7/16/2025

Salutations.

It is now 1:08AM EST for me.

Instead of continuing with the ‘beginning’ strategy ideas, I want to continue with the impression of the strategy ideas that I am currently using. The intent is to add to your ‘strategy ideas’ vocabulary, and to help you decide if you want to continue learning such ideas. Plus, since it’s the current strategy ideas that I am using, I would feel more inclined to explain them.

Again, I am very late in starting this blog. I was supposed to start at about 7:00PM EST yesterday. Instead, I started typing around 1:08AM EST. I’m late over 6 hours. I’m going to give myself about 5 hours to type in this blog, to stop around 6:00AM EST today.

I checked my Amazon.com orders, and the only thing I want to recommend right now is this:

Travel Soap Container, Leakproof Soap Box, Travel Soap Holder with Removable Draining Layer, Portable Soap Case for Traveling, Camping, Gym (Black)

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It’s only about $6, and it’s available for Prime shipping. I purchased it about a week ago. Before using that, I placed my bar of soap in a small cup. I would notice that, at the bottom of that cup, there would be some sort of soap residue, and I would remove that residue regularly. Now that I’m using the soap box, it has a draining layer. There’s still a little soap residue, but I like the concept. In my opinion, it’s better than just putting a bar of soap in a small cup. If you look at the Amazon.com link, it also advertises different colors and sizes.

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It is now 1:44AM EST for me.

I am going to look for a music video and trailer to recommend to be used for this advice. Let’s say estimated time to prepare and recommend in this blog those 2 things, 1 and a half hours. So, if you are there after that time estimate, I’ll see you then.

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It is now 1:59AM EST for me.

Before I continue looking for a music video and trailer, I wanted to mention something, an idea that I invented a few hours ago. I’ll start with a story that I imagined:

Here’s the story: 2 employees are talking in a company, a woman and a man. The woman is saying to the man something that she finds interesting, a social event that the company is sponsoring. The man replies that the only reason he is working for the company is because of some sort of technology that the company is offering him to work with.

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The story is meant to indicate that both employees have separate appreciations as they both participate in their jobs: the woman’ appreciation involves social activities that the company sponsors, the man’s appreciation seems to only involve the technology that the company offers him to work with.

I invented this idea while I was watching for the 1st time a Japanese anime trailer called ‘Virgin Punk: Clockwork Girl | OFFICIAL TRAILER’. To find it, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘virgin punk’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with 490K views. It was published 12 days ago by publisher ‘Aniplex USA’. Here is a quote from www.google.com, the AI overview found by searching for phrase ‘virgin punk storyline’:

‘ The anime is known for its high-intensity action sequences, with Ubu’s unique fighting style involving a high-tech boomerang. The animation style is described as a blend of familiar sci-fi elements with a unique aesthetic, leaning towards early 2000s anime but with modern techniques. ‘

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If you choose to look at the trailer, the scene that caused me to make the idea is about 1 minute and 8 seconds into the trailer. When I initially looked at it, it looked like she is presenting to herself in virtual reality 5 cards. Soon after I looked at it and while I was still watching the trailer, I imagined 4 of those cards to be 4 image identities of me, but each card is using a different appreciation associated with a similar image. I believe that some of the confusion some? of the kids may be experiencing as they read certain ideas in this blog is that there is only one image, one identity, associated with many different appreciations. For example, if a person looked at an avatar image that represents me, such as a certain celebrity image, that one celebrity image would be associated with many different types of appreciations, and even though it is my avatar identity that is associated with those many appreciations, for certain appreciations, I don’t even know what those appreciations are! In my opinion, that may explain where some of the confusion is coming from.

I’m going to look for that music video and trailer now.

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It is now 4:27AM EST for me.

