Wishlist #1450

5/27/2024

Salutations.

It is now 11:47PM EST for me.

I know that, under normal conditions, it’s late for me to start typing. However, I’m using my ‘Memorial Day’ day off, and I already did my laundry early Monday morning. Without the laundry obligation that I would normally have Tuesday morning, I now have more time to type in this blog. This is a rare situation, like February 29. I don’t expect holidays to normally exist on Mondays.

I’m going to explain 2 ‘story ideas’ for idea ‘Attention’ in this list. I should be able to finish explaining both stories, since I have a lot more time than normal. Just to approximate, with breaks of course, I can keep typing until 8:00AM Wednesday morning. That’s about 8 hours available for typing! That includes lots of breaks, to eat, to take naps, etc. I could stop for an hour and then start again, but the chosen limit is 8:00AM.

I’m going to take a short break now, just to relax on my bed. I’ll start typing again soon.

It is now 12:22AM EST for me.

I already found the music video and trailer a few hours ago.

The music video that I watched for the 1st time a few hours ago and recommend for this advice is called ‘Alice Deejay – Better Off Alone (Official Video)’. I found it using the youtube app for the Amazon Fire TV Stick 4K Max streaming device. I’m not able to find the youtube link using my laptop. I think the category was something like ‘dance and electronic’, and that category I can’t find using my laptop and the youtube link. Here is a quote from link junkee.com:

‘ Back in 2016, Meaghan Garvey wrote for MTV about Eurodance nostalgia, noting that songs like ‘Better Off Alone’ and Haddaway’s ‘What Is Love’ weren’t treated at release with the reverence they were now. She describes hearing an “undercurrent of melancholy” throughout them, describing them as “dance tracks built around unanswerable questions”. ‘

Here is a quote from the lyrics:

Do you think you’re better off alone?
Do you think you’re better off alone?
Do you think you’re better off alone?
Do you think you’re better off alone?

Talk to me
Ooh…
Talk to me
Ooh…
Talk to me

To watch the music video in www.youtube.com, search for phrase ‘alice deejay better off alone’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with 284M views! It was published 13 years ago by publisher ‘Alice Deejay’.

Here’s an interpretation of the music video that I recommend to be used for this advice. From time to time, the music video would give short moments of a man whose car broke down somewhere in the desert. Obviously, he should have stayed on the road, but instead he chose to walk on the desert. I’m using that scene as an analogy of someone doing something ‘on his own’, like this quote says:

Do you think you’re better off alone?

The singer is encouraging people who do certain things alone to talk to her, that perhaps advice from her would help. Here a quote:

Talk to me
Ooh…
Talk to me
Ooh…
Talk to me

That’s how I recommend that you interpret those scenes of the man walking in the desert.

And the music video’s view count, 284M views, may indicate to you that the music video and the song may be interesting to watch and listen to.

The movie trailer that I watched earlier today, recommended with inapproprieities removed, is called ‘Don’t Make Me Go’. Here is theselected words quote from wikipedia.org about the movie:

‘ …a single father takes his reluctant teenage daughter on a cross country road trip to find her estranged mother, as he tries to teach her everything she might need to know for the rest of her life along the way. ‘

It’s just a movie. They’re all acting. So, when you watch the trailer, just don’t use the tragic plots of the movie. In my opinion, you may find it interesting to watch a single father Max (John Cho) teach life lessons to his teenage daughter Wally (Mia Isaac) during that drive to meet her mother. I’m only recommending that you watch the trailer for this advice, but the movie, if you choose to, may also be worth watching.

Here’s a partial quote from youtube.com:

‘ …he decides to try and cram all the years of love and support he will miss with his teenage daughter Wally (Mia Isaac) into the time he has left with her. With the promise of long-awaited driving lessons, he convinces Wally to accompany him on a road trip from California to New Orleans for his 20th college reunion, where he secretly hopes to reunite her with her mother who left them long ago. A wholly original, emotional and surprising journey, Don’t Make Me Go explores the unbreakable, eternal bond between a father and daughter from both sides of the generational divide with heart and humor along for the ride. ‘

I found it by selecting in www.youtube.com publisher ‘Prime Video’, select ‘Videos’, then select ‘Popular’. I believe the ‘Popular’ selection showed the video clips that have a high view count. I just kept scrolling down and down until I found that trailer. It’s format was interesting enough to keep me looking.

To watch trailer ‘Don’t Make Me Go’, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘don’t make me go’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with 2.1M views. It was published 1 year ago by publisher ‘Prime Video’.

Attention:

It is now 1:34AM EST for me.

I believe I said this in a recent, previous list. The reason I am explaining idea ‘Attention’ is because one of the strategy ideas will denounce/identify how an instigation may use a sense of attention in their instigations. In the next list, I plan to explain, in order, ideas ‘Guilty reply’, ‘Attention involve’, and then ‘Involve reply’ and ‘Recover reply’.(It will make more sense when/if I explain it this coming Monday.) So, ‘Attention involve’ has idea ‘Attention’ in it. I want to offer you some sort of attention idea before I explain idea ‘Attention involve’.

This 1st ‘Attention’ idea is in the form of advice, and it builds up to become an ‘attention’ idea. I guess I’m using this definition for the word ‘attention’ from www.dictionary.com:

‘a capacity to maintain selective or sustained concentration.’

All right. Let’s start with a supposition that you may actually use: Suppose that, for a young person, let’s say a high school teenager, finally decided what type of career he/she will pursue. That person, while interacting with his/her career, will maintain certain expectations, and not deviate from such expectations. That person has already considered the possibility that his/her future boss may have done some things that are unacceptable, but he/she has changed accordingly. As long as he/she maintains his/her expectations, he/she can continue to work for such a boss.

Even if you get such a job, and you plan to maintain your sense of job related expectations, there is still a situation that I describe with a quote from the movie ‘Yes Man(2008)’ starring Jim Carrey as Carl, and Terence Stamp as Terrence. There are mature themes in this movie, so just use the quote and it’s general area that describes it. Don’t use the rest of the movie. The movie is available streaming from Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, that scene starts about 16 minutes and 45 seconds into the movie:

Terrence: ‘If the molehill won’t come to Terrence, Terrence will come to the molehill.’

Since you’re still a teenager(the example), it’s possible that you’ll have a job that will give you convenient interaction for the situations in your chosen project participations. In other words, ‘Terrence will come to you.’ And that may take a while to get used to, so that you will continue to honor your personal agreement to yourself. And even then, you may make some compromises along the way, compromises that will be acceptable for you to do, since you will have more to work with, more concepts to use, more resources at your disposal, things that as a teenager may not be available to you in order for that teenager to take them into consideration.(I like that scene in the movie where Terrence is actually running to Carl after saying those words.)

It is now 2:21AM EST for me.

Here is one example of what I’m talking about. It is in episode 1.2 ‘Part Two: Toil and Trouble’ from sci-fi tv series ‘Ahsoka(2023)’. The episode is available from streaming service ‘Disney+’, and it starts about 18 minutes and 39 seconds into the episode:

Ahsoka Tano(Rosario Dawson): ‘Do the facilities still employ any of her former staff?’

Myn Weaver(Peter Jacobson): ‘Of course, there was no other way to remain operational. An Empire doesn’t become a Republic overnight. You will still find ex-Imperials at every level of the New Republic government.’

Hera Syndulla(Mary Elizabeth Winstead): ‘Don’t you worry about their loyalty?’

Myn Weaver: ‘Not at all. The average worker doesn’t care about the nuances of galactic politics. They have loyalty so long as they are paid.’

Here’s a positive example to that ‘in other words’ formula:

‘If the molehill won’t come to Terrence, Terrence will come to the molehill.’

Here’s the exercise set-up that I created for this 1st story for idea ‘Attention’. I’ll set it up 1st, and then I’ll give it a story for you to use it. As usual, these ideas only exist in my mind, and this is the 1st time that I’m explaining them. I’m not typing such ideas anywhere else but here.

The set-up involves listening to the song ‘Magic’ by ‘The Cars’ while inclined on your bed listening to that song using your tv app wearing headphones connected to your tv. The youtube.com link that you’ll be using is found by searching in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘magic 2016’. The youtube link is called ‘Magic (2016 Remaster)’, it has 740K views and was published 8 years ago by publisher ‘TheCarsOfficial’. It’s just the song, not the music video. If you agree to do it, you will be watching it’s logo from your tv while inclined on your bed or chair/sofa and listening to the song ‘Magic’.

Here’s a quote from wikipedia.org about the song:

‘ “Magic” is a song by American rock band The Cars from their fifth studio album, Heartbeat City (1984). It was released on May 7, 1984, as the album’s second single, reaching number 12 on the US Billboard Hot 100 and number one on the Billboard Top Tracks chart. ‘

And here is the lyrics to the song ‘Magic’ by ‘The Cars’:

Summer, it turns me upside down
Summer, summer, summer
It’s like a merry-go-round

I see you under the midnight
All shackles and bows
The high shoes
With the cleats a-clicking
A temperamental glow

How could you let me go

Oh, I got a hold on you
Got a hold on you
I’ve got a hold on you tonight

Oh, I got a hold on you
I got a hold on you
(Got a hold on you)
That’s right

(Uh oh, it’s magic)
When I’m with you
(Uh oh, it’s magic)
Just a little magic
You know it’s true
I got a hold on you

Oh, twisted
Under, sideways, down
I know you’re getting twisted
And you can’t calm down
I see you under the midnight
Love darts in your eyes
How far can you take it
‘Til you realize
There’s magic in your eyes

I got a hold on you
Got a hold on you
Got a hold on you tonight

I got a hold on you
Got a hold on you
(Got a hold on you)
Yeah, oh, yeah, oh

(Uh oh, it’s magic)
Uh oh, when I’m with you
(Uh oh, it’s magic)
Uh oh, it’s magic

Just a little bit of
Magic pulls me through
I got a hold on you

I’ve got a hold on you
I got a hold on you
(I got a hold on you)
That’s right, it’s magic

(Uh oh, it’s magic)
Uh oh, it’s magic
When I’m with you

(Uh oh, it’s magic)
Just a little magic
Inside of you

(Uh oh, it’s magic)
Takes a little bit of magic
That’s true
When I’m with you

(Uh oh, it’s magic)
Gotta be magic
Your magic pulls me through

Using phrase ‘summer 2024 official date’ on google.com:

‘ Summer begins with the solstice on Thursday, June 20, 2024, marking the astronomical first day of summer in the Northern Hemisphere. ‘

If you choose to use this finished idea listening to the song ‘Magic’ while inclined on your bed or chair/couch, it should be even more convenient, since ‘summer’ officially is only a few weeks away. Like a quote from the lyrics say:

Summer, it turns me upside down
Summer, summer, summer
It’s like a merry-go-round

It is now 3:10AM EST for me.

