditure in the use of that response. Well, in the streaming scene available, at least Renee did act a little distraught, and Liam was trying to console her. That’s something, in my opinion.

It is now 2:00AM EST for me.

I am going to add another hour to explain this.

This is the 2nd idea for ‘Needs more’. The 1st idea is that ‘Liam story’, those 2 illustration examples from tv series ‘Earth: Final Conflict’, how Liam manages his sense of effort expenditure with Renee Palmer. The 2nd one is the ‘money in the bank’ example. I will tell it in the context of giving advice to single men. Since I am a single man, I have something to actually work with. Here’s the story: A man is talking to an attractive woman, and is trying to be in a relationship with her. The woman in the conversation eventually said to that man what needs to be improved upon in order for a relationship to occur with her. That ‘needs more’ statement she made causes the man to feel like a portion of his sense of self worth, of self esteem, is also lacking, that it’s not enough to be in a relationship with her.

When a single man is talking to an attractive woman, it is possible that a single man’s sense of self worth, of self importance, may feel lacking somewhat. No obvious conversations about relationships would have to occur to create that affect. Experience that enough times, and it can be disparaging and somewhat daunting. For example, let’s say for certain job related participations, your use of self importance and self worth should be minimal and positive, since you are working on behalf of your job, not for personal expenditure reasons. It’s your job’s resources that you represent, not your own for such projects. Therefore, you shouldn’t need so much self worth and self importance just to do your job. But because of certain disappointments associated with conversations with attractive women, they may cause single men to feel like their use of self esteem and self worth to be somewhat lacking. The purpose of this 2nd example is to give you some sort of let’s call it a mental exercise, to help you practice maintaining a sense of minimal use, positive effort expenditure while being exposed to certain scenarios with women you may want to communicate with, with women you would want to be in relationships with. Now, since I’m recommending that you use the same practice, extrapolated, with interactions with people in general(kids/teenagers/adults), obviously just conversations. For example, in the trailer for movie ‘Irish Wish(2024)’ starring Lindsay Lohan, it’s a romantic comedy. All of the actors I’m assuming are portraying characters. They are not who they are portraying, the basic formula for such movies. So, even though the single man is interacting with someone that he is imagining to be in a relationship, that is not actually happening, the relationship part. What the single man is actually doing is learning to use minimal positive effort expenditure as the woman he is imagining being in a relationship with is exposing him to mild yet acceptable to imagine forms of conversation that encourages him to ‘need more’ for certain expectations, like the trailer for movie ‘Irish Wish’. That way, you can extrapolate such experiences and use it generalistically(kids/teenagers/adults), like the trailer for movie ‘Irish Wish’. And, it doesn’t always have to be women you are in relationships with. It could be other examples of conversations with women, such as talking to women in job related settings. In relation to advice said, ‘The sky’s the limit’. Just keep in mind that the interactions should be easily extrapolated upon, in order to be used generalistically, like the trailer ‘Irish Wish’.

For this idea, I’m recommending that you imagine using the computer interface from the movie ‘Heart of Stone(2023)’ starring Matthias Schweighöfer as Jack of Hearts. He’s one of the main characters who is actually directly using ‘The Heart’. Here is a description of what ‘The Heart’ is from link heartofstone.fandom.com:

‘ The Heart is a artificial intelligence system used by The Charter. It can hack into anything, anywhere – cell phones, power grids, the banks, governments, military, health records, your secrets – it knows you better than you know yourself. With access to trillions of data points at once, its modeling is so accurate that it can predict the future. The Heart is knowledge and power. It can crash a market or drop a plane out of the sky. It can also control all nuclear weapons. ‘

‘The Heart’, when you imagine yourself to be in that room in the movie ‘Heart of Stone’, like the way ‘Jack of Hearts’ uses it, but it will present to you individually a random interactive image of a woman that you are interacting with, that will show you a ‘needs more’ interaction, the 2 I started imagining were actress celebrity Tiffani Thiessen in her 20s, and actress celebrity Gwyneth Paltrow, from her 20s up.

