1/28/2025
Salutations.
It is now 12:16AM EST for me.
I didn’t start typing around 7:00PM EST yesterday, but I tried to. I also didn’t order any takeout. Here’s a question: if you are an adult ordering takeout for a few years or more, have you noticed that you want to order takeout from restaurants that you are not able to because of their days off? For example, in my situation, I want to order from a few restaurants on Monday nights, but those few restaurants are closed Monday nights. Imagine many people in America developing a craving for takeout food from restaurants that are closed during the times they would want to order from them. How long will those people be in that metaphorical time loop? I’m choosing to order sometimes a day before or a day after that restaurant’s time it is closed, but that took me years to learn to do on my own.
Here’s the plan: I’ll type something now, maybe an hour’s worth, and then I’ll prepare my laundry for the laundromat. After I arrange my washed clothes, I will go to the supermarket and buy some food. After that, I’m going to the bank to get enough $5 bills to last most of this year. I’m now using my credit card to purchase food, so I don’t want to need to, for example, ‘break a $20’ just to get change. Since I don’t need as much change anymore, what I do need are $5 bills, and so I go to the bank maybe twice a year to get some $5 bills. Today is the day that I have to get more $5 bills, or else I’ll have to buy something just to get change again. (The bank that I use provides 20s and 10s from the ATM machine, but not $5s.) I put the coins that I get from time to time in one of those Chinese wonton soup containers, and when there’s enough change, I put it in a small ziploc bag, bring it to the supermarket, and it has a change converting machine. I pour all of those coins into the machine, and it gives me a receipt for credit to purchase anything in that supermarket. If you bring change to a bank, I think you still have to put it in those tubes. I’m not doing that. I’ll just pour it in a machine, let the machine deduct a percentage, and that’s that. When I come back from the bank later today, I’ll continue and finish with this list.
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Can’t express(revisited):
I want to address idea ‘Can’t express’ that I typed in Wishlist #1486, the previous list, published 1/20/2025. I didn’t know this at first, but a few days after I typed it in, within the past week, It seems to me that it’s very absurdly ‘on the nose’. Since this is a public list and kids could be reading it, I’m not sure that they are, but anyway, it’s certainty in use may encourage kids to focus on ideas that create certain results. In my opinion, a lot of ideas that you may create also use uncertainty. For example, when you are learning new expectations, you may use some of those expectations to create more familiar results, and that may take some time to acclimate to. In the meantime, those expectations that you have chosen to actively use and are new to you may not be able to articulate certain results, even though you believe that such results exist.
Let me offer you a possible upgrade as to how I contemplationally use idea ‘Can’t express’ in the form of a contemplation phrase:
‘An expressing of interest that you either have difficulty interacting with or can’t interact with.’
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If you are an adult that has been working in the same job for a few years or more, than I suspect, in my opinion, that you have experienced instigation when you were at school, such as grammar school, high school, and college, and idea ‘Can’t express’ helped you manage some of those experiences. That, in my opinion, is where the ‘exact’ and ‘very specific’ is coming from. You think about certain experienced instigations, if you experienced any, from school, and idea ‘Can’t express’ helps you have very specific, positive results from those experiences.
My point, since you may also use expectations, like new expectations, that can’t produce certain results, since you are still learning from those expectations, that uncertainty is also used in the ideas that you may be using and creating. Since kids could be using these ideas, I’m going to use a new reference, movie ‘Star Trek: Section 31’, since it was just released a few days ago, in my area, it was made available streaming 1/24/2025 from streaming service Paramount+. The example is extreme, but it’s still Star Trek sci-fi. According to Paramount+, that scene starts 1 hour, 20 minutes, and 19 seconds into the movie. In relation to advice said, you can watch more of the movie for more understanding:
Quasi(Sam Richardson): ‘Either of these 2 buttons could open the cargo bay.’
Rachel Garrett(Kacey Rohl): ‘Okay, so push them both.’
Quasi: ‘Either of these two buttons could also initiate a self-destruct protocol.’