Here’s the story that goes with that ‘Magic’ by ‘The Cars’ set up: I just imagined this, of course: For a number of thousands of years, there is this organization that has existed on Earth that I just for explanation sake ‘The Organization’. For a long time, it was known to be the biggest Organization on Earth. Even now, many of it’s members are also Americans. If you are an active member of The Organization, your resource knowhow will be more vast than the general public’s knowhow, even for those in the general public who do things professionally. General public Americans compliment Americans from The Organization. They keep things going, like the movie ‘The Adjustment Bureau(2011)’, except with more variety and without the paranoia ‘The Adjustment Bureau’ movie shows.

One normal American company encouraged their employees to participate in a ‘lip-synching’ competition using the song ‘Magic’ by ‘The Cars’. The company agreed to use the program created and fortified by ‘The Organization’ for this lip synching competition. You don’t have to participate with the requirement of it being a competition, but it will still be judged as if it was in a competition. If you choose to participate, the music ‘Magic’ by ‘The Cars’ will be played, and all of the performers, all of the people involved with the competition will be members of ‘The Organization’. They will be using some of their unique resources to create that competition. Their dancers will respond to your singing and body movements. It should be a unique experience for you.

To help you imagine the experience, I recommend that you watch selected scenes from episode 5.10 ‘Bloody Celestial Karaoke Jam’ from fantasy tv series ‘Lucifer(2021)’. I’m using some of it’s show context. The episode is available streaming from Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, the 1st selected scene starts 8 minutes and 20 seconds into the episode:

Lucifer Morningstar(Tom Ellis): ‘Wha… what just happened?’

8 minutes and 51 seconds into the episode:

Lucifer: ‘Well, the singing and the dancing was a bit of a giveaway.’

So, according to that episode’s rules, only certain people will remember the ‘singing and the dancing’.

To help you imagine singing to the song ‘Magic’ by ‘The Cars’, I recommend watching the scene when an edited version of the song ‘Just the Two of Us (Grover Washington Jr. song)’ is being sung and danced to by those in the vicinity. That scene starts about 44 minutes and 9 seconds into the episode. Like in that scene earlier quoted, only a certain ‘those’ will remember the singing and the dancing. Not everyone who did all of that singing and dancing will remember that they did it.

If you choose to use the set-up, when you begin, just to start, you don’t have to keep thinking about it, I recommend you use character Cordelia Chase(Charisma Carpenter) from tv series ‘Angel(2001)’, the way she looked in 2001, to give you a quick orientation just before you begin singing the song ‘Magic’ with ‘The Organization’ dancers. As a reference, since I only purchased a few episodes from Amazon.com, I recommend that you purchase/rent streaming episode 2.7 ‘Disharmony’ from tv series ‘Angel(2001)’ so that you can watch it’s music intro. That begins about 1 minute and 22 seconds into the episode. That music intro contains scenes of character Cordelia Chase, portrayed by actress Charisma Carpenter, so that you know what she looks like. In one scene during that music intro, she is holding a paper that has the words ‘INVOICE’ printed on it. And, of course, don’t use the inappropriate scenes in that music intro for this advice. You’ll probably see it, just don’t use it.

For example, you’re walking to that place, let’s say it’s an obvious stage, inside or outside, you can imagine either/or/both, where the singing and dancing will take place. As you are walking towards it and you are just about to sing that song ‘Magic’ by ‘The Cars’, Cordelia Chase from the year 2001(not time travel, you’re imagining that character, how she looked then.) is giving you a quick verbal orientation just before you begin singing and moving with The Organization dancers. You don’t have to specifically hear what she’s saying, just imagine an intentionally ambiguous verbal orientation from her. You can add specific words to what she is saying to you, and you can always change those words when you imagine it again.

OK, a little ‘after the fact’. After the employees that have chosen to dance and sing to it have done so, let’s choose 3 of them: These are the top 3 that have been chosen based on popularity based on their views. I don’t know exactly how the view score is determined. 2 of the 3 people who have the highest view scores are 2 men from management. If you imagine using that company’s intranet, and an illustration on one screen is provided, 2 of those men from management are presented with their own small windows, just to identify that they are the 2 highest that work for the company.

I forgot to mention that the company hired a ‘ringer’ to participate, a professional singer and dancer, to participate. I imagined this person to be Camila Cabello. Here is a quote from wikipedia.org about her:

‘ Karla Camila Cabello Estrabao (/kəˈmiːlə kəˈbeɪoʊ/;[1] Latin American Spanish: [ˈkaɾla kaˈmila kaˈβeʝo esˈtɾabao]; born March 3, 1997)[2] is an American singer and songwriter.[3] She rose to prominence as a member of the pop girl group Fifth Harmony, which became one of the best-selling girl groups of all time. While in the group, Cabello began to establish herself as a solo artist with the release of her collaborative singles “I Know What You Did Last Summer” (with Shawn Mendes) and “Bad Things” (with Machine Gun Kelly)—the latter peaked at number four on the US Billboard Hot 100. She left Fifth Harmony in late 2016. ‘

Years ago, I saw her in an MTV episode of TRL. I couldn’t find it in youtube.com. Some sort of test was shown, a person on screen performing some sort of basic dance maneuver, and when Camila Cabello performed that dance maneuver, she passed with flying colors. So, based on that performance, I chose her to be in this imagined idea.

When Camila Cabello performed ‘Magic’ by ‘The Cars’ with The Organization dancers, it was like she was on that ‘Secret Wars’ planet, based on Marvel comics. That’s the one when The Beyonder gathered a bunch of superheroes, Galactus, etc. to be on this planet that he created, and everyone involved were able to use their powers in a sort of newly experienced ideal level. Thor, for example, really enjoyed using his powers while he was on that planet. Imagined, it felt like Camila Cabello was performing on that planet. She was really showing off her singing and dancing as it is presented with The Organization dancers. She received the highest view count presented from that company intranet. It made sense that most of the employees watched her perform ‘Magic’ by ‘The Cars’ with ‘The Organization dancers’.

So, when using the ‘set up’, for example, you’re on your bed, there’s a pillow that allows your head to be in an upright position, to allow yourself to see that ‘Magic’ logo as you are listening to the song ‘Magic’ by ‘The Cars’. You are on that stage, or that pre-prepared place. Even though the original song is playing, you simply also use your own voice to go with the original singer’s voice. You can move your body reasonably somewhat as you are imagining doing that song and dance. You can also imagine, in short moments, ‘The Organization dancers’ dancing alongside you, like that 5.10 ‘Bloody Celestial Karaoke Jam’ episode illustrates. Just imagine dancing/benefitting your own way. You don’t have to compete with the others.

It is now 4:25AM EST for me.

I am going to close this list now. I’m choosing to not add the 2nd ‘Attention’ idea in this list. This coming Monday, I will start explaining the ‘Strategy ideas’, unless I change my mind. So, if you are there this coming Monday, I’ll see you then.

Rated PG-13 mature themes, language and brief nudity, viewer discretion for movie ‘Yes Man’. Rated TV-14 sci-fi violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘Ahsoka’. Rated PG-13 mature themes, brief strong language, violence, viewer discretion for movie ‘The Adjustment Bureau’. Rated TV-14 mature themes, sci-fi violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘Lucifer’ and tv series ‘Angel’. Use refurbished for advice references recommended. Throw away/do not use rest of episode, series, and movie. [Use mental bookmark ‘Attention’ for reference, allocation, and prevention when needed.

Wishlist #1449

5/26/2024

Salutations.

It is now 10:41PM EST for me.

This is very late for me to type in an idea, but I’m doing so because I chose to not work Memorial Day. This is my plan, what I will type in: I will explain an idea that I have been using for a while, but I did not give it a name, not until a few hours ago for this advice. I call it ‘Representation’. Some time tomorrow, since it’s part of my chosen day off, I plan to explain idea ‘Attention’, the idea that I tried to explain in the last list, Wishlist #1448, but I didn’t have enough time to do it. It will consist of 2 story ideas that will involve obvious attention. And then next Monday, 6/3/2024, I plan to explain strategy idea ‘Recover reply’. It starts with idea ‘Guilty reply’, leads to idea ‘Attention involve’, and then the 3rd part will be ‘Recover reply’ and ‘Involve reply’. It may not look like much now, since all I typed in was it’s bookmark name, but in my opinion, for many expectations, it’s the best strategy idea I have ever invented. It can also be used as a contemplation ‘eraser’, the best ‘eraser’ idea for many expectations that I have ever invented. To improve it’s chances of being useful to you, I will explain ideas ‘Representation’ and ‘Attention’ to you, starting today and tomorrow. It feels like if I don’t explain both ‘Representation’ and ‘Attention’ today and tomorrow, I’ll probably think of another idea to type in, which will delay the explanation of ideas ‘Recover reply’ and ‘Involve reply’. If all goes well, if I am able to explain idea ‘Representation’ today/tomorrow, and ‘Attention tomorrow, then I will be more able to explain ideas ‘Recover reply’ and ‘Involve reply’.

I visited the laundromat that I would normally go to earlier today, and I was told that they should be open tomorrow morning, even if it’s a holiday. Therefore, I’m going to prepare my clothes for going to the laundromat tomorrow morning, even if it’s Memorial Day tomorrow. That means that I’m giving myself up to 3:00AM tomorrow to finish explaining idea ‘Representation’. I’ve already factored in the fact that I’m starting late, which is why I am only obligating myself to explain idea ‘Representation’.

I looked at my Amazon.com purchases, and I didn’t find anything else to recommend to you that you may find useful.