The music video that I watched for the 1st time earlier today and recommend for this advice is called ‘Chargie’ by Alesha Dixon. I’ll quote the review first, from link hit-channel.com:

‘ Marking the beginning of a new musical chapter, “Chargie” is a high-spirited anthem about undeniable chemistry and playful attraction between two people. Over breezy percussion and a magnetic groove, Alesha sings with the same vocal confidence that made her a staple of the UK music scene.

The production leans into sun-soaked afrobeat influences, laced with summery melodies and a beat that begs to be danced to. It’s the kind of track that feels tailor-made for warm nights, rooftop parties, or windows-down drives to the beach. ‘

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I found it by selecting in www.youtube.com publisher ‘Hot Music Charts’, select ‘Videos’, then select ‘Top Songs of the Week | July 11, 2025’ published 4 days ago. A video clip starts 2 minutes and 39 seconds into the video clip collection, and is #77 out of 100.

And here is a quote from the lyrics:

Dem see mi pon road like rari
Tek time my chargie
When ya see we get rowdy nah rahtid
My vibe my body my chargie

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In the song and music video, featuring Tom Moutchi.

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To watch the music video, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘alesha chargie’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with 170K views. It was published 1 month ago by publisher ‘Alesha Dixon’.

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If you choose to watch the music video, the music video has more involvement with the stage production and stage production crew. Plus, in my opinion, I found relaxing Alesha Dixon’s body movements to singing the song.

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The tv series trailer that I watched for the 1st time and recommend for this advice is called ‘The Wayfinders | Official Teaser’. Here is a quote from wikipedia.org:

‘ The Wayfinders is a 2025 fantasy adventure television series starring Andrew Liner, Sam Buchanan, Issy Knopfler, and Tamara Smart. the series premiered on Angel Studios on April 28, 2025. ‘

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And here is a quote from link sffgazette.com:

‘ The cast for The Wayfinders boasts a compelling ensemble, including Mackenzie Crook (renowned for his role in Pirates of the Caribbean), Tamara Smart (known for Percy Jackson and the Olympians and Resident Evil), Evan Fields (Hacks, Players), and Vincent Mattis (Teen Wolf: The Movie, The Dirt).

the series follows “a group of American teenagers on a field trip that wander off and find a magical portal to a Dungeons & Dragons kind of world – and they get stuck there! Unfortunately, they do encounter dragons and they do get stuck in some dungeons!”

“So the whole journey is them trying to make their way back home, and they encounter magical creatures and all kinds of exciting things.”

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I found it by searching in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘star trek trailers’, I scrolled down and selected publisher ‘KinoCheck Sci-Fi’ from link ‘STAR TREK: STRANGE NEW WORLDS Season 3 Trailer (2025)’, I then selected ‘Videos’, and scrolled down and selected link ‘NEW UPCOMING SCIENCE-FICTION & FANTASY MOVIES 2025 (Trailers)’ published 1 month ago. The trailer starts 21 minutes and 38 seconds into that trailer collection. I then selected in www.youtube.com the phrase ‘wayfinders’ and selected link ‘The Wayfinders | Official Teaser | Angel’ with 323K views. It was published 2 months ago by publisher ‘Angel’.

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It is now 4:53AM EST for me.

I am going to take a break, and then continue typing. I’ll see you then.

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It is now 5:32AM EST for me.

I am going to explain idea ‘Pace not effective’. To activate the idea, you would contemplationally(in your mind, not outloud) say ‘Pace not effective’. It is a variation of idea ‘Use involve’, meaning ‘Not used, and not involved with’. I’ll explain it in it’s 2 parts, ‘Not effective’, and ‘Pace’. I’ll then combine the 2 parts and explain it’s final form ‘Pace not effective’.

