5/22/2021
Good morning.
(said as a greeting, not to denote time of day.)
It is now 9:27 AM EST for me.
If you have your own blog, and/or in case you want to know, I just recently had to change my PHP version in order to log into this blog. Since it’s been a while, I also had to change my Ipage password. When I logged in, it informed me that I was using an older PHP version, and it allowed me to select the most recent PHP version, and that allowed me to log into this blog again. If you have your own blog, and if you haven’t done so, you may want to log into you Ipage, or whatever it is that you are using, and upgrade your PHP version. Otherwise, one day, you may not be able to log into your blog account, and you may have to go through upgrade it anyway. If you do it before you need to do it, you get to avoid the uncertainty and hassle involved in changing it, as you are not able to log into your blog. Just some friendly advice. If changing your PHP version creates a glitch, just change it back, or chat with your web host about it. You may need to eventually upgrade your blog and PHP anyway. Your web host(Ipage, etc.) should be able to do all of that.
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All right! The music video that I watched earlier today for the 1st time is called ‘Canción Bonita’, a Spanish singing music video by Carlos Vives and Ricky Martin. I found it by scrolling down more than half way through my ‘signed in’ youtube home page. Here is a quote from www.wikipedia.org about the lyrics and music video:
‘ Lyrically, “Canción Bonita” which translates to “Pretty Song” in English,[3] is a declaration of love for Puerto Rico, and is a true celebration of the island as a love letter to the country.[8][17] The track is described as “happy” and a “party song”.[3] The single mixes the desire to start over with the summer, and becomes synonymous with dance. It also emphasizes the desire to travel to exotic and colorful places, and Puerto Rico is the preferred destination of this trip… ‘
‘ Beach and palm tree scenes in the video make the audience feel the rhythm of summer.[57] MTV News praised “bright colors, contagious energy and positive vibes” that emerge from the video. ‘
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Since it’s sung in Spanish, here’s an English quote from google:
And if I have to forget
youYou know that it won’t happen
And if I see you again
I stay, I stay, I stay, I stay, I stay with you
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When I watched it, because of the nice weather, it helps remind me that summer is here. Kids are also in the music video enjoying the nice summer day. And of course, Ricky Martin and Carlos Vives are dancing and singing their expressions of joy that it is summer again.
To watch music video ‘Canción Bonita’ for free, just search for phrase ‘Canción Bonita’ in www.youtube.com, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with over 26 million views! It was published April 13, 2021, over a month ago.
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The tv show trailer that I watched for the 1st time earlier today is called ‘The Good Fight | Season 5 Teaser’, and I found that from publisher ‘Paramount Plus’. Just go to www.youtube.com, search for publisher ‘paramount plus’, click that, then click ‘VIDEOS’ from the top of that screen. It was published May 17, 2021, 4+ days ago. The video clip is only 16 seconds long, so here is also the description that it came with:
‘ In the fifth season, Diane (Christine Baranski) is forced to question whether it’s appropriate for her to help run an African American law firm with Liz (Audra McDonald) when the firm loses two top lawyers. Meanwhile, Marissa (Sarah Steele) and the firm become entangled with Hal Wackner (Mandy Patinkin), a regular Chicagoan who decides to open his own courtroom in the back of a copy shop. ‘
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All right. To spice it up a little more, I believe that Americans in general have the ability to help others. It’s just that resources and experience inhibit our actions to do so. For example, here is a quote from that ‘Good Fight’ description:
‘ Meanwhile, Marissa (Sarah Steele) and the firm become entangled with Hal Wackner (Mandy Patinkin), a regular Chicagoan who decides to open his own courtroom in the back of a copy shop. ‘
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It is my belief that law firms in general have more resources and experience to address ‘quirky’ situations like that, more than the average American citizen has. So, just to make the point, I ask myself the question ‘In a reasonable context, I want to help.(the case involving that Chicagoan who opened his own courtroom.) But how can I?’ That’s one of the reasons law shows like ‘The Good Fight’ is entertaining to watch. It allows us to imagine how those with more resourcefulness and experience end up helping others. Personally, I only watched some of the episodes of ‘The Good Fight’. I did, however, watch all of the episodes of ‘The Good Wife’ starring Julianna Marguiles.