I’ve owned this laptop for a while, and it’s falling apart on me. I was going to buy another laptop from the same person I bought this one, but I’m assuming that his store is closed on Memorial Day. Some time next month I’ll go to him and purchase another laptop. I don’t want this one fixed, since in my opinion it’s kind of old, even though it’s the fastest laptop I’ve ever owned. I want a new laptop, basically. I’ll probably purchase the new laptop sometime next Month, maybe by next week I’ll go to him. I’m also going to donate all of my older laptops to him, since I don’t need them. Also, he said that he knows how to recycle other electronics stuff that I have that I can’t just throw away. I plan to do all of that next week.(How do you dispose of batteries?)

It is now 11:05PM EST for me.

I am going to take a short break, for example, one of the things that I will do is eat some cake. Another is just relax for a few minutes on my bed. After that, I will start looking for a music video and trailer to recommend for you to watch. As always, you are not obligated to watch them. I, however, will watch and prepare them for recommendation for this advice. To watch and prepare them, that should take about an hour and a half. So, I’ll start typing again in about 2 hours from now. And that leaves about 2 hours to actually type in the idea. So, if you are there in about 2 hours from now, I’ll see you then.

It is now 12:19AM EST for me.

I just made a new idea after I watched the music video, which was less than a minute ago. A few lists ago, I made an idea that involved a refurbished use of celebrity Brad Pitt, when the single women in the company he is working for are having difficulty finding a relationship from the company, since practically all of the men are already in relationships, except Brad Pitt, because he chooses to remain single. I did not mention that one of the reasons, and I just imagined this, I don’t know if it’s actually true, that one of the reasons those single women would prefer to be in a relationship with a man from the company is because they would be able to ‘reset’ situations, since they both work in the same company. That meaning reminds me when the original Dream King from the ‘Sandman’ comic books was being attacked, but he said to one of the characters in his realm that, as long as he does not leave his realm, he can replace/bring back anything and anyone that has been lost/damaged because of the attack. Even though I don’t have an exact meaning of ‘reset’ that I could explain, the meaning is sort of explained with what the Dream King meant, that he can replace/bring back as long as he stays in his realm. In other words, if those single women are able to be in relationships with single men from the same company, then things can be ‘reset’ by them by their choosing. It could be for any reason, it doesn’t have to be an urgent reason. I don’t actually know what that specifically means.

And here is the story: A man brings to a social function the woman he is currently in a relationship with. When the woman is there, I imagine her conceptually gathering up food. She is replenishing herself. She meets a woman at the social function, and here is their conversation:

After an obvious greeting:

Woman she knows: (saying this crying) ‘Sister,(not actually sister, but friends), what has he done to you?)

For simplicity, the woman conceptually? sees her wearing ragged/worn clothes.

Woman in relationship: ‘He does not know.’

I gave this idea a bookmark name also recently. I call it ‘The crazy lives of women in relationships with men, and the women are not working in the same company as those men.’ It illustrates the possible resource availability for relationships where one person is not working in the same company as the other. Therefore, there may be an obvious resource difference when one compares actual relationship availablility when the couple is in a relationship, and how that relationship looks when resource availability from the company is added to the relationship, in a reasonable, acceptable level, of course. In that story, the man in the relationship doesn’t know the she depends upon certain company resources. Since there are many companies/jobs out there in America, it’s not something that requires more mandatory participation. However, even when that resource is somewhat available, she still needs a more active involvement with that company in order to access more some of those allowable resources. For example, she accesses more when her boyfriend takes her to one of those company social events. It’s not something that many people should notice, that she’s ‘collecting herself’ while she is there. However, her friend notices that she is recharging/collecting herself, causing her friend to cry when seeing her that way in the company social event.

Of course, I just imagined that story.

It is now 1:30AM EST for me.

The music video that I watched for the 1st time earlier today and recommend for this advice is called ‘Space in My Heart’ by Enrique Iglesias, Miranda Lambert. Here is a quote from link countrylowdown.com about the music video:

‘ ‘Space in My Heart’ is a track that puts two prospective lovers together. They both have feelings for each other, and in the song they are expressing how they feel. The opening verse sees Enrique open up with his smooth Latin vocals, firstly asking, ‘Hey, tell me what I gotta say’. Miranda’s made-for-country voice then replies ‘You know, I won’t say too much too soon, Cause that’s not what you’re supposed to do’. Both a little unsure as to how the conversation in the song will go. However, it’s not long before their true feelings come out.

Enrique Iglesias and Miranda Lambert both have an incredible ability in expressing emotions in their vocals and this is a prime example. On listening you can really hear the yearning for the other, never more so than when they sing the final line of the chorus to end the song. ‘

And here is a quote from the lyrics:

You don’t love me yet, but I know you will
If you only felt half of what I feel
If you ever go, I will never change
There’s a space in my heart, and it’s just your shape

I found it by selecting in www.youtube.com publisher ‘Hot Music Charts’, select ‘Top Songs of the Week | May 24, 2024’, published 3 days ago. A video clip of ‘Space in My Heart’ starts about 9 minutes and 12 seconds, and is #10 out of 100.

I chose it because of the novelty of watching Enrique Iglesias, a Spanish singer, singing with Miranda Lambert, a country singer. Of course, the lyrics and music video, in my opinion, are appropriate for the intent of this advice use.(no bad language, nothing lewd in the music video, etc.)

To watch the music video, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘space in my heart enrique’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with 1.5M views! It was published 2 months ago by publisher Enrique Iglesias.

It is now 2:07AM EST for me.

Here’s what I’m going to do: Since it’s my Memorial Day day off, I have more time to do this. I don’t want to rush getting my laundry ready today, so what I’ll do is continue this blog after I come back from doing my laundry. So, after I prepare my clothes from the laundromat, some time after that, I’ll finish idea ‘Representation’. Delaying going to the laundromat for even just an hour is not an option that I’m choosing to use. Instead, I’ll just start typing some time after I come back from the laundromat. I’ll still give you the trailer.

I can try to explain idea ‘Representation’ before I prepare my laundry, but, in my opinion, it would feel like I’m turning straw into gold very quickly with what I am typing in. I want to have a normal amount of time available to explain ‘Representation’, and I think I can do that later today this morning, maybe around 9:00AM later today. It’s my holiday ‘day off’ time.

The movie trailer that I watched for the 1st time earlier/an hour or so ago is called ‘Earwig and the Witch’. I couldn’t find one from the usual references/publishers, not directly. From publisher ‘Rotten Tomatoes TV’, select ‘Videos’, I just looked at the face of ‘My Oni Girl Trailer #1(2024)’. I didn’t watch it, but I thought of instead to check ‘Studio Ghibli’. When I selected publisher ‘Rotten Tomatoes TV’, I already checked other publishers, and I couldn’t find one. This was like my ‘2nd selection attempt’. I searched for phrase ‘studio ghibli’ from wikipedia.org, scrolled down, and for category ‘Feature films’, I eventually selected ‘Earwig and the Witch’. Here is a quote from wikipedia.org about it:

‘ One day, a strange couple, Bella Yaga and Mandrake, adopt Earwig against her wishes. When they get home, Bella Yaga tells Earwig that she is a witch, and that she only adopted Earwig for “an extra pair of hands” to help around the house. Earwig agrees to help, only if Bella Yaga teaches her magic in return. ‘

To watch the trailer, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘earwig and the witch’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with 588K views. It was published 3 years ago by publisher ‘Max’.

It is now 2:24AM EST for me.

I now have more time to prepare my laundry for later in the morning today. No rush. Like I said earlier, after I come back from the laundromat, I will explain idea ‘Representation’, maybe around 9:00AM EST later today. So, if you are there, I’ll see you then.

It is now 10:03AM EST for me.

Representation:

The original illustration reference for ‘representation’ I made from a ‘Batman/Superman’ digital comic book that I read. Earlier, I looked for it, but I couldn’t find it from Kindle. Before, I used I think it was called Comixology. I was purchasing comics from them, and they had a place for my digital comics. But then they stopped that, and I had to use Kindle. I guess I lost certain comics in the shuffle from Comixology to Kindle. I’m going to explain that reference, but I want you to have an obvious illustration reference as well. I’m going to use an episode of ‘Stargate: SG1’, but I’ll have to find it. I’ll be back in a few minutes.

It is now 10:52AM EST for me.

The episode is 5.5 ‘Red Sky’ by Stargate SG-1(2001)’. The episode is supposed to be available streaming, but I’m getting some sort of error message from them, so I purchased the episode from www.youtube.com.

It is now 11:45AM EST for me.

Sorry for the delay. I ordered UberEats food from a place that indicated that the food would be here within a relatively short time, and it was right. I ordered food recently because it’s possible that the restaurant/food place may not deliver during a certain time, even though they’re still open for a few hours more. I placed the food in plastic bags that are made to put food in, not in the fridge. I’m going to eat the food later tonight anyway. I placed the desserts though in the fridge and freezer.

All right. All ready to finish idea ‘Representation’. Like I said earlier, The episode is 5.5 ‘Red Sky’ by Stargate SG-1(2001)’. The episode is supposed to be available streaming, but I’m getting some sort of error message from them, so I purchased the episode from www.youtube.com. I used phrase in www.youtube.com ‘stargate sg1 red sky’, and it showed me this illustration at the right side of my screen. Just a few clicks, and I bought the episode. Here is a description from stargate.fandom.com about the scene:

‘ SG-1 contact Freyr, but apparently he cannot help because the planet is protected by a treaty which protects many planets from Goa’uld invasion, including Earth. Also, the decision isn’t entirely Freyr’s, so he suggests O’Neill step onto the hologram platform to face the Asgard High Council. The meeting does not go well: interfering with the sun would be interfering with the natural development of the planet, and be a violation of subsection 42 of the Protected Planets Treaty. ‘

If you bought the streaming episode from youtube.com, that scene starts about 16 minutes and 34 seconds into the episode.

Here is a quote about K’tau from stargate.fandom.com:

‘ K’tau was a planet in the Milky Way, and under the protection of the Asgard as a part of the Protected Planets Treaty. ‘

So, the Asgard are representing the inhabitants of K’tau.