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Not effective:

Idea ‘Not effective’ is an ineffective use of your own strategy that an experienced instigation and/or inadvertency would create. 1st, the illustration reference. That is in movie ‘My Spy: The Eternal City’ starring Chloe Coleman as Sophie, and Taeho K as Collin. I’m just going to give the ‘highlight’ reference, but in relation to advice said, you may watch more of the movie if you want to. The movie is available streaming from Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, that scene starts 32 minutes and 54 seconds into the movie:

Sophie: ‘Don’t be such a kiss-ass. He was terrible. (quote edited)’

Collin: ‘I know, but the best way to sneak past the warden is to be his best friend.’

Sophie: [scoffs] ‘What was he so cheery about?

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Refurbished for advice, but I don’t think it needs much refurbishing, JJ(Dave Bautista) caused Sophie to experience an ineffectiveness of her own strategy via what Collin said to JJ. Sophie has enough experience to cope if it was just her, but since another person is involved, it caused her to experience an ineffectiveness of her own strategy. She blamed Collin for what he said:

Sophie: ‘Don’t be such a kiss-ass. He was terrible. (quote edited)’

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Here’s the basic meaning, how to use idea ‘Not effective’: when you experience an ineffectiveness of your own strategy, contemplationally say ‘Not effective’ to allow yourself to feel something about that ineffectiveness, but don’t use it, don’t get involved with it.

There are 2 popular phrases that I can think of that goes in a similar situation, like ‘Turn the other cheek’ and ‘Be a good sport’, which is why I think that many? instigators know that an innocent person may try to not use an ineffectiveness of their own strategy, so the instigator may try to encourage the innocent person to use an ineffectiveness of their own strategy, for example, to try and resolve it, and to blame the instigator for causing him/her to experience such an ineffectiveness of strategy. In the illustrated example, instead of ‘turning the other cheek’, for example, Sophie is trying to resolve it and she’s using blame in the experience. In that instance, Sophie is not able to feel it somewhat, and not use it, not get involved with it.

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Another reason how an instigator may cause an innocent person to use his/her sense of ineffectiveness of strategy is embarrassment. 24 minutes and 4 seconds into the movie, Collin’s father, David Kim(Ken Jeong), causes Collin to feel embarrassed:

David Kim: ‘Collin! I love you!’

Collin: ‘He’s so embarrassing.’

David Kim: ‘Collin!’

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24 minutes and 14 seconds:

David Kim: ‘Acknowledge me!’

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Of course, I’m not discouraging you from interacting with your own family members. It is a movie filled with actors and actresses portraying characters. Just extrapolate from their example and apply their refurbished example to your chosen experienced instigations and inadvertencies, that is, if you experience any.

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Pace:

I believe I said this several times before in this blog. I quoted a situation that I heard from the high school that I attended, the high school ‘grape vine’, that someone from school, while driving, noticed several attractive women walking on the sidewalk. That experience caused him to lose focus, and he accidentally hit the car in front of him.I don’t know if that actually happened, but in my situation, I have no reason to disbelieve what I would discover from the high school grapevine. Maybe high schools are different now. Anyway, I believe it’s a good example for idea ‘Pace’. For an actual illustrated example, there’s a scene from trailer ‘Memoirs of a Geisha’. To find the trailer, search for phrase ‘memoirs of a geisha’, and select link ‘Memoirs of a Geisha (2005) Official Trailer 1 – Ziyi Zhang Movie’. It has 2.3M views, was published 8 years ago, and it’s publisher is ‘Rotten Tomatoes Classic Trailers’. The scene starts 1 minute and 3 seconds into the trailer:

Mameha(Michelle Yeoh): ‘A true geisha can stop a man in his tracks with a single look.’

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In that scene, Sayuri(Ziyi Zhang) seemingly just looks at a man riding a bicycle, and that man was so distracted by how he evaluated that woman’s look, that he lost some of his focus, causing him to crash into one of the vendors.

Idea ‘Pace’ is short for ‘Pace of acknowledgement’. Knowing instigators the way I imagine I do, an instigator may cause you to commit to an overemphasized sense of pace of acknowledgement as it relates to your chosen sense of pace of acknowledgement. In both examples, the overemphasized sense of pace of acknowledgement committed to caused both people to get into an accident.