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Before I begin with the new ideas, if you haven’t done so already, I highly recommend that you read the 3 previous ideas 1st, ‘Stop solving!'(Wishlist #1272), ‘Sour face'(Wishlist #1273)’, and ‘Jump-in point'(Wishlist #1274)’. If you don’t, you don’t. It’s possible that many new readers will just start with the most recent post. I recommend that you do, so that you may get more usefulness out of the new ideas that I am about to type in.
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So, this is the ‘study plan’, what I plan to explain today. The 1st bookmark I will explain is called ‘Define blame’, the 2nd is ‘Tolerate’, and then the main idea, which is called ‘Notice reciprocate’, which is the impression of idea that I am currently using.
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Define blame:
I think that, while I was explaining those 3 ideas, ‘Stop solving!’, ‘Sour face’, and ‘Jump-in point’, I invented an experience that an instigator may adversely impose upon an innocent person to experience. Here’s an imagined situation to help explain it: Imagine if you will an innocent person while at his/her job regularly experiencing instigation from his/her fellow co-workers. Now, if this continued abuse happens consistently for several years or more, management will very likely be aware of it. It looks terrible! So, what an instigator may do to make it look less terrible is to cause that innocent person to unavoidably experience an adverse, defining sense of blame. The idea behind such an experience is that the innocent person will have a very predictable use of such a blame. Now, since it’s possible that, since this is a public blog, that kids may be reading this blog, and since I just recently typed in, in my opinion, 3 very influential ideas, I chose to take into consideration more the type of illustrations to use for idea ‘Define blame’. In other words, it’s possible that the kids who are reading this blog will think many times whatever those 3 illustrations are that I will recommend for idea ‘Define blame’. And so, I will try to give those kids 3 illustrations that will work in their favor. So, here’s the plan: the 1st illustration will be ‘on the nose’, but the 2nd and 3rd illustrations will help those kids ‘taper off’ of such an experience, an experience that idea ‘Define blame’ will help them cope with, when they choose to use the idea.
The purpose of idea ‘Define blame’ is to help you be more objective when experiencing the instigation it helps you identify. Let’s imagine a person experiencing such an instigation. I’ll provide a movie illustration later. Now, let’s associate that reaction with a 10×10 grid. To know what that looks like, just search for phrase ’10×10 grid’ in www.google.com, and images of a 10×10 grid will be shown to you. Now add to that grid let’s say 20 red X’s scattered in the locations of that grid. Those red X’s represent how such an instigation is adversely affecting certain aspects of your perspective as you experience such an instigation. What idea ‘Define blame’ is trying to do for you is to remove some of those red X’s, in a way that is conducive to having a healthy, reasonable sense of perspective as it relates to instigation. Let’s choose a random number, let’s say just removing 5 of those 20 X’s will significantly give more clarity to your chosen positive perspective as it relates to experiencing such an instigation.
So, let’s start with that explanation again. If an instigator causes you to experience an instigation identified by idea ‘Define blame’, an adverse sense of defining blame will feel like it’s coming from you. So, the question is: ‘How are you going to react to it?’ The 1st possible reaction that I am addressing is that, because the instigator doesn’t want you to just look terrible from all of those experiences with instigations while you are at work, that instigator might use irony. That instigator might cause you to react in a way that may partially justify an instigator’s abusive instigations. And so, the 1st part of the solution is that you are now more objective when experiencing such an instigation. The 2nd part is to be able to experience it somewhat, but to not become it, so to speak, to remove some of those red X’s.
And that brings us to the 1st illustration: there are probably a lot of tv show and movie examples that can qualify for idea ‘Define blame’, but because of this circumstance, and the fact that I don’t work for the entertainment industry, I can only go by what I know, I chose a scene that is refurbished for this advice. Since that scene is from a drama movie, they’re all actors portraying characters. I’m recommending that you use the reaction from that person as an indicator for idea ‘Define blame’, as if that reaction is your reaction. Don’t use that reaction from the movie, use it as if it’s your possible reaction, and/or a reaction that helps you identify an adverse, defining sense of blame. That scene is from the movie ‘Finding Forrester(2000)’, the reaction that actor Matthew Noah Word(John Hartwell) before he collaborated with another basketball player to cause Jamal Wallace(Rob Brown) to fall to the ground during a game of basketball. Since it happened during a basketball game used for training, there’s a lot of activity you can refurbish use, and as a bonus, soon after that scene, Claire Spence(Anna Paquin) explains to Jamal why John Hartwell caused Jamal to fall. The movie is available streaming from Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, that scene starts 40 minutes into the movie. Here is the quote:
Claire Spence: ‘John Hartwell’s just a rich kid who wants as much of the spotlight as he can get his senior year. That’s all it is.’