While you are using the idea, it will be while you are watching a ‘refurbished for advice’ music video while wearing a headset connected to your tv using the youtube tv app via some advice that allows you to watch youtube music videos via your tv set, such as an Apple TV device. So, maybe you’re lying on your bed with your head raised let’s say by a pillow allowing you to comfortably watch music video ‘Policy of Truth’ by Depeche Mode. To find that music video, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘the policy of truth depeche mode’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with 103M views. It was published 14 years ago by publisher ‘Depeche Mode’. While watching the music video, refurbish it to represent various women individually and collectively? encouraging men to ‘need more’ in order to be in relationships with them, to meet certain expectations with them, and you are trying to maintain a minimal positive effort expenditure use while this is happening. Here’s a quote from wikipedia.com about the song ‘Every Breath You Take’:

‘ When asked why he appears angry in the music video, Sting told BBC Radio 2, “I think the song is very, very sinister and ugly and people have actually misinterpreted it as being a gentle little love song, when it’s quite the opposite. ‘

My point is that people in general will use music made available publicly for their own purposes anyway, indicated by quote ‘… and people have actually misinterpreted it as being a gentle little love song… ‘

So, while you are watching the music video for idea ‘Needs more’, you are refurbishing it’s use for idea ‘Needs more’. Another recommendation, if you choose to, you can just do it a few times, and don’t do it anymore, imagine while you are using it, from outside where you live, scene from the music video ‘Policy of Truth’ as you are watching that music video, are being presented by a big screen tv, or some sort of projection. So, while you are watching a scene that you selected to be shown outside where you live, that scene is also imagined to be presented somewhere outside where you live nearby.

Since in my opinion single men in general are not professional dancers, I recommend that you do your ‘sort of’ dance, that you are ‘sort of’ dancing, while you are imagining being in that room from the movie ‘Heart of Stone’, while ‘The Heart is showing you individually certain women talking to you, trying to impose upon you certain ‘needs more’, as you are presenting and using a minimal positive effort expenditure as you are interacting with their ‘needs more’ expectations. So, you’re dancing with their conversations with you, you’re ‘sort of’ dance. As you are watching the music videos with your headphones on, you may choose to move your body, reasonable minimum effort movements.

Here is a copy of the lyrics to song ‘Policy of Truth’ by Depeche Mode, refurbished for advice, from link genius.com

[Verse 1]
You had something to hide
Should have hidden it, shouldn’t you?
Now you’re not satisfied
With what you’re being put through

[Refrain]
It’s just time to pay the price
For not listening to advice
And deciding in your youth
On the policy of truth

[Verse 2]
Things could be so different now
It used to be so civilized
You will always wonder how
It could have been if you’d only lied

[Refrain]
It’s too late to change events
It’s time to face the consequence
For delivering the proof
In the policy of truth

[Chorus]
Never again is what you swore
The time before
Never again is what you swore
The time before

[Verse 3]
Now you’re standing there tongue-tied
You’d better learn your lesson well
Hide what you have to hide
And tell what you have to tell

[Refrain]
You’ll see your problems multiplied
If you continually decide
To faithfully pursue
The policy of truth

[Chorus]
Never again is what you swore
The time before
Never again is what you swore
The time before

[Interlude]

[Chorus]
Never again is what you swore
The time before
Never again is what you swore
The time before
Never again is what you swore
The time before
Never again is what you swore
The time before
Never again is what you swore
The time before
Never again is what you swore
The time before

It is now 3:02AM EST for me.

I am going to close this list now. I will type another idea(s) again Monday night, March 4, Tuesday night, March 5, 2024 next week, unless I change my mind again. So, if you are there, and I don’t change my mind from being there, I’ll see you then.

Some viewer discretion for trailer ‘Irish Wish’. Rated TV-PG mature themes, sci-fi violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘Star Trek: The Next Generation’. Rated TV-PG mature themes, sci-fi violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘Earth: Final Conflict’. Refurbished for advice music video ‘Policy of Truth’. Rated PG-13 for sequences of violence and action, and some language, viewer discretion for movie ‘Heart of Stone'(Movie available streaming from streaming service Netflix). Use only refurbished for advice references recommended. Throw away rest of episode, series, and movie. [Use mental bookmarks ‘Anticipate’, ‘Attention’, ‘Effort expenditure’, and ‘Needs more’ for reference, allocation, and prevention when needed.