Now, with both ideas ‘Pace’ and ‘Not effective’, you may change meaning ‘Not effective’ to be a variation of idea ‘Pace’. An out of context sense of ineffectiveness of one’s own strategy may also be construed as a ‘pace of acknowledgement’ that you choose to not commit yourself to. You may sense something about it, but choose to not use it, to not get involved with it. Contemplationally say ‘Pace not effective’ to check if you are indeed experiencing such an out of context instigation so that you may choose to not use it, to not be involved with it.

All right. To at least try to make idea ‘Pace not effective’ interesting to learn and use, I recommending removing all of the inapproprieities from the movie ‘Fountain of Youth(2025)’ starring John Krasinski as Luke Purdue. In my opinion, if you take out all of the inapproprieities from the movie, I think how Luke Purdue uses his strategy to manage better ‘paces of acknowledgement’ and ‘ineffective strategy’ that he senses to be inspirational. Sure, he’s not Picard(Patrick Stewart) from ‘Star Trek’, but Picard is a Starfleet officer from the future. Both Luke Purdue and his sister, Charlotte Purdue(Natalie Portman), according to the movie, are exceptionally intelligent people, but Luke Purdue chose to use his intelligence, his strategy, among other things, to manage better his sense of pace of acknowledgement and his sense of ineffective use of strategy. Take out/don’t use any of the violence in the movie, and just imagine how Luke Purdue uses his strategy as it relates to idea ‘Pace not effective’. The movie ‘Fountain of Youth’ is available streaming from Apple TV. I don’t know if he realizes it in the movie, but he even talks that way to his own sister!

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It is now 6:37AM EST for me.

I am going to finally close this list now. I will make the next list this coming Monday night(7/21/2025) or this coming Tuesday night, unless I change my mind. So, if you are there, I’ll see you then.

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Anime violence in trailer ‘Virgin Punk: Clockwork Girl’. Fantasy violence for trailer ‘The Wayfinders’. Rated PG-13 mature themes, viewer discretion for movie ‘Memoirs of a Geisha’. Rated PG-13 for violence and action, and some language, viewer discretion for movie ‘Fountain of Youth’. Use only refurbished for advice references recommended. Throw away rest of episode, series, and movie. [Use mental bookmarks ‘Not effective’, ‘Pace’, ‘Pace not effective’, ‘Blame’, ‘Resolve’, and ‘Embarrass’ for reference, allocation, and prevention when needed.

7/9/2025

Salutations.

It is now 2:04AM EST for me.

I just noticed that Wishlist #1507 was published 6/25/2025, and this list was published just today, 7/9/2025. I looked at #1507, and then I remembered that I started late, and chose to continue next week. Here’s a quote from #1507:

It is now 5:23AM EST for me.

‘ Since I am over 9 hours late, I am going to not finish this list. I’ll leave this here, and this coming Monday or Tuesday, around 7:00PM EST, I will continue where I left off. I’ll keep this list instead of deleting it and start over. Sorry for the inconvenience, if there is any. ‘

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I just remembered.

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I am going to recommend something that I already purchased from Amazon.com, originally used on one of my hands, now also used on my nose:

Sarna Calm + Cool Anti-Itch Lotion, Soothe and Relieve Pain and Itch from Insect Bites, Sunburn, & Poison Ivy, Contains 1% Pramoxine Hydrochloride, 0.5% Menthol, Vegan, Steroid-Free, 7.5oz

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It’s only about $7 with Prime shipping available.

I used to have a mild itch from 2 of my fingers from my left hand, but I made the deduction that I wasn’t using bug repellant going back from work. I used bug repellant, especially on my hands, just going to work, not going to where I live. Soon after I used bug repellant both ways, the itch on the 2 fingers of my left hand subsided, and I no longer needed to use the Sarna lotion.