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Even though you’re just recommended to use John Hartwell’s reaction, you can still be aware of other details from the movie. That reaction occurred after 39 minutes and 39 seconds into the movie, after Jamal said to Hartwell quote:
Jamal: ‘Ooh. Ooh.’
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After Jamal said that, John Hartwell’s eyelids opened wider, and he looked kind of angry. So, instead of Jamal causing him to look that way, imagine an instigation you experienced identified by idea ‘Define blame’ is causing John Hartwell to react that way. It doesn’t have to be accurate. You’re just using that comparison to help you more objectively evaluate such an instigation.
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The 2nd illustration is watching and using a music video called ‘Someone’ by Anna of the North. To watch it for free, search in www.youtube.com for the phrase ‘anna of the north someone’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with over 900 thousand views. It was published July 19, 2017. You can use this music video as a refurbished illustration that is used to help people relate to teenage girls no longer participating in a relationship. ‘No longer participating’ can refer to high school and job related relationships often referred to as ‘break-ups’ in my opinion, and there are also supposedly relationships that are intended to end amicably, the ones that say ‘We can still be friends’, but the teenage girl is still acclimating to the ending of that relationship. It can refer to that as well. The purpose of watching music video ‘Someone’ is to refurbish the premise that I just typed in, and instead use it to help you to ‘calm down’ from instigations identified by idea ‘Define blame’. In my opinion, the music video watched in such a way may help you relate to teenage girls and women who are going through a relationship change. Also, if you choose to watch music video ‘Someone’, the ambiance of that music video in my opinion also helps you relax, in spite of it’s associated relationship impression.
And here’s a quote to the lyrics to the song ‘Someone’:
I’m only human, baby
Sometimes I act a little crazy
I’m only human, baby
Need someone to come and save me
(Someone)
(Someone)
(To come and save me)
(Someone)
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The 3rd example is to allow yourself, if you choose to, and selectively for idea ‘Define blame’, don’t use everything this character has done, just the stuff that this advice allows, to allow yourself to vicariously experience this character’s life, but not as that character, but sort of just the ambiance of certain aspects of that character’s life, like you are with one of your friends on a field trip. That character is called Dr. Mary Malone(Simone Kirby), and that character is only based on season 2 of sci-fi tv series ‘His Dark Materials’, starting with episode 2.2 ‘The Cave(2020)’. I can’t endorse season 3, since I haven’t seen it yet. Here is a quick quote from wikipedia.org about her:
‘ Dr Mary Malone is a physicist from Will‘s world investigating dark matter, which is equated with Dust, and is a point of view protagonist in The Subtle Knife and The Amber Spyglass. She is a former nun, and in the witches’ prophecy involving Lyra, she plays the part of the serpent to Lyra’s Eve. ‘
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And here is an illustration quote from episode 2.2 ‘The Cave’. The episode is available streaming from Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, that scene starts 29 minutes and 18 seconds into the episode. You can watch more of her in season 2 if you want to. I’m just giving you the ‘gist’ quote:
Lyra Silvertongue(Dafne Keen): ‘Ask me something I’d never be able to know.
Dr. Mary Malone: ‘Oh, gosh. Um… Okay. Tell me what I did before I became a scientist.’
Lyra: ‘You were a nun. But you stopped believing and you left. They’d never let you do that in my world.’
Dr. Mary Malone: ‘What? How did you do that?’
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If you attended Catholic school in America, or you are in Catholic school, then vicariously experiencing in a refurbished associated context Dr. Mary Malone’s life, in my opinion, can be very relaxing for you. I read somewhere that the Catholic religion is the biggest practiced religion in America. I don’t know if that’s true now, but that’s a lot of people regardless. A lot of readers, in my opinion, should feel relaxed when thinking of fictitious character Dr. Mary Malone in such a context. Let’s say she went on a cruise vacation once. Imagine going there with her, relaxing outside on that big cruise ship somewhere, asking one of the employees for another one of those non alcohol slush/ice drinks. And for other situations, just enjoy the calm ambiance for those selected situations, in relation to advice, of course.