All right. This is how I invented ‘Representation’ from the ‘Batman/Superman’ digital comic book that I read: In this storyline, Superman and his family were in trouble. Batman somehow was picked up by Lex Luthor’s daughter or granddaughter who is also a time traveler with a few others. She said to Batman that he is the smartest man that he knows, and he showed him a room filled with technology that he may use to save Superman and his family. Batman chose to use Lex Luthor’s exoskeleton suit, one of the items that was in that room. Soon after I looked at Lex Luthor’s suit, I imagined what Batman was thinking, how he was thinking of various ways of things. There was a moment where he was thinking of something that looks like the Council from the people in episode 5.5 ‘Red Sky’ by Stargate SG-1(2001)’ They also looked like a Council from the Amish community. Now, they don’t have obvious representation for many things, so Batman simply? gave them interpreted representation. Let’s call them the Amish community. So, even though the Amish community does not have obvious representation, Batman still interpreted many of their actions as if they did have such representation.

The purpose for idea ‘Representation’ is to allow you to be more able to remove false impressions of representation from certain experienced instigations that were adversely encouraging you to commit to such forms of representation.

I’m going to recruit actor Adewale Akinnuoye-Agbaje(Ogunwe) from tv series ‘His Dark Materials(2022)’. One of his episodes is in episode 3.1 ‘The Enchanted Sleeper’. In this story, he has several superheroes working for him, and he wants one of them, a woman, to have co-ventures with Batman. The reason is because it is known that Batman is always open to talk about giving business representation to superheroes. So, if you are a superhero working on a project with Batman, you can ask him all sorts of questions regarding business representation with superheroes. Batman is very eager to give such advice. That is one of the most popular reasons why superheroes work with Batman, so that they can get business representation regarding superhero participations. It’s not exactly public information, and Batman is the man to go to for such information.

Here is another illustration reference from episode 1.2 ‘Superfriends’ from tv series ‘Fantasy Island(1998)’. Here’s the description from the scene:

‘ A busy father is turned into his lonely son’s favorite video game superhero ‘

If you search in www.google.com for phrase ‘fantasy island superfriends streaming’, there’s a tubitv.com link that allows you to watch that episode for free. It’s also available streaming from www.youtube.com. Here’s a quote from link tubitv.com. It starts about 20 minutes and 54 seconds into the episode:

Louis(James McDaniel): ‘So, did you get the pager?’

Ariel(Mädchen Amick): ‘As you requested. The LCD display allows us to send you specific instructions straight from headquarters.’

Louis: ‘So where are we at with the satellite link up to Interpol and the DOD?’

Ariel: ‘Standing by… ‘

The illustration example’s intent is to show that, as Louis is given the perspective of being a superhero, he’s using his business knowhow to give business representation to his superhero job, another reference where representation is given to superhero participations.

It is now 12:41PM EST for me.

I am going to close this list now. Later tonight, I will explain idea ‘Attention’, and then next Monday, I will explain the ‘Strategy ideas’, such as ‘Recover reply’ and ‘Involve reply’, unless I change my mind again.

Rated PG for some scary images and rude material, viewer discretion for animated movie ‘Earwig and the Witch’. Rated TV-14 mature themes, sci-fi violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘Stargate SG-1’ and ‘Fantasy Island(1998-1999)’. Rated TV-14 sci-fi violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘His Dark Materials’. Use only refurbished for advice references recommended. Throw away rest of episode, series, and movie. [Use mental bookmark ‘Representation’ for reference, allocation, and prevention when needed.

Wishlist #1448

5/20/2024

Salutations.

It is now 8:23PM EST for me.

I ordered food from UberEats less than an hour ago, and I think that I will order food this soon from now on. At the time that I ordered the food a day earlier, that made sense to me. However, I am acclimating to ordering food an hour or so earlier before I start typing in this blog, or even while I am typing in this blog. I ate some of the food that I ordered, and I have the rest in a container, not in the fridge, available for me to eat later.

I have decided to type in a ‘strategy idea’, but the idea includes a bookmark called ‘Attention’, which addresses how certain instigations may adversely affect your us of attention, as it relates to the experienced instigation. I believe that it’s better for me to type in ideas that involve attention before explaining that strategy idea. So, this is the list that I’ll offer you an idea that involves attention, and then that’s it. The next scheduled list, next Monday, 5/27/2024, I’ll offer you that ‘strategy idea’ that contains bookmark ‘Attention’.

But before typing in that idea that involves attention, I want to offer you an idea that, by design/intent, is meant to prepare you more for the upcoming ‘strategy idea’. That idea was created soon after I watched a scene from the crime comedy series ‘Elsbeth(2024)’. It involves an acting portrayal from actor Danny Mastrogiorgio(Detective Bobby Smullen), and the idea is called ‘Unrequited aspiring’. That’s the main reference I used to create the idea for myself. However, to explain it in a way that you can use it more, I will also all 2 illustration references from the movie ‘Chief of Station(2024)’ starring Aaron Eckhart as Benjamin Malloy. Because I started late again, I will very likely finish the ‘Unrequited aspiring’ idea, but I may have to be very sloppy when explaining the idea that has attention in it. Of course, if available time permits, I’ll type more. I am ready for that. It is always available time that shortens what I am able to explain in this blog.

As to recommendations from Amazon.com, it’s just candy. At the last minute, so to speak, yesterday, I ordered more Jolly Ranchers candy, 16 oz of cherry instead of 8 oz of watermelon, and I placed half? of that candy in the 8 oz container, since the 16 oz came in a pouch instead of a container. Here is the product description from Amazon.com:

Jolly Rancher Cherry Hard Candy, Individually Wrapped, Bulk Candy Bag – 1 Pound (16 oz)

Even though it would have been delivered by today, I wanted it delivered in the morning, so I chose the extra option for that, which adds a few dollars more to the order. Right now, I have one of those cherry Jolly Ranchers in my mouth. I’m causing the hard candy to dissolve in my mouth. One of the perks to eating hard candy is that you dissolve it in your mouth. Most candies I think you chew it. Hard candy may take several minutes before it is dissolved completely, and that’s fine by me.

I don’t have a lot of Jolly Ranchers hard candy, because I plan to just try new candies first. I ordered it again because I was in a rush to eat something before I started typing in this blog, and even though I already tried ‘Jolly Ranchers’, I wasn’t prepared, since I just tried to order more candy yesterday. I ordered a few more candies, but they just arrived earlier today, and I haven’t tried them yet. Next time, hopefully, I will be more prepared. I can’t think of anything else from Amazon.com, just the candy.

I want to repeat myself for something that I said several times before, ‘Standard demographic is not standard’, meaning that, even though I call these ideas ‘standard demorgraphic’ ideas, they are not ‘standard’ ideas. Think of it this way: since kids could be reading this, when you get jobs as adults, and you work for a company that integrates company internet with their work, and you choose to use it’s ‘blog’, so to speak, to introduce and develop some sort of topic, you may be developing that topic for years. In this situation, it is my intent to give you advice for mild to moderate forms of exposed instigation, so that you may manage such experiences better. If a person makes such a blog, it’s very likely, in my opinion, that that person will continue making ideas for it. The ‘standard’ is that, for most situations, you shouldn’t even be experiencing such instigations. But if you have problems with experienced instigation, and you read someone’s blog that’s trying to help with that, they will probably continue to make ideas for years, if they choose to, but it’s also important to remember that, for the most part, you shouldn’t even be experiencing instigation.

It is now 9:03PM EST for me.

I am going to look for a music video and trailer to recommend to you. It should take, based on past performance, about an hour and a half for me to select and prepare them for recommendation. I’ll see you then.

It is now 10:25PM EST for me.

I took a short break after finding and preparing the music video and trailer. I probably finished finding and preparing them in about an hour.

The music video that I watched for the 1st time earlier today and recommend for this advice is called ‘we can’t be friends’ by Ariana Grande. Here is a review from link ca.style.yahoo.com that explains the music video and song:

‘ Directed by Christian Breslaur, who also helmed “Yes, And?”, the video shows Grande erasing the memories of an ex, played by Evan Peters. The video ultimately ends with her completing the procedure…and him doing the same. They pass each other with different partners, unaware they had ever known each other.

As for the song itself, the lyrics reflect on the end of a relationship and the reality that she and her former partner cannot be friends or stay together because she cannot be her full self around him. (“I didn’t think you’d understand me / How could you ever even try? / I don’t wanna tiptoe, but I don’t wanna hide.”) ‘

And here is a quote from the lyrics:

We can’t be friends
But I’d like to just pre-etend
You cling to your papers and pens
Wait until you like me again
Wait for your love
My love, I’ll wait for your love
I’ll wait for your love
My love, I’ll wait for your love

I found it in www.youtube.com by selecting publisher ‘Hot Music Charts’, select ‘Videos’, then select ‘Top Songs of the Week | May 17, 2024’, published 4 days ago. A video clip from the song starts about 8 minutes and 13 seconds into the video clip collection, and is #20 out of 100.

To watch the music video, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘we can’t be friends’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with over 93M views! It was published 2 months ago by publisher Ariana Grande.

I recommend that you start watching the music video about 53 seconds into it, a few seconds before the words of the song start. Just like the review said, at the end of the video, ‘…They pass each other with different partners, unaware they had ever known each other. ‘ I like the way the music video illustrated several moments of her previous relationship with the man she ended the relationship with.

The tv series trailer that I watched for the 1st time earlier today and recommend for this advice is called ‘The Lord of The Rings: The Rings of Power – Official Teaser Trailer’. I found it by selecting in www.youtube.com publisher ‘ONE Media Coverage’, select ‘Videos’, then I looked at just the face of ‘ONE Media Coverage’s version of it. I didn’t watch it. Instead, I searched in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘the rings of power season 2 trailer’, and selected ‘The Lord of The Rings: The Rings of Power – Official Teaser Trailer | Prime Video’ from publisher ‘Prime Video’, which has almost 13M views, and was published May 14, 2024. According to www.google.com:

‘ How many seasons will Rings of Power have?
The Rings of Power season 2 won’t be the series’ final installment. Payne and McKay have planned for five seasons, which is already mapped out. Based on reports on February, The Rings of Power season 3 is already in development, too. ‘

Here is a quote from www.google.com about season 2:

‘ Darkness will bind them. The Rings Of Power returns August 29 on Prime Video.