Now, for let’s say a few months or so, my nose would itch a little before I would go to work. I thought it was just allergies. I would take a Benadryl allergy gel capsule, and it would go away. Just a few hours ago, I applied a little Sarna lotion on my nose, and my nose felt great! The itch would be gone, and I would in it’s place instead feel also a pleasant menthol feeling on my nose. It is made to be applied on my skin. Just a few hours ago, I discovered that you can apply it on your nose. So, if your nose feels itchy now and then, I recommend:

Sarna Calm + Cool Anti-Itch Lotion, Soothe and Relieve Pain and Itch from Insect Bites, Sunburn, & Poison Ivy, Contains 1% Pramoxine Hydrochloride, 0.5% Menthol, Vegan, Steroid-Free, 7.5oz

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It’s offered by Amazon.com, and it has an Amazon link available if you choose to consider buying it. To reiterate, I recommend that you apply it on your nose when it feels itchy.

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It is now 2:31AM EST for me.

I am going to look for a music video and trailer for this list. That should take about an hour and a half to find and prepare. So, if you are there when I return, I’ll see you then.

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It is now 3:39AM EST for me.

The music video that I watched for the 1st time earlier today and recommend for this advice is called ‘Wet, Hot American Dream’ by Ava Max. I found it by selecting in www.youtube.com publisher ‘InMusic Official’, select ‘Videos’, then select ‘New Songs Of The Week (July 4, 2025) | New Music Friday’ published 4 days ago. A video clip of ‘Wet, Hot American Dream’ starts 27 seconds into the video clip collection.

Here’s a quote from the lyrics:

Tell me all your dirty secrets (Uh-huh)
All your fantasies (Like me?)
I wanna be your blue jean, white tee, wet, hot American dream
I’m not like other cowgirls (Uh-huh)
Unless you want me to be, uh
I wanna be your blue jean, white tee, wet, hot American dream

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And here is a quote from link www.euphoriazine.com about the music video:

‘ In the accompanying music video, Max spots a pant and bra bearing the same colors as the American flag, as she moves her body to match the rhythm of the synth-heavy track. There are no other hot or sexy bodies in sight throughout the music video. The whole thing is just Max showering herself with a garden hose in some scenes. ‘

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To watch the music video, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘wet hot american dream ava max’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with 836K views. It was published 7 days ago by publisher ‘Ava Max’.

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The movie trailer that I watched for the 1st time recently and recommend for this advice is called ‘Project Hail Mary’. Here is a quote from wikipedia.org about the movie:

‘ Project Hail Mary is an upcoming American science fiction adventure film produced and directed by Phil Lord and Christopher Miller from a screenplay by Drew Goddard, based on the 2021 novel of the same name by Andy Weir. The film stars Ryan Gosling (who is also a producer on the film), Sandra Hüller, and Milana Vayntrub.

Project Hail Mary is scheduled to be released in the United States by Amazon MGM Studios on March 20, 2026.

Premise
Astronaut Ryland Grace awakens on a spacecraft with no memory of himself or his mission. He slowly deduces he is the sole survivor of a crew sent to the Tau Ceti solar system in search of a solution to a catastrophic event on Earth. In his search for answers, Grace must rely on his vast array of scientific knowledge, sheer ingenuity, and human will – but he may not have to search alone. ‘

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I decided to use it using from www.youtube.com publisher ‘KinoCheck.com’, select ‘Videos’, then select ‘THE BEST NEW SCIENCE-FICTION MOVIES 2025 (Trailers)’ published 1 day ago. A trailer for movie ‘Project Hail Mary’ starts 2 seconds into the trailer collection.

To watch the trailer, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘project hail mary trailer’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with 18M views. It was published 8 days ago by publisher ‘Amazon MGM Studios’.