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Tolerate:
I’m offering 2 illustrations for idea ‘Tolerate’. The 1st illustration is from the movie ‘Bridget Jones Baby(2016)’, Mark Darcy’s(Colin Firth) closing argument in court, as well as his client’s outburst, and in episode 3.3 ‘Ashes and Demons’ from sci-fi tv series ‘American Gods(2021)’, the conversation between chief of police Chad Mulligan(Eric Johnson) and Shadow Moon(Ricky Whittle). So, here’s the quote from movie ‘Bridget Jones Baby’. The movie is available streaming from Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, that scene starts 53 minutes and 51 seconds into the movie:
Mark Darcy: ‘…any country, any ruler, any despot, that here, in the United Kingdom, we will always defend and protect women such as these who have selflessly and courageously risked their liberty and quite possibly their lives… to tell the truth.’
Lady: ‘The court will now adjourn, and judgment will be given in due course.’
Mark Darcy’s clients: ‘Poonani! Poonani! Power to the Poonani!’
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So, the reason that ‘Poonani’ scene from the movie ‘Bridget Jones Baby’ is used for idea ‘Tolerate’ in this list is because of my interpretation that Mark Darcy chose to be their clients. Mark Darcy knew that those women would present several outburst involving ‘Poonani'(whatever that means). However, even though those women would most definitely do that, Mark Darcy still chose to defend them. Now, that’s tolerance! Of course, he advised them that, if they chose to have such an outburst during most sessions of the courtroom, they would most assuredly lose the case. And so, he indicated to them when they can have their ‘Poonani’ declarations without the result causing them to lose in court. I’m assuming something like that happened, in a comedy drama romance movie context of course.
Now, with the ‘Ashes and Demons’ episode, it’s available streaming from Amazon.com, but you would need a ‘Starz’ subscription via Amazon.com. Just use it for one month, and then cancel. For example, you can renew/start it, and as soon as you do that, you can then cancel it before you even watch the episode. Select option ‘Turn off auto-renew and watch until…’ , and that will allow you to have ‘Starz’ for just one month. So, you are paying about 9 dollars to watch one episode for up to one month. ‘Starz’ has other stuff if you want to look for that, but this is the way I recommend you do it to watch that ‘Ashes and Demons’ episode streaming from Amazon.com for just one month, to avoid extra monthly charges.
The quote for that ‘Ashes and Demons’ scene from Amazon.com starts 16 minutes and 48 seconds into that episode:
Chad Mulligan: ‘You know, uh… I’ve been looking for, uh, an opportunity to talk to you about the… the other day down at the station. Uh… I hope you understand, I’m just doing my job with… and you being the new guy in town, and you know, what with me being, um, a cop who… happens to be Caucasian, and so forth and… You know, just the optics of you being, um, you know, somebody, uh… somebody who’s African American. I just don’t want you to get the-the- wrong, uh, idea, uh… (sighing) Uh… Lakeside isn’t that kind of place. (sighing) ‘
Shadow Moon: ‘Lakeside’s still in America, right?’
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According to www.imdb.com, that episode aired Jan 24, 2021. People all over America experienced being quarantined last year, and even now, I think, restaurants are operating at 50% capacity, in order to honor social distancing. We’re all wearing masks, and according to certain social media from smart phones, people are getting fired for things that they typed in the internet over several years ago. In a tv show context, I believe that is where chief of police Chad Mulligan is coming from. He is experiencing a certain difficulty of tolerance in order to watch what he is saying, given the current situation America is in.
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It is now 2:35 PM EST for me. I am going to stop explaining now, and I will explain idea ‘Notice reciprocate’ next Saturday. I guess I could keep typing and give you a partial explanation for idea ‘Notice reciprocate’, but I would rather give you the entire idea next week instead, unless of course I change my mind again and give you another idea. However, I don’t think that will happen, since I want to finish this list. So, if you are there next Saturday, I’ll see you then.
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5/29/2021
A & E.