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1 hour, 20 minutes, 29 seconds:
Rachel: ‘Quasi. Quasi, look at me. You just need to make a call. You know what to do.’
Quasi: ‘Okay.’
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So, one example, you are learning new expectations, and for many things, you can’t articulate those many things using those new expectations, especially thing that you are certain of. That could create a contemplation involving uncertainty. You still believe in those many things, you just can’t articulate those many things using certain new expectations that you have chosen to learn and actively use.
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I want to add my interpretation of what happened to Georgiou(Michelle Yeoh) in the movie ‘Star Trek: Section 31’. I’m not a Trekkie, so I could get the interpretation wrong, but you still might find it useful:
In episode 3.10 ‘Terra Firma, Part 2’ from tv series ‘Star Trek: Discovery(2020)’, The Guardian of Forever(Paul Guilfoyle) placed Georgiou in an alternate reality where she can live a healthy life, and where she could be very productive, even from her perspective. When she arrived, she did what she reasonably? could for the Terran Empire, and because of her previous experience, she left to live in the Federation’s universe, and she created a situation that the Federation, more specifically, Section 31, would eventually come to her for help. I haven’t imagined/considered that far, but if Section 31 didn’t go to her and ask for help, she would eventually do something else. But as the movie shows, Section 31 did eventually go to her and ask for help.
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It is now 1:41AM EST for me.
I am going to prepare my laundry for the laundromat now. I’ll start typing again later today, so if you are there, I’ll see you then.
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It is now 1:14PM EST for me.
I did my laundry, my grocery shopping, and I recently came back from the bank and I have my $5s. I obviously missed the 11:00AM goal to type. I will instead start typing around 9:00PM EST later today. So, if you are there, I’ll see you then.
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It is now 2:50AM EST for me.
I just finished paying my bills online, and I was doing it using the Samsung chromebook. I was experiencing a few problems, all explained of course. Since I still have my previous laptop available to be used nearby, the glitches were easily resolved. Still, I had to go ‘through the ropes’ to figure those problems out. I can now pay my bills using this laptop without any problems.
I noticed that, because of the cold weather, my electric bill was a lot higher. Because of that, I was shopping in Amazon.com for a new portable indoor heater. I was thinking of purchasing 2 new oil heaters with low wattage options. I was in the process of purchasing them, but I also have to use time to type in this blog. I haven’t decided yet what to purchase, oil heaters or infared heaters. Oil heaters with low wattage options look promising to me. I’ll do that later.
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I did order and receive new shower curtains. Sure, shower curtains advertise that you can clean them, but if they’re cheap, why go through the effort of cleaning them when you can just purchase new one’s? In case you want to know, these are the shower curtains that I purchased. I’m going to probably cut one of them to allow it to fit in the shower. Amazon.com offers a variety of shower curtains, but these are the ones that I purchased, in case you want to know:
AooHome Shower Stall Curtain Liner for Small Size 54×72 Inch, 8G Eva RV Shower Curtain Frosted Pattern, Narrow Standing Single Water Repellent Shower Liner, Semi Transparent
AooHome 72×72 Shower Curtain Liner – 8G Eva Heavy Duty Frosted Bathroom Plastic Shower Liner with Rustproof Metal Grommets and 5 Bottom Magnets, Thickness, Water Repellent, Semi-Transparent
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They’re both about $15 each, with Prime shipping available.
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It is now 3:21AM EST for me.
Improving communication:
Yes, I improved my ‘strategy ideas’, and I believe that I can teach something about them, but if you choose to use them, you may notice an obvious change in your own strategy use. Therefore, before I continue, I will offer you ideas designed by intent to improve how I communicate with you. I’m not professionally giving advice, but I believe these ‘improving communication’ ideas may help improve your ability to find these ideas useful to you.
I’m going to use ‘improved accommodation’ to try to improve communication when using this blog. To be clear, I’m completely imagining these ideas. In case you’re new reading this blog, I’m not creating these ideas professionally, but I have been typing in this blog for a certain amount of years, to help people cope with experienced instigation, mild to moderate. I also recommend purchases from Amazon.com, but those purchases usually are purchases that I would also make for myself, and in my opinion they’re very affordable purchases, and I am mindful that kids could be reading this blog.