Here is a quote from link www.pajiba.com:

‘ Andy Weir’s follow-up to The Martian, the sci-fi novel Project Hail Mary is a great read (the audiobook, in particular, as read by Ray Porter). I’ll reluctantly admit that the trailer for the film looks even better. Not just because it has Ryan Gosling — although that, too — but because directors Christopher Miller and Phil Lord (the Spider-Verse movies, the 21 Jump Street movies, etc.) and screenwriter Drew Goddard seem to have injected more comedy into it, or at least more comedy than I remember from the book.

The result is a really fun trailer for what looks like a really fun movie that, unfortunately, is nine months away. ‘

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It is now 4:05AM EST for me.

Here is the situation for this idea. It’s an idea that I imagined. I don’t have facts to support it, it’s just an idea that I made up that I believe you may find useful. Here’s how the idea starts: when single men go on dates with women, they only offer women in dating situations certain appreciations that they do not offer women in general. For example, refurbished for advice, just to reference a few episodes, I’m using the series ‘Emily in Paris(2020+)’ starring Lily Collins as Emily Cooper. Here is a quote from www.imdb.com:

‘ A young American woman from the Midwest is hired by a marketing firm in Paris to provide them with an American perspective on things. ‘

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I only watched a few minutes of the series, some of the 1st episode. If memory serves, Emily’s American boss gives her a job offered by a marketing firm in Paris. When she is there, she said that she always wanted to be in Paris, even though she did not learn to speak French. While working for that marketing firm in Paris, she also learns to develop more her appreciations to work in Paris.

If a single man were to date Emily while in this situation, she already has a job fortified appreciation for working in Paris. She’s very convenient for that single man to offer her many appreciation based relationship things, since she already is involved with such things. What this idea is trying to address starts, for example, with a single man who only offers certain appreciation based situations with women he is dating. The idea is for that man to offer certain appreciations generalistically to women, appreciations that he would only give to women he is in dating situations with.

The goal is for a single man to improve his ability to offer women in general appreciations that he would normally offer women he is in dating situations with, even in relationships with. And since such appreciations are generalistically offered, such appreciation based opportunities are done with respectful maturity, meaning no adult/mature based opportunities, such as intimacy between adults. The single man doesn’t have to be in a date with women in general to offer such appreciation based opportunities to them. So, if you want an illustration example, just watch an episode of ‘Emily in Paris’ and take out/don’t use any adult/mature based interactions, such as interactions involving intimacy. There’s still plenty of appreciation based opportunities presented to the main character, Emily Cooper. For example, she is working in her ‘dream job’, she’s always wearing a new dress, learning more about the culture and beliefs of those that live in Paris, and more opportunities that her job is fortifying and offering her to use.

In my opinion, in the beginning using this idea, it may be like a shaken snow globe.(For images of a ‘snow globe’, search in www.google.com for phrase ‘snow globe’, and select ‘Images’.) The snow represents a lot of restrictions, plus taking into account culture, beliefs, and circumstance. Still, in my opinion, it’s an improvement compared to single men offering certain appreciation opportunities to just women they date and are in relationships with.

I invented the beginnings of this idea while watching the music video ‘Hungry Eyes’ by Eric Carmen. Here’s a quote from the link ‘Dirty Dancing’ from category ‘Music’ from wikipedia.org:

‘ “Hungry Eyes,” performed by Eric Carmen, composed by Franke Previte and John deNicola; this song peaked at No. 4 in 1988. ‘

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So, in America, it’s a popular song in 1988, and I’m assuming a popular music video to watch as well.

To watch the music video, search in www.youtube for phrase ‘hungry eyes’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with 309M views! It was published 11 years ago by publisher ‘Eric Carmen’. I used the music video for this idea 21 seconds into the music video. I removed the beginning scenes of the music video, and started using the music video 21 seconds into it, soon before Eric Carmen started to sing in the music video.