About The Rings of Power Season 2: Sauron has returned. Cast out by Galadriel, without army or ally, the rising Dark Lord must now rely on his own cunning to rebuild his strength and oversee the creation of the Rings of Power, which will allow him to bind all the peoples of Middle-earth to his sinister will. Building on Season 1’s epic scope and ambition, Season 2 of Amazon’s The Lord of the Rings: The Rings of Power plunges even its most beloved and vulnerable characters into a rising tide of darkness, challenging each to find their place in a world that is increasingly on the brink of calamity. Elves and dwarves, orcs and men, wizards and Harfoots… as friendships are strained and kingdoms begin to fracture, the forces of good will struggle ever more valiantly to hold on to what matters to them most of all… each other. ‘

If you watched Season 1, then you’ll probably would want to watch Season 2.

It is now 10:57PM EST for me.

I’m going to take a short nap, and then start typing again to explain idea ‘Unrequited aspiring(revisited)’. I’ll see you then.

It is now 11:39PM EST for me.

I am now eating a mini Heath.(I think it’s peanut brittle inside covered with chocolate.) I bought a pack of it from the supermarket I would normally shop in.

Unrequited aspiring:

Here’s a quote from episode 1.5 ‘Ball Girl’ from crime tv series ‘Elsbeth(2024)’. I’ll use the streaming service from Paramount+, but it’s also available streaming from Amazon.com. The quote starts about 32 minutes and 18 seconds into the episode:

Detective Bobby Smullen(Danny Mastrogiorgio): ‘I mean, you may think that you’re Danny Ocean, but you’re not as good at this crime stuff as you think you are.’

Ashlee(Aubrey Matalon): ‘Danny who?’

Detective Bobby Smullen: ‘From the movie.’

Ashlee: ‘Da… ‘(shakes her head.)

Detective Bobby Smullen: ‘Never mind.’

When I watched it for the 1st time, Detective Bobby Smullen looked disappointed when he wasn’t able to relate to Ashlee. After Ashlee shook her head, not understanding what Smullen said to her, he expressed disappointment. I think they? changed that scene. Soon after thinking about how Smullen reacted, and according to www.imdb.com, the episode aired Apr 18, 2024, so that gives you an approximate time when I invented this idea, I imagined him thinking about an opportunity, but as soon as he thought of it’s associated unrequited aspiring, he looked disappointed to himself, and discarded the use of that opportunity.

Soon after that, I imagined Detective Smullen making a business arrangement with a young woman. All he has to do is accompany her throughout an entire day, and when she initiates an unrequited aspiring, he is supposed to react disappointed, not as if he’s acting, but in a sincere manner. When Detective Smullen was with her throughout most of that day, she was very cordial and respectful to her. He didn’t have to react in a disappointed manner, and he was very surprised about that. It was when he was attending a social event with that young woman that she expressed a very obvious form of unrequited aspiring to him, and that is when Detective Smullen did his best to look sincerely disappointed with that experience. The young woman then proceeded to talk to the other guests, still complaining about what Detective Smullen did.

The young woman wanted to make sure that the guests responded to what she was about to do, so she also hired celebrity David Spade to witness and circulate the unrequited aspiring that took place in that moment. I didn’t watch it, but I remember the name ‘David Spade: Take the Hit’. According to www.imdb.com, it’s a tv special that David Spade was starring in. David Spade was in the party, walked towards Detective Smullen, and said ‘Ouch!’ to him. Detective Smullen then said to David Spade quote: ‘I just did what I was supposed to do.'(He said something else originally, but I only casually imagined that event, and I don’t remember exactly what he initially said to David Spade. And, of course, I only imagined it.)

Here’s what I recommend: Just imagine what Detective Smullen imagined, imagine conceptually an opportunity considered, and then an associated unrequited aspiring for that opportunity, and then the opportunity is no longer considered. To start you off, imagine it as colored aluminum foil. You can search for phrase ‘colored aluminum foil’ in www.google.com, click ‘images’, to see what that looks like. For example, 2 pieces of colored aluminum foil, the bigger, rectangular piece is the opportunity, but the smaller rectangular piece is the unrequited disappointment, and they’re stuck together, and it looks like a strip of colored aluminum foil with 2 colors. That way, you can imagine and conceptualize what it is as you are holding it.

It’s original causality is to be an opportunity that is considered, and shortly after the consideration process, an unrequited aspiring is thought of, and that unrequited aspiring causes many people in America to discard/not use that opportunity. That is it’s original, 1st form.

For idea ‘Unrequited aspiring’, I recommend that you manage that piece of unrequited aspiring better. I’m not saying that many Americans are wrong thinking that way. I’m saying that, if you choose to, you can create another sense of preparing, another perspective, and manage that use of unrequited aspiring better that just using it’s standard, very common form of considering a certain opportunity, and then discarding/not using it. If you choose to use idea ‘Unrequited aspiring’, here are 2 quotes from the movie ‘Chief of Station(2024)’ starring Aaron Eckhart as Benjamin Malloy, Jonathan Ajayi as Desmond Jackson, and Olga Kurylenko as Krystyna Kowerski. The movie is available streaming on Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, the 1st scene starts about 18 minutes and 33 seconds into the movie:

Benjamin Malloy: ‘Hey, you don’t need to hold my hand. I can do this.’

18 minutes and 51 seconds:

Benjamin Malloy: ‘I need you to hold my hand.’

1 hour, 3 minutes, and 52 seconds:

Benjamin Malloy: You’ve been following me since I arrived, haven’t you? You were on the motorcycle. How do I know I can trust you?’

Krystyna Kowerski: (edited) (scoffs) ‘I saved your life back there. Choose your next accusation carefully.’

Benjamin Malloy: ‘Thank you.’

Really quickly, since I am a single man, I meet who I think is a single, attractive woman, and I want to be in a relationship with her. So, in a situation that I can use these words, let’s say I say something, then she scoffs and says something like ‘Choose your next accusation carefully.’, or maybe she doesn’t have to say anything like that. The circumstance is already there. And then I quickly say to her:

Me: ‘Thank you.’

Hopefully, that may lead into me being in a relationship with her, and we can skip all of that other dating formality.

The point of those 2 illustration references, not the one that I added(I’m just not commenting on that one.), but the references from the movie ‘Chief of Station’, is that Benjamin Malloy changed his mind very quickly. Oh, also just use those 2 references. Throw away the rest of the movie. There’s too much violence in it. There’s even a scene when Benjamin Malloy was tortured. If you want to watch more of that movie, then at least remove all of the inapproprieities from it. Don’t use them, including any scenes of turture, or you can just use the 2 references I recommended, and just throw away the rest of the movie, for simplicity.

So, the 1st example I am offering you for idea ‘Unrequited aspiring’ is the possibility that you may change your mind later. In the movie ‘Chief of Station’, just using those 2 illustration references I typed in, Benjamin Malloy changed his mind twice, and he did so very quickly. He didn’t need ‘more time’ to think it through. He already had it ready, and he used it.

I just thought of this recently, during the time I’m using this blog right now. If it’s possible to ‘change your mind’ about using certain opportunities discarded/not used because of unrequited aspiring, then maybe it’s possible that many students are more objectively talking about certain opportunities, of course reasonable opportunities, that have the identity of having certain unrequited aspirings that would cause them to be discarded, but they are talking about them as if their use is still yet to be determined! In other words, it looks like a ‘no’ but is discussed as a possible ‘yes’. In the 2 illustration examples that I provided, Benjamin Malloy already turned 2 ‘no’s into 2 ‘yes’s very quickly.

So, when imagining that 2 colored aluminum foil, I recommend that you imagine that reasonable ‘no’ could also be construed as a possible ‘yes’, even though it looks like a reasonable ‘no’.

One more example. I’m using a scene, refurbished with inapproprieties removed of course, from movie ‘Mission: Impossible – Ghost Protocol(2011)’ starring Tom Cruise as Ethan Hunt, Simon Pegg as Benji, and Jeremy Renner as Brandt. The movie is available streaming from Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, that scene starts 54 minutes and 58 seconds into the movie:

Ethan Hunt: ‘Vent ducts.’

Benji: ‘Pressure sensitive.’

Brandt: ‘Not enough time.’

Ethan Hunt: ‘Elevator shaft.’

Benji: ‘Infared sensors.’

Brandt: ‘Not enough time.’

Ethan Hunt: ‘How am I supposed to do this?’

Benji: (throws gloves at window.)

Ethan Hunt was treating an option as an unrequited aspiring/discarded/not to be used, but Benji and Brandt presented the option that the only option available was the option that he is treating as not available. And, of course, just use it’s logic, and throw away everything else that’s reckless and dangerous from the movie. What Ethan Hunt did afterwards was obviously very dangerous to do, and is part of the action movie, not to be emulated/done by anyone.

Here’s another example: Just treat those reasonable opportunities that look like they have been discarded by unrequited aspirings, imagine a playing card as one of those discarded opportunities, imagine presenting many such cards as separate discarded opportunities by unrequited aspirings, and then consider those many discarded opportunities as possible ‘yes’s given the right circumstances, or if circumstances change.

You don’t have to imagine that. It’s just an idea.

You can imagine just holding an entire deck of cards, and that all of those cards are discarded opportunities that could be changed into actively used opportunities, if circumstances change.

It is now 1:28AM EST for me.

I am going to close this list now. This coming Monday/next Tuesday, I will finally explain a ‘strategy idea’, unless I change my mind again. So, if you are there, I’ll see you then.

Rated TV-14 mature themes, fantasy violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘The Lord of the Rings: The Rings of Power’. Rated TV-14 violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘Elsbeth’. Mature themes, violence, viewer discretion for movie ‘Chief of Station’. Rated PG-13 for sequences of intense action and violence, mature themes, viewer discretion for movie ‘Mission: Impossible – Ghost Protocol’. Use only refurbished for advice references recommended. Throw away rest of episode, series, and movie. (I explained another idea called ‘Unrequited aspiring’ in a previous list.)’ [Use mental bookmark ‘Unrequited aspiring’ for reference, allocation, and prevention when needed.

