Wishlist #1452

6/10/2024

Salutations.

It is now 9:27PM EST for me.

I’m starting this blog later than I would want to, but I was also able to do a few things that I would normally forget to do, not until after I would type in this blog.

I checked Amazon.com, and this is my recent purchase that you may find useful.(The usefulness doesn’t have to involve just purchasing the item. You may find it useful just to know what I’m purchasing, for example.) Here’s the item:

adidas Classic 3S Backpack, Jersey Onix Grey/Black, One Size

It’s about $36 dollars with Prime shipping available. I bought 2 of them. I needed a backpack that was bigger than the one that I was using, that can hold 3 containers of drinks, as well as the other things that I was putting in it. I bought a 3rd backpack, but I decided to return it to a nearby UPS store when I have the chance to. One of the photos of it shows a boy wearing it. I like it’s simple design: 2 main pockets, one small net pocket on the side. The big pocket/compartment can hold everything I put in there, plenty of room. Like backpacks in general, in my opinion, it is what it is. I have personal disappointments about it’s design, nothing wrong with the backpack, of course, but because of that ‘Unrequited aspiring’ idea I typed in one of the recent lists, I have learned to accept certain identities of unrequited aspiring, in my opinion, which allows for more opportunities to be made available to me.

The plan for this list is to type in 3 ‘story ideas’ with the intent to prepare you for several ‘strategy ideas’ that I believe you may find useful in the next list. Because it’s so late, I should be able to explain 2 of those ideas. All 3 ideas I believe may be useful to you, so we’ll see what happens. If my limit today is to stop for this list by 3:00AM tomorrow morning, then I have about 5 hours to complete this list. Let’s see what happens.

It is now 9:52PM EST for me.

I am going to look for that music video and trailer now. Based on past performance, I should find and prepare those 2 within an hour and a half. So, if you are there within that time, I’ll see you then.

It is now 10:33PM EST for me.

The music video that I watched for the 1st time earlier today and recommend for this advice is called ‘Nice to Meet You’ by Imagine Dragons. I found it by selecting publisher ‘Hot Music Charts’ from www.youtube.com, then select ‘Top Songs of the Week | June 7, 2024’. A video clip of the song starts 2 minutes and 20 seconds into that video collection, and is #80 out of 100. It was published 4 days ago. To watch the music video, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘nice to meet you’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with 4.4M views! It was published 2 weeks ago by publisher ‘ImagineDragons’.

Here is a quote from the lyrics:

I was buying you those flowers
I was listening for hours
I was shutting up those doubters, yeah, yeah
She was jealous of our relationship
She hated that we were making it
She’s smiling but she’s faking it, yeah, yeah

And here is a quote about the music video from link www.thefrontrowreport.com:

‘ The propulsive funk-pop track is an upbeat retelling of the foibles and beauty that comes in the beginning stages of a relationship.

Set amid the nostalgic ambiance of a retro bar, the video captures the magnetic first encounter (or is it?) of lead-singer Dan Reynolds and a new love interest. ‘

I recommend to start watching the music video 18 seconds, just before the lyrics start.

In my opinion, it’s entertaining to watch a music video interpretation of the lead singer Dan Reynolds meeting a single woman in a dance bar for the 1st time, refurbished for advice of course. I also found entertaining to watch as the others in the dance bar, how they were watching Dan Reynolds and his dance partner, how they dance. Of course, if there’s anything inappropriate that you see, don’t use it. (If you want to watch the music video ‘normally’, so to speak, I’m not stopping you. I’m just recommending how it should be used as it relates to this advice.)

The tv series trailer that I watched for the 1st time and recommend for this advice is called ‘The Umbrella Academy | Final Season | Official Teaser Trailer | Netflix’. I found it by selecting publisher ‘ONE Media Coverage’ from www.youtube.com, select ‘Videos’, I then scrolled down and saw the trailer. I didn’t watch that trailer. Instead, I searched in www.youtube.com and searched for phrase ‘the umbrella academy season 4’ and instead selected ‘The Umbrella Academy | Final Season | Official Teaser Trailer | Netflix’, which has 2.9M views and was published 11 days ago by publisher ‘Netflix’.