(said as a greeting. It is not used to present yourself to be a doctor. It’s meant to give you an example of a calm response, a calm answer, in case a person interacts with you with a certain anxiousness and eagerness. So, if a person interacts with you with a certain anxiousness and eagerness, you may imagine saying to that person the words ‘A & E’. That represents you giving that person a calm response. That scene is from episode 2.4 ‘A Discovery of Witches(2021)’, when Marcus Whitmore(Edward Bluemel) is talking to Phoebe Taylor(Adelle Leonce). The episode is available streaming from Amazon.com, and according to Amazon Video, that scene starts 25 minutes and 20 seconds into the episode. Here is a quote:
Phoebe: ‘Are you really a doctor?’
Marcus: (shakes his head up and down) ‘A & E’.
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When I used that streaming episode today, Amazon did not offer the episode for purchase. Instead, it offered 3 services to choose from. For 2 of those services, you can just subscribe for just one month. You can do that now, so that you don’t forget. For the 3rd service, it offers a free trial. If you just want to see that episode, subscribe to that, and cancel right now, indicating that you just want the free trial. After all, you may just want to see that episode, and nothing else. I don’t mind purchasing that episode, but Amazon is not offering that option yet.
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It is now 9:12 AM EST for me. The music video that I’m recommending for this idea that I watched for the 1st time earlier today is called ‘Mirror’ by Sigrid. I found it rather quickly from my youtube.com ‘signed in’ homepage. Since I didn’t find anything in wikipedia about it, I searched google, and found a review from readdork.com about it. Here is a quote:
“Mirror is a song about accepting your personality in all its flaws,” she explains. “It’s probably a song that would have found its way to me no matter what, as this is a theme I can never quite shake off, but I think this past year of utter silence has made things even clearer. You have to trust your gut, and ultimately, what you see in the mirror.”
Of the video, she adds: “We wanted to explore how conflicting it can feel to have different sides of yourself competing against each other, and not working together. And as I can’t stand still whilst singing, there’s a lot of dancing, running, driving – you can tell I had a great time on the shoot.”
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And here is a quote from the lyrics to song ‘Mirror’:
There was an emptiness
I think you met me at a strange time and you anchored me
I felt anonymous
And you were someone who reminded me who I used to be
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To watch music video ‘Mirror’ for free, search in www.youtube.com for phrase ‘sigrid mirror’, and it should be one of the 1st selections offered, with almost 2 million views as of now. It premiered May 26, 2021, over 2 days ago.
There are entertaining visuals in the music video, several visuals involve Sigrid using mirrors. There’s a lot of dancing from Sigrid. Watching the music video I believe would be entertaining for kids and teenagers to watch, even if they just watch it once.
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Now, the trailer I found from the ‘Mirrors’ website. It was the 1st commercial shown before you’re able to watch the music video ‘Mirrors’. I tried finding that commercial again by watching the beginning of ‘Mirrors’ again, but another commercial showed up, so what I did was refresh that screen until the commercial I was looking for showed up again. That commercial is called ‘Prada- Luna Ross Carbon’. It’s not the full commercial, so I searched in youtube for phrase ‘prada carbon commercial’, and I selected it’s 45 second commercial from publisher ‘The Fragrance Shop’. If you choose to watch it, it’s a cologne commercial, but in my opinion it sells part of it’s identity as being from carbon. It even shows you the periodic table and emphasized the chemical element ‘Carbon’ from it.(Did any of you memorize the periodic table? Just curious.) I watched it for the 1st time earlier today, and it is my belief that the girls reading this blog may enjoy watching it’s special effects. I’d like to believe that, as you watch it, it’s effects are conducive to reading this advice. And of course, you’re just watching the commercial for this advice.
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All right. It’s now 10:11 AM EST for me. Before I begin, I’m going to try to prepare you for it by giving you a reason to participate when you choose to, in spite of obvious disappointment associations. So, here’s the story: Character Diane Lockhart(Christine Baranski) from tv series ‘The Good Wife’ and ‘The Good Fight’, not as a lawyer, but just as a company employee, is explaining to me how she hates a certain company that is one of her company competitors. She quickly explains her personal disappointments concerning that company.(Her complaining is supposed to represent your personal disappointments for certain things.) Soon after that conversation, Diane was informed that that company she so personally hates is having a party, a party that is open to the employees of it’s competitors, and Diane wants to be in that party. To illustrate one example, imagine actor Terry O’Quinn(he was in a ‘Star Trek: The Next Generation episode, and a recent ‘Resident Alien’ episode. He is in www.imdb.com and www.wikipedia.org.), imagine him as someone from the party greeting Diane and trying to ingratiate her with conversations about business opportunities. Diane likes that sort of ambiance. So, if Diane is going to attend that party, it’s implied courtesy that she knows something about that company, something that she should be informed about, even though she personally hates that company, in order to attend that party.