Starting 3 minutes and 3 seconds into the music video, I imagined a single woman looking at a man in a dating situation and/or possible relationship situation with a woman sitting down, and she wants what the woman sees in that man, as it relates to dating and relationship accommodations. I imagined that many women won’t re-create customized appreciations only, that they will also want exactly what they see certain women are having from certain men, how they see the men they are dating and/or are in relationships with.

So, to recap, a single woman sees 2 people sitting down (in that music video) for example, and she wants what the other woman sees in the man she is currently dating.

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And here is a quote from the lyrics to song ‘Hungry Eyes’:

Hungry eyes
One look at you and I can’t disguise, I’ve got
Hungry eyes
I feel the magic between you and I

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Now, here’s a copy of a story I made in Wishlist #1425, published 1/08/2024:

‘ All right. Here is the ‘sloppy’, shorter explanation: Brad Pitt(using his actual name, but still an imagined character portrayal) is somehow in a situation where he is being assisted by The Doctor portrayed by Ncuti Gatwa. After the events from ‘The Giggle’ episode, he didn’t just meet Ruby Sunday(Millie Gibson), his next assistant?. Refurbished for advice, he did other things before eventually meeting with her. And one of those things was meeting and choosing to help his new friend Brad Pitt, a businessman for a big? company. Brad Pitt is in management. In this company with many employees, at least most of the men are married, and the rest are currently in relationships. Many of the women that work in this company are single, and find it frustrating that, in their situation, practically all of the men working for their company are already in relationships. Sure, during company social events that involve dancing, the men eagerly ask for them to dance with them, but all of those men are already in relationships. When Brad Pitt interacts with the women, he eventually gets a reaction based on the extrapolated statement that Geordi La Forge(LeVar Burton) said to Jack Crusher(Ed Speleers) in episode 3.6 ‘The Bounty) from sci-fi tv series ‘Star Trek: Picard(2023)’. The episode is available streaming from Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, that scene starts 37 minutes and 56 seconds into the episode. Here is the quote:

Ensign Sidney La Forge(Ashlei Sharpe Chestnut): ‘I don’t know how to stop the chain reaction.’

Geordi La Forge: ‘But I do.’

Geordi La Forge: (talking to Jack Crusher(Ed Speleers) ‘And you– stay away from my daughter.’

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What Brad Pitt wants is to be able to interact with the women more professionally, to not act upon their expressions of infatuation and enthusiasm, causing him to agree to be in casual relationships with them. Brad Pitt is like the character Alex Cole(Tommy Dewey) in the tv series ‘Casual(2015-2018)’, being in a lot of casual relationships with the single women where he works, but he doesn’t want to be that man. He wants to have more professional relationships with the women, like all of the other men in management are clearly capable of doing, even though almost all of those men are married. And that is what The Doctor is trying to do for him, but he is not using obvious powers to make that work. What he did was arrange for Brad Pitt to have a temporary transfer to another location in the company. He talked to their management, and they agreed to the transfer. The Doctor also talked to Brad Pitt. He gave him a typed objective for Brad Pitt to follow, already identifying the goals that Brad Pitt had verbally indicated to The Doctor. All of these events happened within 1 week. Soon after that, Brad Pitt starts working in another division of the company with a managerial position. Fast forward a little, and you see one of the women presenting a very recognizable expression of infatuation to him, and then the tv show/movie camera zooms in on Brad Pitt’s face as he says the words ‘No.’

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The point of that ‘Brad Pitt’ story is that that moment when Brad Pitt said ‘No.’ to himself, that is the beginning. Before, he didn’t have a typed plan to follow. He doesn’t realize it during that moment, but he is experiencing a significant improvement in being like his colleagues in management. He just doesn’t recognize it yet because of the ‘effort of resolve’ he is experiencing as that woman he was working with is expressing an obvious infatuation for him.