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It is now 4:11AM EST for me.
I am using a sci-fi illustration example refurbished to represent management for idea ‘Improving communication’. An hour or so ago, I started by subscription with streaming service ‘Disney+’, but I wanted only to use that scene from that episode. So, basically, I paid for 1 month’s service to see that scene from that episode, so that I can recommend for you to see it. As soon as I started it, I cancelled, and as soon as that 1 month is used, my subscription will be cancelled. If you don’t normally watch Disney+, but you choose to watch that illustration example, then you may do what I did, subscribe for just one month.
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Before I continue, I’m not adding a music video and trailer for this advice, because of time availability. There will be a music video involved for idea ‘Improving communication’ that may be very popular for you to use. Originally, idea ‘Improving communication’ was made to not be an idea that requires a music video and trailer anyway, but because of my chosen time allowance, I don’t have time to type in idea ‘Improving communication’, offer a music video and trailer, and then also type in the main ideas that will use that music video and trailer. In this blog, it will be just idea ‘Improving communication’.
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The example is in episode 1.5 ‘The Axe Forgets’ from sci-fi tv series ‘Andor(2022)’, and according to Disney+, that scene starts 17 minutes and 12 seconds into the episode. Here is the quote:
Lieutenant Supervisor Blevin(Ben Bailey Smith): ‘Captain Tigo!’
Captain Vanis Tigo(Wilf Scolding): ‘There you are. They’re still clearing out some guests.’
Blevin: ‘What do you think?’
Tigo: ‘As a hotel?’
Blevin: ‘Do you want it or not?’
Tigo: ‘The assignment?’
Blevin: ‘No, you’re taking the assignment. I was asking if this would do as your headquarters.’
Tigo: ‘Could I be made Prefect? The title. I know it doesn’t come with extra pay.’
Blevin: ‘You can wear a ball gown if you’d like. Just get this up and running before my next staff meeting.’
Tigo: [nods his head, with the acknowledgement that he has his title.]
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I’m using that scene refurbished to illustrate that management in general has already been given the authority by their jobs to accommodate entitlements to their employees. So, as an example that can come from many American jobs, managerial employees in general can already accommodate more non-managerial employees, allowing them to have an improved sense of communication with non-managerial employees. I’m using that scene in tv series ‘Andor’ to represent using managerial employees as ‘improved communication’ examples when communicating with non-managerial employees.
So, to customize that example more for this blog, an example that you may find useful of course, not where I work, but I imagine myself being a managerial employee, and since I am a single man with no kids, I imagine talking to a non-managerial, single, available woman that I find attractive, and in that other job’s context, I am saying something similar to her. Since I’m talking to a woman, I did not say ”You can wear a ball gown if you’d like.’, but I said something that is of course more compatible to say, something that indicates that she is being accommodated as per her request. Obviously, in the original example, 2 men are talking. Keep that in mind as it is being refurbished for a man and a woman talking.
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The 2nd story involves celebrity Eddie Murphy. I checked www.imdb.com, and he’s still involved in new movies. He’s going to portray Inspector Clouseau in the upcoming family comedy movie ‘The Pink Panther’.
In this story, he’s an employee, works for a company. For a particular project, all the employees are women, he is offering to all of them by computer certain resources to choose from. From the list of items he would offer them, they would all choose only certain resources, certain perks. He would then offer them more of what they have chosen, with what he thinks is compatible variety to them based on their choices. After a week of doing this, what was offered and agreed upon as determined by Eddie Murphy would be the ‘package deal’ offered to them as one of the incentives to participate in that project.
Even though what Eddie Murphy offered them are acceptable resources to offer them, he does not know how the women will specifically use those resources.
The idea from that ‘Eddie Murphy’ story is that it’s possible that men can offer certain accommodations to women, and the men don’t even have to know how the women will specifically use those accommodations.