So, you see in that story a person that is attending a party from a company that she personally hates.
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The reason I gave you that ‘Disappointment’ story is because I’m encouraging you to use the movie ‘The Bourne Legacy(2012)’ for illustrations for the idea I am about to explain. I just want to use that one movie for illustrations, specifically from character Col Eric Byer(Edward Norton). Practically everything coming out of that man’s mouth, so to speak, is an illustration reference. The possible problem is that the movie ‘The Bourne Legacy’ is so ‘on the nose’ obvious in the context that there are so many illustration examples for this idea, that you may be ‘put off’ by it. It’s too obvious, too apparent. So, to help you use it anyway, maybe that ‘Diane Lockhart/Disappointment’ story may help you use it. After I explain the idea, I may use specific illustrations from the movie ‘The Bourne Legacy’. The movie is available streaming from Amazon.com.
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Notice:
This particular variation of idea ‘Notice’ I invented I think this past Tuesday, 5/25/2021. Let’s use movie ‘The Nutcracker and the Four Realms(2018)’ to start this explanation. The movie is available streaming from Amazon.com, and the scene being used is when Clara(Mackenzie Foy) looks at herself in the mirror. That scene starts 1 hour, 5 minutes, and 23 seconds into the movie. Here is a quote from www.wikipedia.org about that scene:
‘ She imprisons Clara, Captain Philip, and the male regents. ‘
‘ Clara opens her egg-shaped music box again and discovers a mirror, illustrating that all she needed was herself. ‘
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So, the point in relation to this advice is that Clara was discouraged from using a sense of noticing that she was entitled to use. Clara was even placed in a jail cell to further discourage her from using that entitled sense of noticing, which in her case, was to have the authority to rule that kingdom. Looking at that mirror reminded her that she was entitled to her chosen sense of noticing, even though others were not reciprocating her entitled sense of noticing. ‘All she needed was herself’, so to speak.
The intent of idea ‘Notice’ is to help you keep the integrity of the sense of noticing that you may be entitled to have, for example, it’s part of your job to have such a sense of noticing, even though the experienced instigation is discouraging you from reasonably acknowledging it, like what Clara was going through in the movie ‘The Nutcracker and the Four Realms’. For example, certain instigations would encourage you to commit to an adverse sense of noticing that may disparage/demean/belittle/wane your chosen sense of noticing, you may then contemplationally say ‘Notice’ so that you can choose to not use that sense of noticing, and then just maintain the integrity of noticing that you are entitled to have.
All right. Let me try to explain what the instigation is doing. Let’s say you worked for the same job for a few years or more, and you may have experienced instigations from time to time by certain employees from that job.(Of course, if you were never instigated, then of course this is just an example to help you understand the advice). So that means you probably have a strong sense as to what your sense of noticings are as you are ‘in the job’ so to speak. So, what the instigator may do to deconstruct that strong sense of noticing is to draw a foul upon himself/herself, something for you to evaluate, something for example for you to blame, while the real target is not the instigator’s blame, but your own sense of chosen noticings. For example, those past instigations you experienced, aren’t they kind of obvious? Maybe too obvious? Recall one of those minor instigations, and instead of paying attention to that obvious faux pas, choose instead to sense your chosen entitled sense to notice, and use that, not that sense to notice that the instigation is encouraging you to commit to, and that’s often a sense to notice that is being waned/disparaged/deconstructed upon. Choose to use your entitled sense to notice, and choose to not use that sense to notice that the instigation is encouraging you to use.
The reason you may not have been able to do this so obviously before is because of the nature of the instigation, that the instigator wants you to instead treat the blame, the adverse attention, that such an instigation encourages for you to create. It’s classic misdirection, in my opinion. You’re looking at one thing, when in reality the target/victim/goal is something else, in this case, that ‘something else’ is your own sense of entitled noticing.