Wishlist #1447

5/13/2024

Salutations.

It is now 7:58PM EST for me.

Earlier today, I invented a ‘strategy idea’ that I contemplationally call ‘Reply encounter’, and in my opinion, for many expectations, it’s the best ‘strategy idea’ that I have ever invented. So, to improve your chances of finding it useful, I will try to explain a few ideas today with the intent to prepare you to use it when I explain it, and I will explain it in the next list, which is scheduled to be next Monday night, 5/20/2024. I’ll probably invent another ‘strategy idea’ by the time next Monday shows up, and I may explain that idea instead, or I may change my mind again. We’ll see what happens. As of now, I will at least explain the new strategy idea called ‘Reply encounter’ by next Monday.

I looked at my Amazon.com purchases, and recently I’ve been looking for candy to eat while typing in this blog. I’m still looking, but so far, I chose this, and it’s available to me now to eat:

Jolly Rancher World’s Best Flavored Fruit Hard Candy Bulk Candies in Jar Tasty Yummy Perfectly Delicious Time (Watermelon, 8oz)

I purchased that type because it comes in a container that I would choose to use. I only purchased 8 oz of it, and from Amazon.com, it’s about $10 with Prime shipping available. I like the flavor of watermelon, and because it’s a hard candy, it takes a few minutes to dissolve when I eat it. I’m still looking for different types of candies to eat while typing in this blog.

I purchased food from UberEats earlier today instead of purchasing it the day before, but because it’s morning for me when I do it, I have to choose restaurants/food establishments that serve food in the morning. I think that I will do that from now on.

I’m going to look for that music video and trailer to recommend to you. That may take up to an hour and a half for me to find and prepare them. So, if you are there, I’ll see you then.

It is now 10:01PM EST for me.

I took a break soon after I found and prepared the music video and trailer.

The music video that I watched for the 1st time and recommend for this advice is called ‘Legs (Keep Dancing)’ by Vanessa Williams. Here is a short quote from wikipedia.org about her:

‘ Vanessa Lynn Williams (born March 18, 1963) is an American singer, actress, model, producer, and dancer. She gained recognition as the first African-American woman to receive the Miss America title when she was crowned Miss America 1984… ‘

‘ …Thirty-two years later, Williams was offered a public apology during the Miss America 2016 pageant… ‘

And here is a comment from link www.digitaljournal.com about the song:

‘ This marks her first single and music video from her first pop album in 15 years.

The song is mid-tempo, upbeat, liberating, and a great deal of fun. Williams allows her sultry, crystalline vocals shine on this tune; moreover, it is an anthem of female empowerment.

It has a retro ’80s disco vibe to it, which adds to its overall appeal. The contemporary radio airwaves ought to add it on their heavy rotation. ‘

And here is a quote from the lyrics:

So I made up my mind
When the world is unkind
I don’t think about it
I just don’t think about it
So here’s what I do
I step in these shoes
And then I use these legs of mine

I found the music video by selecting in www.youtube.com publisher ‘Hot Music Charts’, select ‘Videos’, then select ‘Top Songs of the Week | May 10, 2024’. A video clip from the music video ‘Legs’ starts about 6 minutes and 38 seconds into that video collection. It is #36 out of 100. It was published 4 days ago.

If you choose to watch the music video, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘legs keep dancing’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with 732K views. It was published 2 weeks ago by publisher ‘Vanessa Williams’.

In my opinion, in the music video, Vanessa Williams looks great for a 61 year old woman. I recommend that you start watching it about 8 seconds into the music video, just before the lyrics start.

The movie trailer that I watched for the 1st time and recommend for this advice is called ‘MAN AND WITCH’. Here is a quote from wikipedia.org:

‘ Man and Witch: The Dance of a Thousand Steps (formerly titled Man & Witch)[2][3] is an upcoming British fantasy adventure comedy film written by Greg Steinbruner, directed by Michael Hines and starring Tami Stronach, Greg Steinbruner, Sean Astin, Bill Bailey, Eddie Izzard, Jennifer Saunders, Michael Emerson, Shohreh Aghdashloo and Christopher Lloyd. ‘

And here is a quote from link letterboxd.com about the synopsis of the movie:

‘ Three Mysterious Curses, two lost souls… and one incredibly difficult dance. A lowly goatherd seeks out a reclusive witch to break the evil enchantment that has long kept him from taking a wife. When he completes the three impossible trials the witch prescribes, the man earns the hand of the legendary Princess, only heir of the Old King of the Cursed Kingdom. But when he arrives at the altar with a perfect fairytale ending hanging in the balance, both the goatherd and mysterious witch who helped transform him into the perfect eligible bachelor find that there is one enchantment they can’t figure out how to break… true love. ‘

I found the trailer by searching from my youtube.com homepage using the default ‘All’ selected. I kept scrolling down until I found it.

To watch the trailer, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘man and witch’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with 1.5M views. It was published 3 weeks ago by publisher ‘Man and Witch Film’.

Just to clarify, in my opinion, towards the end of the trailer, one of the animals said ‘We’re all going to die.’ They’re talking about whether or not ‘they’ will win. Just giving it reasonable context.

In my opinion, what I find entertaining about the trailer is that the witch seems to be giving the man tasks that he can actually accomplish, the 1st 2 tasks so far, even though when she talks about it, she thought those tasks would be impossible for that man to accomplish.

It is now 10:41PM EST for me.

I’m going to take a short nap, maybe eat something again, before I start typing.

Standards:(name created 1:47AM EST.)

It is now 12:21AM EST for me.

I took a nap, which lasted longer than I thought it would, and I ate some food again.

I’m not able to get the Ethernet back online(do I need it?), so I’m just using wifi to finish this idea. I think that I can finish explaining one idea, and then I’ll close this list. In case you want to know, I’m going to do my laundry as usual later today. Soon after I close this list, I will start preparing my laundry to go to the laundromat.

I will start with a quote from episode 5.3 ‘Jinaal’ from sci-fi tv series ‘Star Trek: Discovery(2024)’. I’m getting the quote from streaming service paramountplus.com. That scene starts about 5 minutes and 46 seconds into the episode:

Michael Burnham(Sonequa Martin-Green): ‘We’re about to jump to Trill, and while I’m on the surface, I’ll ask for you to do one-on-ones with the crew.’

Rayner(Callum Keith Rennie): ‘No need. I’ve read their files.’

Michael Burnham: ‘I’d like you to connect with them in person.’

I’ll start with a scenario that may appeal to you, something that may allow the rest of this idea to be useful to you. Let’s say, based on your expertise, since kids may be reading this, let’s just imagine that you have a skill that allows you to create an answer that is both brief and concise for many situations that such a skill can be applied to. However, when you try to use those short solutions of yours to other situations, the people participating in those other situations want the solution to be used their way. That is why I offered you that 5.3 ‘Jinaal’ episode. Rayner, refurbished, represents a person that has short, concise solutions, but the people that he has chosen to work with want such solutions to be used their way. Michael Burnham is ordering Rayner to interact with other crewmembers, so that such solutions can be more conducive for them to use.

Another illustration example, refurbished with inapproprieities removed, is in episode 1.8 ‘The Missing Piece’ from sci-fi tv series ‘Foundation(2021)’. Brother Day(Lee Pace) according to when the quote was made, is about to embark on a journey with the hope that he will be more accepted. The episode is available streaming from Apple TV+. The explanation from Demerzel(Laura Birn) given to Brother Day starts about 10 minutes and 48 seconds into the episode:

Demerzel: ‘The Spiral is designed to push the body to the limits of it’s endurance… ‘

Brother Day was able to make the journey unharmed. If you choose to with inapproprieities removed, you may watch the rest of that journey.

Here’s how I created this idea: While I was using the streaming service Netflix, I have a movie on my Netflix list called ‘A Nice Girl Like You’ starring Lucy Hale as Lucy. I didn’t watch it yet, but while I was browsing Netflix, it showed me a scene from that movie, which allowed me to make this idea. I also purchased the streaming version of that movie from Amazon.com. I’ll use that to quote that scene. That scene starts 42 minutes and 14 seconds into that movie:

Jeff Thayer(Stephen Friedrich): ‘Did you meet someone?’

Lucy: ‘What? No. I was just wondering— ‘

Jeff Thayer: ‘You did. You’re seeing someone.’

Lucy: ‘Yeah, I am. I’m sorry. It’s very new- ‘

Anyway, with the mature themes removed, you may use the rest of that conversation in that Cafe.

All right. When I watched that scene, the preview showed by Netflix, I imagined Lucy also using certain concise, brief answers as if they were standards. I’m not saying that there’s anything wrong with what Lucy is doing with those standards, but here is how I made it into an idea: Soon after or while I was watching that scene, I imagined that Lucy and I were in a relationship. I thought of a recent idea that I typed in, when I was being taught by Marius the vampire, and Liam from ‘Earth: Final Conflict’ created his own standards/expectations of competition that he was always going to lose in. If you are always going to lose in certain competitions, one may create other standards to help make the experience more useful and more tolerant, like ‘personal best’ standards. With Lucy, the standards that she was using from her concise, brief answers, pretty much no one is able to qualify with those standards except herself. Later, within the past 12 hours or so, I upgraded the idea when I was talking to Lucy, and we are still in a relationship. It is now 1:29AM EST for me. I just upgraded the idea again. While in that Cafe, I asked Lucy if I could be allowed to participate with certain standards that she is using, even though I do not meet up to those standards. I asked her if I can illustrate to her how I, within reason, at least try to interact with her standards. When she agreed to see the illustration, I placed some salt from the salt shaker on the table, removed the top, poured some of that salt on one hand, and then slowly poured the salt from one hand to my other hand. The salt going from one hand to the other represent certain standards that she subscribes to that I already chose to participate with, even though I do not meet up with the expectations of those standards. I watched her watch the salt go from one of my hands to the other hand.