I looked at it’s wikipedia.org link, and all 6 episodes of season 4 will be made available on August 8, 2024.

I’m recommending this trailer, since I already watched the 1st 3 seasons. I will very likely watch it’s final 4th season.

It is now 11:17PM EST for me.

I am going to take a nap and a break now, and then I’ll start typing again soon.

It is now 12:05AM EST for me.

For the 1st idea, I’m presenting an idea that I invented to be used by single men, to help them find relationships. I find making such ideas easier to make since I am also a single man. I recommend that, if you are not a single man,(kids/teenagers, adults, schools of thought), in relation to advice said, just refurbish/change it for your own personal use.

The 1st part of the explanation is from, according to www.imdb.com, episode 11.7 ‘Rage Against the Vaccine’ from animated tv series ‘Futurama(2023)’. Wikipedia.org identifies it as episode 8.7. Here is a partial quote from wikipedia.org about the episode:

‘ Hermes believes that the virus can be defeated with voodoo and enlists the help of Barbados Slim and LaBarbara. LaBarbara develops a voodoo potion that will trick the body’s cells into thinking it is infected with Explovid-23 and thus produce antibodies. ‘

The episode is available to be watched from the streaming service Hulu.

Here is a quote from link futurama.fandom.com/wiki about who LaBarbara Conrad is:

‘ LaBarbara Conrad is the wife of Hermes Conrad and mother of Dwight Conrad in Futurama. She is the daughter-in-law of Mr. Conrad and Mrs. Conrad. She often rebukes Hermes and Dwight for what they do wrong. She is the ex-wife of Barbados Slim, the rival of Hermes… ‘

Place:(Name created for idea on 12:15AM EST)

The point is that, if memory serves, when Hermes went to New New Orleans, he was there to get the cure from someone else. He didn’t expect his wife, LaBarbara Conrad, to give him those answers. In other words, Hermes had to go to another ‘place’ in order to get help from his wife LaBarbara.

I’m using that ‘Futurama’ episode to create idea ‘Place’.

Here’s the definition of the word ‘place’ from www.dictionary.com:

‘ a proper or appropriate location or position: ‘

And here is the idea that I recently created for idea ‘Place’. To be clear, I completely imagined idea ‘Place’. I didn’t ask anyone, especially women, if the idea is accurate or not. I just made it up. And here it is: When I imagine many Americans individually see each other, let’s say for the 1st time, such as public places like public transportation areas, and it’s a single man and a single woman situation, if something happens, many single men would want things to happen ‘in the now’. So, if an encounter occurs in a public bus, the single man would want many things to exist ‘in the now’, even in that bus. The single woman, however, would want many things to happen in other places. For example, in that ‘Futurama’ episode, LaBarbara chose to help her husband Hermes while he was in New New Orleans. Hermes had to be there 1st before LaBarbara offered her scientific expertise to her husband Hermes. LaBarbara chose to help her husband Hermes, but the help had to occur in another place, not where they live.

If the single woman chooses to, many things can still happen ‘where they are’, but I’ll explain that later in this list. Let’s begin with places that are not in that obvious location where they are now.

To be blunt, I refurbished one of the music videos to help me create ideas as to what ‘other places’ these single women are talking about. The imagined idea helps me create the imagined awareness of these ‘other places’ that single women want single men to go to, to help develop a relationship with them. Before I tell you what this music video is, here’s the ‘set up’ to do it that I created. If you choose to take this idea, in relationship to advice said, you can change it all you want. I used this device with my old flat screen tv:

Amazon Fire TV Stick 4K Max

I purchased it a few months ago. It seems to be more compatible with my old flat screen tv. I have very few problems watching streaming tv shows and movies using it. I connect my flat screen tv to headphones, and then watch it using a youtube tv app.