Another reason he has such a problem, not just for choosing to be single, is because the men that know him in the company admire his situation, even though Brad Pitt doesn’t see it like they do. And it’s not just the fact that, according to wikipedia.org, he has certain attributes that woman may find appealing. If you were in management in general, from the perspectives of non-managerial employees, more specifically women non-managerial employees, men in management are all over the place normally. Even though it’s their job, from the woman’s perspective, they can be very accommodating. So, if their jobs have nothing against workplace relationships, that explains why all of the men in management are already married. And if they started working as single men, it won’t take long for them to meet a single woman in the workplace and very sincerely choose to be in a relationship with them, leading to marriage, but that occurs in the very beginnings of their careers. Someone from management would have to choose to stay single in order to have the ‘problem’ that Brad Pitt has. ‘

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Brad Pitt is turning his life around. Refurbishing what I said, he now wants to reasonably give appreciations to women in general that he would normally just give to women he is dating and/or in relationships with. Recently, I imagined him having a ‘business dinner’ with a woman employee that he is not attracted to for dating and relationship purposes, based on his preferences. They both agreed to it, and as part of their conversation, he even added to his explanation to her, that it is a relevant business dinner that they are both having.

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And now, ‘the main course’, the reason why I call this an ‘activity idea’. It involves watching the music video ‘Despacito’. Here is a quote from wikipedia.org:

‘ “Despacito” has been widely credited by music journalists as being instrumental in the renewed popularity of Spanish-language pop music in the mainstream market. ‘

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To be blunt and intentionally lacking, it’s a very catchy music video to watch for this ‘appreciation’ idea. If you choose to, here’s how to watch it: This is how I originally created watching the music video ‘Despacito’ for me to watch: Since I am a single man looking for a relationship, when I watch the music video ‘Despacito’, I do it with the intent to give Hispanic women in general, using the ‘snow globe’, certain generalistic appreciations, instead of just giving such appreciation opportunities to women I would be in relationships with or dating situations with. As I am watching the music video ‘Despacito’ using the tv app and wearing headphones connected to the tv, I would feel/sense those appreciations spreading to those Hispanic women.

In the beginning, I would maybe watch the music video ‘Despacito’ once a day using this idea, but after a while, I would watch the music video maybe once a week. Recently, what may also happen as I am watching the music video ‘Despacito’, is that I would be in the process of making certain ideas. As I would make these ideas while watching the music video ‘Despacito’, I would avoid watching the end of the movie.

Here is an example of how I would watch the music video ‘Despacito’, and during that watch, I would be in the process of making a certain idea or ideas:

1st, since I don’t speak fluent Spanish, I’m using the Spanish lyrics without knowing what it’s English translation is.

Here’s a quote from the lyrics:

Des-pa-cito
Quiero respirar tu cuello despacito
Deja que te diga cosas al oído
Para que te acuerdes si no estás conmigo
Des-pa-cito
Quiero desnudarte a besos despacito
Firmo en las paredes de tu laberinto
Y hacer de tu cuerpo todo un manuscrito

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To find the music video, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘despacito’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with 8.7B views! It was published 8 years ago by publisher ‘Luis Fonsi’.

I would start watching the music video about 41 seconds into the music video, when Luis Fonsi would sing quote:

Si, sabes que ya llevo un rato mirándote
Tengo que bailar contigo hoy

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From that moment on, allow the music video to help you give more appreciations to Hispanic women in general. Since the music video is in Spanish, I figured to go with it’s original strength and purpose. You can always extrapolate from the experience later.

Avoid watching to the end of the music video, when the lyrics stop. That’s 4 minutes and 8 seconds into the music video. That may take some practice, since you may be focusing more on making the idea or ideas that you are making while you are watching and listening to the music ‘Despacito’, causing you to watch the end of the music video, since you were in the process of making an idea or ideas.

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It is now 5:38AM EST for me.

I am going to close this list now. This coming Monday night or Tuesday night, around 7:00PM EST, I will type in another list, finally addressing the ‘strategy ideas’, unless I change my mind. So, if you are there, I’ll see you then.

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