After I showed her that, I asked if she can allow me to participate with certain standards/answers that she subscribes to, even though I do not meet up to the expectations of those standards/answers. I pointed out that, since we are in a relationship, our relationship can be used as an excuse to do such a thing. Of course, she can incrementally do that, and with only selected standards, if she chooses to do that with me. She doesn’t have to do it at all. It’s something that she may choose to do. And, of course, I am already doing it from my perspective.

I believe that many American single women are using concise, brief solutions that pretty much only they qualify for as standards to interact with others. It is my belief that, if you allow others to interact/participate with those standards, even though they do not meet up to the expectations of such standards, then that can improve your ability to communicate with other people. In an imagined business context, don’t businesses and business employees always do something like that? Don’t they all have brief, concise solutions that they try to use in the way that their clients and other businesspeople prefer? Why is Rayner encouraged to have one-on-ones with the crew, and why is Brother Day, refurbished for advice, participating in The Spiral?

Of course, if you choose to use this idea, if you choose to take it and make it yours, in relation to advice said, you can change it all you want. It doesn’t have to be salt used as an illustration, for example. Instead of being in a relationship, it could be changed to involve just 2 co-workers talking. So to speak, ‘the sky’s the limit’.

For elaboration, I am already interacting and participating with many of Lucy’s standards, even though I already don’t meet up with the expectations of many of those standards. It is my belief in that story that, if she allows herself to do something similar, it can benefit her ability to communicate better with other people.

It is now 1:47AM EST for me.

As of now, I’m calling this idea ‘Standards’.

It is now 1:51AM EST for me.

I am going to close this list now. This coming Monday/next Tuesday, I will explain a strategy idea called ‘Reply encounter’, unless I change my mind again. So, if you are there, I’ll see you then.

To be clear, when I typed in that I believe that businesspeople ‘do that all of the time’, that they try to use their short, concise answers ‘their way’, even though I believe that to be true, I only imagined it. It’s just given as advice in the context that I imagined it. I’m not presenting that as a definitive fact. I imagined it.

Rated TV-14 mature themes, sci-fi violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘Star Trek: Discovery’ and ‘Foundation’. Rated R mature themes, language, viewer discretion for movie ‘A Nice Girl Like You’. Use only refurbished for advice references recommended. Throw away rest of episode, series, and movie. [Use mental bookmark ‘Standards’ for reference, allocation, and prevention when needed.

Wishlist #1446

5/6/2024

Salutations.

It is now 8:41PM EST for me.

To be blunt, just recently, I was looking for that reference where I typed in the word ‘coffeemaker’, and I could not find it. I used the ‘Search’ option on the homepage, but I still couldn’t find it. Since I don’t want to waste any more time, I’m going to leave Wishlist #1445 there for now. That’s why it’s there, to help compensate for mentioning my imagined ‘coffeemaker’ deduction. Since it’s a public blog and kids could be reading it(I’m not sure if they are), I recommend to the kids to use it as a learning experience.

In case you want to know, I didn’t watch that ‘Roast of Tom Brady’ yet. When I recommended it, I thought that the recommendation itself was useful, and I planned to watch it, but I haven’t yet. Maybe I never will, but I sincerely was going to watch it.

In order for the ordered food to be ready for me to eat while I am typing in this blog, I ordered it a day before. Instead of ordering the food today, I ordered it yesterday, this past Sunday. If you are in a situation where you don’t have the time to order food the day you are performing a certain task, then I recommend that you order that food a day before. From experience, based on your preference for food, there are certain foods that won’t taste as good if you keep it in your refrigerator a day before you eat it. Therefore, order foods that ‘keep’ longer, that should last at least a day in the refrigerator before you eat it. And there are certain foods that won’t taste as good if you keep it in the refrigerator. For example, for me, that food is takeout rice. If I put cooked rice in the refrigerator, after just 1 day, it would be hard, as if it lacks the moisture it once had when you purchased it. If it’s just one day, the solution I created for that is to place the ordered rice in a plastic bag and leave it on the kitchen table. If you have a bug problem, the plastic bag protects it from those bugs. Based on my experience, the rice tastes pretty much the same as when you purchased it, assuming that you eat it only 1 day afterwards. It should still be edible after 2 days in that plastic bag. If not a plastic bag, then something that you can put it in to protect it from the bugs, and of course to keep it’s moisture, don’t put it in the refrigerator.

According to www.google.com, season 14 of Doctor Who premieres on May 11 of this month. Since the attention span of kids, in my opinion, will be used more when watching it, for the kids who choose to watch it, I’m going to try to explain my recent strategy idea, the one that I am currently actively using. I invented it this past week, and in my opinion, for many expectations, it’s the best strategy idea that I have invented for experienced instigation. At least as usual, I’ll try to give you the best reasonable impression of explanation for that idea. I have until 3:00AM EST tomorrow. That’s about 6 hours made available, but I’ll also use that time to eat and take a break from time to time. I don’t think I’ll need to take a nap, thanks to my food ordering trick. That’s why I ordered the food a day early, so that I won’t feel very tired while I’m typing in the blog.

In case I didn’t say this before, and to inform you, I am typing this blog of my own volition(the act of willing, choosing, or resolving; exercise of willing: She left of her own volition.). I am not affiliated with any group or organization. It’s just me typing it in. Of course, I still don’t want to type in anything that would get me fired from my job, or get into trouble from the law, the basic stuff.

It is now 9:13PM EST for me.

I am going to look for that music video and trailer now to recommend to you. That should take me about an hour and a half to prepare them. So, if you are there an hour and a half from now, I’ll see you then.(So literal.)

It is now 10:35PM EST for me.

I didn’t realize until recently that my laptop is a touchscreen laptop. I’m saying this because I cleaned it a little because there was some dirt on it. After I started typing again, I noticed that the ‘-‘, that middle dash that I use to separate paragraphs, was changed to another function. I ended up also deleting most of my windows. I restarted the computer, and it’s back to normal again. I recommend that if you have a laptop with a touchscreen, that you minimize/get your windows out of the way if you choose to clean it. Otherwise, something similar might happen to you because of all of that ‘touchscreen’ you’ll be exposing your laptop screen to as you clean it.

I’m going to have to make those screens again. This will take a few minutes.

It is now 10:48PM EST for me.

I used the ‘History’ option to restore the windows. You can find that by clicking the ‘…’ 3 horizontal dots at the upper right side of your window screen if you are using a Microsoft Edge browser. That’s the browser I am using. The music video that I watched for the 1st time earlier today and recommend for this advice is called ‘Belong Together’ by Mark Ambor. Here is a quote from wikipedia.org:

‘ “Belong Together” is a song by American singer Mark Ambor. It was released on February 16, 2024, through Hundred Days Records. The song went viral on TikTok before its release and become his first charting single, peaking in the top 10 in Austria, Germany, Ireland and Switzerland, as well as the top 40 in Australia, the Netherlands, Norway and the United Kingdom. ‘

It’s the 1st time that I listened to the song, and watched it’s music video.

Here’s a review quote from link melomaniacsmag.com:

‘ In an Instagram post, Ambor beautifully captures the essence of the song, emphasising how the presence of loved ones can turn even the toughest days into something special. ‘Belong Together’ isn’t about basking in the summer sun; it’s about finding joy in the company of those who matter most, even when the sky is overcast and the day feels gloomy.

While the chorus sings of the inseparable bond between two people, the verses delve deeper into the essence of human connection. Throughout the track, Ambor’s vocals soar with emotion, delivering lyrics that speak to the heart. Lines like “Where we lay out late underneath the pines, And we still have fun when the sun won’t shine” paint a vivid picture of finding happiness in the simple moments shared with loved ones, regardless of the weather or time of the day. ‘

And here is a quote from one of the comments from publisher ‘Mark Ambor’ in www.youtube.com:

‘ If you’re ever having a bad day, just listen to this song. Never fails to put a smile on my face and a brightness on my soul! ‘

As always, it’s just a recommendation. You don’t have to watch the music video for the advice.

I found it by selecting publisher ‘MUSIC CHARTS’ from www.youtube.com, select ‘Videos’, then select ‘Top 40 Songs Of The Week – May 11th, 2024 (UK Singles Chart)’, published 2 days ago. A video clip from music video ‘Belong Together’ starts 3 minutes and 5 seconds into that video clip collection, and is #11.

Here is a quote from the lyrics:

You and me belong together
Like cold iced tea and warmer weather
Where we lay out late underneath the pines
And we still have fun when the sun won’t shine
You and me belong together

To watch the music video, go to www.youtube.com and search for phrase ‘belong together mark ambor’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with 6.2M views. It was published 2 months ago by publisher Mark Ambor.

When watching the music video, I recommend starting to watch it about 19 seconds into that music video. So to speak, I didn’t start to ‘warm up’ to it, not until about the middle of the music video.(I think I had a more accurate time when I started to like it, but because of cleaning my laptop screen, I deleted that placement.) I imagined a few other men being in that music video instead of Mark Ambor to help me like the music video. The switch was very quick, and not specific. I just wanted the variety to be there to help me like watching it.

The tv series trailer that I watched for the 1st time earlier today and recommend, refurbished with inapproprieities removed, for this advice, is called ‘The Acolyte’. Here is a quote from wikipedia:

‘ The Acolyte, also known as Star Wars: The Acolyte, is an upcoming American science fiction television series created by Leslye Headland for the streaming service Disney+. It is part of the Star Wars franchise, set at the end of the High Republic era before the events of the main Star Wars films, and follows a Jedi investigation into a series of crimes.

The Acolyte is scheduled to premiere on Disney+ on June 4, 2024, with its first two episodes. The other six episodes will be released weekly. ‘

I found it by selecting publisher ‘IGN Movie Trailers’ from www.youtube.com, select ‘Videos’, scroll down, and that’s when I noticed it. I then searched in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘the acolyte’, and I then selected ‘The Acolyte | Official Trailer | Disney+’, and that has over 5.5M views and was published 2 days ago by publisher ‘Star Wars’.

If you watched tv series ‘Obi-Wan Kenobi’, then you may like watching ‘The Acolyte’. They’re both ‘Star Wars’.

It is now 11:20PM EST for me.

I’m going to eat some of that food now. I’ll start typing again maybe10-15 minutes from now, after I have eaten.

It is now 12:23AM EST for me.