In my opinion, the music video seems to focus it’s demographic on teenage girls. I believe that the music video can be used by single men, and the demographic can be changed to focus on single women instead of teenage girls. The change is all in the single man’s mind. It’s just a temporary change in translation that, by intent, allows the single man to use the music video to help him find other places that single women want men to use to facilitate relationships with them. I used the tv series ‘Men of a Certain Age(2009-2011)’ to replace the original singing group from the music video, just temporarily, the main characters as presented in 2009-2011, Joe Tranelli(Ray Romano), Terry Elliott(Scott Bakula), and Owen Thoreau Jr.(Andre Braugher). Those 3 men replace the entire original singing group for that music video. You only have to casually do this somewhat in the beginning, so that you can use that music video, and it’s just for certain moments, so that you can get used to it. Afterwards, you can just think of those 3 characters from time to time. You can just watch the music video repeatedly, only certain scenes, while wearing headphones, to help you make those ideas.

For further imagined illustration, I imagined a rectangular location over your tv screen, coming from a 10×10 grid, but instead of the whole grid, you just use a rectangular amount, for example, a 10×4 grid. All 40 locations from that grid is emitting that song, and it’s intent is to help you by using that song to lead you to those locations. For simplicity, the song from all 40 locations are presented to you via the headphones you are using to watch that music video using youtube.

The music video is ‘What Makes You Beautiful’ by One Direction. Here is a short quote about the song and music video from wikipedia.org:

‘ “What Makes You Beautiful” (WMYB) is a song by English-Irish boy band One Direction. It was their first single and also served as the lead single from their debut album, Up All Night (2011). Written by Savan Kotecha and producer Rami Yacoub, the song was released by Syco Records on 11 September 2011. The uptempo power pop[1] track features a prominent guitar-based chorus and riff. The middle eight consists of a “na na na” hook.

“What Makes You Beautiful” was a commercial success, reaching number one in several countries. It has been certified quadruple platinum in the US with sales of 4.8 million copies as of June 2016.[3] The single peaked at number four on the US Billboard Hot 100 and number one on the UK Singles Chart. The song won the 2012 Brit Award for British Single of the Year and was generally complimented by contemporary music critics, who highlighted the appeal to the teenage audience and the pop sensibility. It debuted at number one on the UK Singles Chart after setting a Sony Music Entertainment pre-order record and selling 153,965 copies in its first week. The single topped the Irish and Scottish Singles Charts, and reached the top ten on the Australian and New Zealand Singles Charts, Flemish Ultratop 50, Canadian Hot 100, and the Japan Hot 100.

The accompanying music video, directed by John Urbano, shows One Direction spending time on a beach in Malibu, California. ‘

And here is the lyrics:

[Liam:]
You’re insecure
Don’t know what for
You’re turning heads when you walk through the door
Don’t need make-up
To cover up
Being the way that you are is enough

[Harry:]
Everyone else in the room can see it
Everyone else but you

[All:]
Baby you light up my world like nobody else
The way that you flip your hair gets me overwhelmed
But when you smile at the ground it ain’t hard to tell
You don’t know
Oh, oh
You don’t know you’re beautiful
If only you saw what I can see
You’d understand why I want you so desperately
Right now I’m looking at you and I can’t believe
You don’t know
Oh, oh
You don’t know you’re beautiful
Oh, oh
That’s what makes you beautiful

[Zayn:]
So c-come on
You got it wrong
To prove I’m right
I put it in a song
I don’t know why
You’re being shy
And turn away when I look into your eye-eye-eyes

[Harry]
Everyone else in the room can see it
Everyone else but you

[All:]
Baby you light up my world like nobody else
The way that you flip your hair gets me overwhelmed
But when you smile at the ground it ain’t hard to tell
You don’t know
Oh oh
You don’t know you’re beautiful
If only you saw what I can see
You’ll understand why I want you so desperately
Right now I’m looking at you and I can’t believe
You don’t know
Oh oh
You don’t know you’re beautiful
Oh oh

[Harry:]
That’s what makes you beautiful

Nana nana nana nana
Nana nana nana nana
Nana nana nana nana

[Harry:]
Baby you light up my world like nobody else
The way that you flip your hair gets me overwhelmed
But when you smile at the ground it ain’t hard to tell