The reason I chose Col Eric Byer’s(Edward Norton) actions in the action/thriller movie ‘The Bourne Legacy(2012)’ is because the people he’s talking to are always accepting his sense of noticing identity. Of course, Aaron Cross(Jeremy Renner) and Dr. Marta Shearing(Rachel Weisz) are going against it because they don’t want to be caught by him. It’s the best one movie example for idea ‘Notice’ because of the many examples it has for idea ‘Notice’. So let me quote and comment on a few of them. And of course, if you are going to use the movie, the entire movie is refurbished with inapproprieities removed for this advice, and to be clear, it’s just a movie. They’re all actors. It’s not real. I recommend that you just watch all of the scenes when Col Eric Byer(Edward Norton) is talking. I’m not going to quote all of those scenes, maybe just 3 of those scenes, but you may use all of them refurbished with inapproprieities removed.
25 minutes and 24 seconds into the movie, a conversation between Lt. Gen. Paulsen(John Douglas Thompson) and retired Col. Eric Byer(Edward Norton):
Lt. Gen. Paulson: ‘The intelligence loss, if we stop now, it couldn’t be quantified.’
Col. Eric Byer: ‘Yes, actually, it could. You’d be right back to where you were before we delivered the program.’
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I changed my mind. I’m just using 2 quotes. 1 hour, 41 minutes, and 40 seconds into the movie:
Retired Adm. Mark Turso(Stacy Keach): ‘This went from something I don’t know about to something on the drawing board, and now you’re telling me it’s up and running?’
Col. Eric Byer: ‘It’s up and running. Consider yourself informed.’
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Accuse expect fix notice:
All right. It is now 11:57 AM EST for me. I am going to introduce to you 3 more ideas to add to idea ‘Notice’, so that you may more contemplationally use it. I made idea ‘Accuse expect fix notice’ while I was at the laundromat yesterday, this past Friday, 5/28/2021. It is called ‘Accuse expect fix notice’, meaning ‘An accusing sense of expecting to fix a sense of noticing’. You may contemplationally say the words ‘Accuse expect’.
Accuse fix:
After that, you may contemplationally say ‘Accuse fix’, which means ‘An accusing sense of fixing for the sense of noticing that is bothering you’. I am assuming you read the recent ideas ‘Stop solving!’, ‘Sour face’, and ‘Jump-in point’. If you did, you are using idea ‘Stop solving!’ for idea ‘Accuse fix’. Basically, the instigator may want you to sense an adverse sense of noticing. Before this idea, you may try to resolve/dismiss it. Now, with idea ‘Accuse fix’, you may identify such a feeling as a feeling that is accusing you of fixing that sense of noticing. When you contemplationally say ‘Accuse fix’, you sense that adverse feeling, but you are choosing to not use that sense of feeling as it relates to your chosen entitled sense of noticing. Of course, you may try to recover from that adverse sense of feeling, but you are also choosing to ‘not solve’ and not use that feeling. Well anyway, if you don’t understand that to a certain expectation, in my opinion, it’s good to get it out there, that way you have something to improve upon.
So remember, when you contemplationally say ‘Accuse fix’, for example, you are choosing to not use that adverse sense of noticing in order to just use your entitled sense of noticing. It’s like saying ‘Here, not there’ many times for contemplation depth, but you’re just focusing on a sense of noticing that you’re supposed to have, even though the instigation is trying to change that sense of noticing. The decoy is what the instigation is overemphasizing, and the target is your chosen entitled sense of noticing.
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It is now 12:09 PM EST for me. I am going to close this list now. Even though I am choosing to not work May 31, 2021, Memorial Day, I don’t think I will type anything in this blog on that day. I plan to continue typing in this blog next Saturday, so if you are there, I’ll see you then.
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PG-13 strong language and viewer discretion for movie ‘Finding Forrester’. TV-14 sci-fi violence and viewer discretion for tv series ‘His Dark Materials’. Rated R mature themes and viewer discretion for movie ‘Bridget Jones’s Baby’. TV-MA mature themes and viewer discretion for tv series ‘American Gods’ and ‘A Discovery of Witches’. Rated PG fantasy violence and viewer discretion for movie ‘The Nutcracke and the Four Realms’. Rated PG-13 action adventure thriller violence and viewer discretion for movie ‘The Bourne Legacy’. Use only refurbished for advice references recommended. Throw away rest of episode, series, and movie. [Use mental bookmarks ‘Define blame’, ‘Tolerate’, ‘Notice’, ‘Accuse expect fix notice’, ‘Accuse expect’, and ‘Accuse fix’ for reference, allocation, and prevention when needed.