I finished eating, and I still have some leftovers for later. Recently, I was looking for a snack, something to eat while typing in this blog. I didn’t have much of a selection. I have some Hershey’s Miniatures, but I get a sugar rush when I eat too much chocolate. I want to eat candy that doesn’t have any adverse side effects, like a sugar rush. The only thing I found was a bag of Snyder’s Snaps Pretzels. I’m eating that right now. Soon after typing in this blog, maybe later, I’m going to buy some sort of candy that I can eat while typing in this blog. I’ll keep you informed about that.

Address:

I’ve been upgrading the idea that I contemplationally call ‘Address’ for some time now. I mentioned it in the recent lists. It goes something like ‘Feel it, but don’t address, discuss, resolve, or use it.’ That is mostly used for a sense of addressing that you did not subscribe to. The idea is that certain experienced instigations may cause you to experience a contemplation of addressing certain things, but if you did not agree to talk about such things, for example, you did not agree to get involved with an imposing of certain issues, you can use the ‘Address’ idea to allow yourself to feel/sense something about the experience, but ‘not address’ it. I’m going to walk you through idea address with several illustration example, as much as I reasonably can within 2 hours, to improve your chances of finding the idea useful to you.

For my 1st example, with the intent to add legitimacy to idea ‘Address’, I’m going to quote the ‘Sticks and Stones’ rhyme, found in wikipedia.org:

Sticks and stones may break my bones
But words shall never hurt me.

‘ “Sticks and Stones” is an English-language children’s rhyme. The rhyme is used as a defense against name-calling and verbal bullying, intended to increase resiliency, avoid physical retaliation, and/or to remain calm and indifferent. ‘

If you choose to, you may read in relation to advice the entire ‘Sticks and Stones’ article from wikipedia.org.

[5/7/2024: It is now 10:34PM EST for me.

I’m about to recommend refurbishing the movie ‘Madame Web(2024)’, one of the obvious changes is changing the character Ezekiel Sims(Tahar Rahim) that is the main villain, into a temporary guardian of the 3 teenagers his original character, Ezekiel Sims, was threatening. Some? of you may find imagining that troublesome. So, if you choose to, I have 2 illustration references to offer you to lessen the troublesome effects.

The 1st illustration reference is in episode 25.21 ‘Pay Pal’ from animated tv series ‘The Simpsons(2014)’. Here is a description quote from wikipedia.org about the refurbished scene being used here:

‘ At the new neighbor’s home, Marge and Homer mingle with the guests. The game begins with role play based on Clue… ‘

And here is a quote from the episode. The episode is available streaming on Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, that scene starts 7 minutes and 54 seconds into the episode:

Booth Wilkes John: ‘Wallis and I have found this game to provide a full evening of divertissement, building in suspense to a masterful climax. We’ve rented costumes you’ll find accurate to period and conducive to character. We will serve food and wine appropriate to period and palette. We’ve programmed music to cover every dramatic event…. ‘

Based on my understanding of the entertainment, everyone gets a card for identity, one of them get the ‘guilty’ identity, and everyone else tries to figure out who the guilty person is. According to wikipedia.org, it’s like the game ‘Clue/Cluedo, and everyone in the party would probably be having fun trying to discover who the villain is. This is an example of a situation where it’s actually entertaining to discover who the villain/guilty person is.

If you choose to imagine the villain changing his character to be the ‘good’ guardian in the story I imagined, then here’s another one to help with the transition. It is in the movie ‘Aliens(1986)’ starring Sigourney Weaver as Ripley. I just rented the streaming version from Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, that scene starts about 22 minutes and 22 seconds into the movie. Here is the quote:

Ripley: ‘You never said anything about an android being on board. Why not?’

22 minutes and 21 seconds:

Bishop(Lance Henriksen): ‘Is there a problem?’

About 22 minutes and 40 seconds:

Bishop: ‘Well, that explains it then. The A2s always were a bit twitchy. That could never happen now with our behavioral inhibitors.’

I hope that helps you decide whether or not to use that story, to imagine Ezekiel Sims, the villain, the obvious bad man in the movie, as another character, as a ‘good’ temporary guardian to the portrayed 3 teenagers. If you choose to, you can watch more of that cafeteria scene from the movie ‘Aliens’ with inapproprieities removed in relation to advice. Of course, you don’t have to use the idea. It’s just an idea, a recommendation. 5/7/2024]

For my 1st illustration example, I’m going to refurbish the imagined interaction with 3 main characters from the movie ‘Madame Web(2024)’, with the understanding that the actresses that portray these 3 characters are adults, even though they are portraying teenagers. I’m not certain, but if you look at high school student portrayed comedy parody movies, I believe that all of those actors and actresses that portray high school teenagers are not teenagers. The actors and actresses are adults, at least almost all of them, in my opinion. If you want to check, you may choose to look at wikipedia.org to verify their ages at the time the movie was made.

The 3 characters/actresses are Julia Cornwall(Sydney Sweeney), Anya Corazón(Isabela Merced), and Mattie Franklin(Celeste O’Connor). Here is the age verification from wikipedia.org:

Sydney Bernice Sweeney
September 12, 1997 (age 26)

Isabela Yolanda Moner
July 10, 2001 (age 22)

Celeste O’Connor
December 2, 1998 (age 25)

We’re also going to change the role of actor Tahar Rahim(Ezekiel Sims). Instead of the villain in the movie, Ezekiel Sims is their temporary guardian. The villain in the refurbished movie can instead be another person, a man or a woman. Earlier, before being their temporary guardian, Ezekiel talked to one of their parents, the mother of one of those teenagers, and she wanted to make sure that Ezekiel was ready to be her daughter’s temporary guardian. She gave him a test: Have a certain conversation with her, one that a certain mean has to be explained within a short period of time, and it has to be explained in that conversation, because you won’t have time to explain it later to her daughter. The mother explained to Ezekiel what that topic was, and he is to explain it to her as if she was her daughter. Soon after explaining that topic, the mother presented notions that were mildly inappropriate for him to bring up/address to her daughter. She brought up such notions several times while he was trying to explain the topic. He failed the test twice because he responded to those topics, and as a result didn’t have enough time to finish explaining the topic presented. He was able to finish explaining the given topic during the 3rd test by making sure his explanation did not involve any explanations of those mildly inappropriate notions the mother was also presenting to him while he was explaining the agreed upon topic within the time frame.

In the original movie, those 3 teenagers made mistakes to Cassandra Webb(Dakota Johnson), illustrating to you that they are capable of making mistakes to Ezekiel Sims. So, when those 3 teenagers would talk to Ezekiel Sims, not all of the time, but from time to time, they would say something somewhat inappropriate for him to talk about, and, with what he learned from one of their mothers, Ezekiel Sims told them that such notions, according to their parents(he was given generalistic discretion from all of their parents), should not be addressed by him when interacting with them. You may imagine a 10×10 grid with red Xs representing notions that you should not address to a person or person’s you are thinking of. You don’t have to imagine/conceptualize all of those red Xs, just a few of them should suffice.

All right. If you use that ‘3 teenage girls’ story, you now have an illustration example of using idea ‘Address’.

Let’s explore some more the ‘Sticks and Stones’ rhyme:

Sticks and stones may break my bones
But words shall never hurt me.

Here’s an active practice example: If you experience an insult, let’s say from another co-worker, and you did not agree to have such a conversation with that person. The person, for example, just walked by and insulted you, you may choose to use the ‘Address’ idea. You can sense/feel something about the experience, but you did not agree to address, discuss, resolve, use it.

It is now 1:35AM EST for me.

React:

Idea ‘React’ is a variation for idea ‘Address’. Here’s the definition that I found from www.google.com searching for phrase ‘react definition’ from the question ‘What is the simple definition of react?’:

to act or behave in response (as to stimulation or an influence

In my opinion, the 1st obvious example is when an instigator causes you to react in a context that causes you to contemplationally explain the experience in an attempt to resolve and/or have a better understanding for the experience. So, for 1 example, not the only example, if someone causes you to react that causes you to explain the experience to yourself, instead of doing that, you may choose to use the ‘Address’ idea, and instead allow yourself to feel/sense it somewhat, but you’re choosing to not address, discuss, resolve, or use it.

Take out:

Idea ‘Take out’ is an emphasis idea variation for idea ‘Address’. That is when an instigator encourages you to contemplationally take out/remove/extract an experience. When using the ‘Address’ idea, you may contemplationally say ‘Take out’ or ‘Take out address’, allowing you to sense/feel somewhat the experience, but not address, discuss, resolve, or use it.

Encounter:

Idea ‘Encounter’ is an emphasis variety for idea ‘Address’. It helps identify the emphasis of adverse encountering from certain forms of instigation. Just contemplationally say ‘Encounter’ or ‘Encounter address’, and then you may feel/sense something about the experience, but you are not agree to address, discuss, resolve, use it.

Issues:

When you experience an instigation, you may ‘shuffle’ the words available to you in an attempt to make the experience more tenable. For example, you experience an instigation, and this particular instigation encourages you to contemplationally involve yourself with issues that you did not agree to interact with. You can say ‘Issues’, allow yourself to sense/feel somewhat those issues, but not agree to address, discuss, resolve, use such issues. If that doesn’t work, or if you need more of a positive effect, you can try the other ideas. You may contemplationally say ‘Take out’, or ‘React’.

It is now 1:54AM EST for me.

I am going to close this list now. I think there is progress here, even though I could have explained it better. This coming Monday/next Tuesday, I may explain the next strategy idea that I will invent within this week, unless I change my mind again. So, if you are there, I’ll see you then.

Profanity, viewer discretion for movie ‘The Roast of Tom Brady’. Sci-fi violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘The Acolyte’. Rated PG-13 mature themes, violence/action and language, viewer discretion for movie ‘Madame Web’. Rated TV-14 mature themes, animated violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘The Simpsons’. Rated R for monster violence, and for language, viewer discretion for movie ‘Aliens’. Use only refurbished for advice references recommended. Throw away rest of episode, series, and movie. [Use mental bookmarks ‘Address’, ‘React’, ‘Take out’, ‘Encounter’, and ‘Issues’ for reference, allocation, and prevention when needed.