[All:]
You don’t know
Oh oh
You don’t know you’re beautiful

Baby, you light up my world like nobody else
The way that you flip your hair gets me overwhelmed
But when you smile at the ground it ain’t hard to tell
You don’t know
Oh oh
You don’t know you’re beautiful (Oh)
If only you saw what I can see
You’ll understand why I want you so desperately
([Harry:] desperately)
Right now I’m looking at you and I can’t believe
You don’t know
Oh oh
You don’t know you’re beautiful
Oh oh
You don’t know you’re beautiful
Oh oh

[Harry:]
That’s what makes you beautiful

To watch the music video, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘one direction what makes you beautiful’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with 1.5B views. It was published 12 years ago by publisher ‘One Direction’. When watching it repeatedly to make ideas to find those places, I recommend starting about 10 seconds into the music video, just before the lyrics begin, and ending about 2 minutes and 37 seconds into the music video.

In my opinion, if you watch it as a loop when making ideas, more places, you may notice more detail from the music video itself.

When you use the ‘Men of a Certain Age’ translation, change the teenage girls from the music video, and substitute them with adult single women. You just have to do that in the beginning. After that, you can just repeatedly watch the music video. You get it already.

The 2nd illustration reference, and after explaining that 1st illustration reference, this should be a ‘breeze’ to understand, is in the movie ‘Música(2024)’ starring Rudy Mancuso as Rudy, and Camila Senna as Luana. You can watch more of that scene, if you want to. I’m just quoting the gist of it. The movie is available streaming from Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, that scene starts about 11 minutes and 40 seconds into the movie:

Rudy: ‘Uh, I should probably say I-I just got out of a relationship.’

Luana: ‘But she wasn’t Brazilian, right?’

Rudy: ‘No.’

Luana: ‘Doesn’t seem that serious.’

Refurbished for advice, since it is originally a comedy romance movie, Luana helped create that situation, to be a place ‘in the now’, something that many single men in my opinion automatically do. She wants Rudy to participate in that situation in order to improve Luana’s possibility of a healthy relationship with Rudy, allowing them both to eventually marry as soon as possible. In the movie, the ‘place’ Luana helped create didn’t achieve the desired results, but in my opinion, it still was a good plan.

It is now 2:14AM EST for me.

New participations:(name created about 2:25AM EST)

I’m going to make this 3rd idea intentionally sloppy, with no illustration references. It’s based on what I imagine the dating situation also is out there. Sure, there are ideal situations occurring, people getting married and all that. What I believe is also happening is that there are many single women who cannot find a single man in their jobs. There are none available. That is, or rather was, their 1st choice. Compromise occurs. Next thing you know, it’s the year 2024, and new participations are created. Women are now meeting men in these new, innovative, participations, and many of them are even getting married, thanks to those participations. Here’s the situation: A group of women in one of these innovate participations are talking, and one of them is a single woman. They are discussing how many of them are now married from the men that they met via that innovative participation. The married women are encouraging the single woman to meet a single man in that innovative participation. One possible talked about is the possibility that a certain single man would meet her during that innovative participation, but how would that single man even know about such an innovative participation?

So, the idea is that if single women recently, in the now, and in the near future, if they are/will participate in certain ‘new participations’, and if you as a single man are aware of such participations, then maybe if you participate in those ‘new participations’, you may give the single women there more opportunity, more of an ability to be prepared to meet you, to interact with a ‘place’ that they would rather meet you in, and who knows? Maybe as a single man you may get a date out of it. One thing leading to another, etc.

It is now 2:24AM EST for me.

I am going to close this list now. This coming Monday, I will explain a few ‘strategy ideas’, unless I change my mind. So, if you are there, I’ll see you then.

Rated TV-14 animated violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘Futurama’. Rated PG-13 for some strong language, suggestive references and brief violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘Musica’. Use only refurbished for advice references recommended. Throw away rest of episode, series, and movie. [Use mental bookmarks ‘Place’ and ‘New participations’ for reference, allocation, and prevention when needed.