Here’s one example: I am talking to a group of women, and in that conversation, they are telling me that they have many reservations, things that they do not reveal to men because such things would harm them, since they are not prepared to know of such things. I then ask them, can I offer accommodations for such things, accommodations from another place, without knowing what those reservations are? If I can reasonably accommodate certain reservations, certain interactions, without needing to know what the specifics are for those reservations and interactions, then I believe in the context of this advice that such women that I am communicating with, that such an accommodation would improve more our efforts to communicate with each other. In that ‘Eddie Murphy’ story, he was able to do that, and it was completely legitimate, completely acceptable, to do so for that job related project participation.
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Avatar:
Idea ‘Avatar’ is extrapolated from the ‘Avatar’ franchise, the tv series ‘The Lord of the Rings: The Rings of Power’, both are still ongoing, and the 1978 animated movie ‘The Lord of the Rings’, available streaming from Amazon.com. For the animated movie, the illustration scene used for idea ‘Avatar’, according to Amazon Video, starts 1 hour, 13 minutes, and 33 seconds into the movie:
[Galadriel showing light coming from her ring]
Frodo: ‘3 rings for the Elven kings… under the sky.’
Galadriel: ‘Yes.’
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So, here’s the story: In the year 2025, one of a CEO’s employees found ‘The Ring of Galadriel’. He contacts his boss, and shows him that he has found the ring. The boss then initiates business arrangements involving that ring. After that employee, from that other location, while wearing that ring, he said the words ”3 rings for the Elven kings… under the sky.’ to cause that ring to show light, like it did in that animated movie. From the CEO’s office, shown on the big tv screen in his office, he sees the recorded light show from the smartphone presented by one of his employees, and while he is making business arrangements involving ‘The Ring of Galadriel’, which he now owns, as he is seeing that employee showing his hand presenting that light from the ring, the CEO boss puts his hand in front of that man’s hand, and from his perspective, the light is coming from the CEO’s hand, as he is seeing that light from his tv screen.
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Refurbished for advice, the employee that found ‘The Ring of Galadriel’ is acting as the CEO’s avatar.
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It is now 6:04AM EST for me.
I am going to use a quote from Wishlist #1484, posted 1/06/2025:
The music video that I watched for the 1st time earlier today and recommend for this advice is called ‘Let Me Go’ by Hailee Steinfeld. Even though the song was made 7 years ago, it is the 1st time that I watched it, and I think the 1st time that I am recommending it for this blog.
I found it by selecting publisher ‘Current Chart!’ from www.youtube.com, select ‘Videos’, then select ‘Top Motivational Songs For 2025!’, published 3 days ago. A video clip from music video ‘Let Me Go’ starts 1 minute and 20 seconds into that video clip collection.
Here’s a quote from link www.music-news.com:
‘ “People have said Let Me Go feels like a break-up song but it really is a love song and it’s about loving that person so much that all you want to do is see them happy and see them with somebody that makes them happy.” ‘
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And here’s a quote from the lyrics:
I’ve been hoping somebody loves you in the ways I couldn’t
Somebody’s taking care of all of the mess I made
Someone you don’t have to change
I’ve been hoping
Someone will love you, let me go
Someone will love you, let me go
I’ve been hoping
Someone will love you, let me go
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For age verification at the time the music video was released, I typed the phrase in www.google.com ‘how old was hailee steinfeld when let me go was released’, and it answered:
20 years
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To watch the music video, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘hailee steinfeld let me go’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with 99M views! It was published 7 years ago by publisher ‘Hailee Steinfeld’.
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Refurbished for advice with certain scenes not used, this is the part of the music video ‘Let Me Go’ by Hailee Steinfeld that I’m using for idea ‘Avatar’. and according to that music video, it starts 29 seconds into the music video. Here is the lyrics quote:
and I wish you wouldn’t wait for me but you always do
I’ve been hoping somebody loves you in the ways I couldn’t
Somebody’s taking care of all of the mess I made
Someone you don’t have to change
I’ve been hoping
Someone will love you, let me go
Someone will love you, let me go
I’ve been hoping
Someone will love you, let me go
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Using that ‘CEO’ story, he has both men and women employees. Any of those employees could be his avatar. Imagined and refurbished, I am choosing singer Hailee Steinfeld from her actions in the music video ‘Let Me Go’ to sing that quote that I have identified, starting about 29 seconds into the music video to single, available women that I find attractive, that, as my avatar, she is singing to them these words referenced from the music video:
I’ve been hoping somebody loves you in the ways I couldn’t
Somebody’s taking care of all of the mess I made
Someone you don’t have to change
I’ve been hoping
Someone will love you, let me go
Someone will love you, let me go
I’ve been hoping
Someone will love you, let me go
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When you watch the music video, you start off watching Hailee Steinfeld sing these words:
and I wish you wouldn’t wait for me but you always do
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It’s done in the context that I am a single man, and Hailee Steinfeld as my avatar, if the women choose to, she is singing to them to help them feel better.
Here’s that quote again from link www.music-news.com:
‘ “People have said Let Me Go feels like a break-up song but it really is a love song and it’s about loving that person so much that all you want to do is see them happy and see them with somebody that makes them happy.” ‘
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Using that quote, imagining Hailee Steinfeld singing to single women, it’s intent is just to help them feel better, when they choose to see it that way. Also use the video collection’s identification of that music video, ‘Top Motivational Songs For 2025!’, to identify how it’s used.
If they choose to, that is how I recommend it be used, if they choose to perceive that scene that way. Just use the scenes when Hailee Steinfeld is actually seen singing those words. Don’t use the other scenes for this idea, such as when she is kissing that man in the music video on the cheek, when she is with that man in the car, etc. , just the scenes in the music video when she is actually seen singing the lyrics to that song. The scene in that music video, after all, is being refurbished to be used for idea ‘Avatar’.
As for everyone else, such as kids, teenagers, adults, and other schools of thought, you can watch that scene to feel better. It’s selected to be motivational, and according to the quote:
‘ “People have said Let Me Go feels like a break-up song but it really is a love song and it’s about loving that person so much that all you want to do is see them happy and see them with somebody that makes them happy.” ‘
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In my opinion, a lot of people like listening to the song. For example, that helps them feel better. If you are a Hailee Steinfeld fan, then whether you’re a kid, teenager, or adult, you may like watching the music video and listening to Hailee Steinfeld sing because you enjoy it/like it/it helps you feel better. Watch it in a reasonable context, like people tend to do when watching music videos.
For both single, available women that I find attractive that choose to see it that way, and for the other way recommended to be used by everyone else, the intent of both uses is to improve communication when using the advice in this blog.
To customize it’s use for imagination, you can imagine a woman that looks like Hailee Steinfeld, although personally I’ve never seen a woman look like her, they probably exist, I just never seen such women, you can imagine such a woman as my avatar, not where I work, but in other jobs, you can imagine her singing to single women that I find attractive those quoted lyrics in a more compatible context, to help them feel better. Of course, if you choose to take this idea, to use it as your own, in relation to advice, you can change it all you want.
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It is now 6:35AM EST for me.
I am closing this list now. This coming Monday, 2/03/2025, at 7:00PM EST, I will make another list. They will be ‘story ideas’ whose intent is to prepare you more for the strategy ideas that I have recently created, unless I change my mind. So, if you are there, I’ll see you then.
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Rated PG-13 for violence/bloody images, suggestive material and some language, sci-fi viewer discretion for movie ‘Star Trek: Section 31’. Rated TV-14 mature themes, sci-fi violence, viewer discretion for tv series ‘Andor’. Rated PG animated violence, viewer discretion for movie ‘The Lord of the Rings(1978)’. Use only refurbished for advice references recommended. Throw away rest of episode, series, and movie. [Use mental bookmarks ‘Can’t express’, ‘Improving communication’, and ‘Avatar’ for reference, allocation, and prevention when needed.